Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I just found out she is pregnant with our first child. I went ahead and hired a PI to find out more about her as she acts a little strange sometime and it turns out she has had 4 counts of animal cruelty against her and spent 6 months in jail for it.

I asked her about this and what she told me was just like out of a horror movie.

Now what should I do considering she is pregnant with my baby? We are at the four month mark. Should I wait for the baby to be born then sue for custody or should I just leave things at the top of the stairs she could trip on.

2007-03-27 09:04:51 · 14 answers · asked by orderless1 1 in Singles & Dating

I miss my step kids terribly, I think about them all the time! I wish they could be with my fiance and I on our Wedding 07/07/07, anyone in the same situation? What should I do? The kids are 6,5 and 3 years old, two summers ago I took care of them for the entire summer but the second they went home to bio-mom and she had to hear about all the fun they had she stopped letting my fiance and I take them! We have a court order to see them but do not have big $$$ to be taking her to court...I'm missing them!

2007-03-27 09:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

5 months ago, I discovered my wife had an affair with my brother and when I discovered this, I also found out she was planning to leave me for him too as she fell out of love with me and in love with him. The reason is because I am in the forces and have spent a lot of time away and the b*****d was around to help with the kids. Well for some reason I found myself begging for her back because I do genuinely love her, and I cant bear thinking of life without her. Also, the dilema of the kids, what will happen with them, I would want custody of them, but my job might get in the way of all that etc. We have been working on it since. We havent had sex since and I am so desperate! She wont let me saying the thought makes her sick. This aside, believe me, I have been doing my best to salvage our relationship, but it doesnt seem to be getting anywhere. She wont see a counsellor as she doesnt think its worth the money. I am hurt and I dont know what to do. I just dont know my options.

2007-03-27 09:04:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She then laughed it off...she is pretty hot, but she works for me. What should I do? Ask her out for a drink?

2007-03-27 09:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:03:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are moving. The place we were going to take was not ready and we r staying with my father in law for 9 days. I have cleaned made lunch for him & hubby to take to work, food shoped, as well as make dinner every night. My father in law is a misirable man. He complains from the minute he awakes until he goes to bed. Also looks to start a fight between me and my husband. The problem is I can not stand living with him. He smells and is discusting + cheap. (if he runs to get coffe he don't ask if anyone else wants any but if you go you need to bring him one) My husband and I will be looking for a house to buy soon. His father wants to live with us. I told my husband no way this was an eye opener. I think we should not say anything and when we move just not ask him to come. He is not ill nor needs to live with anyone. He wanted to move in not to be alone and have something to complain about. My husband feels guilty since we stayed for 9 days.

2007-03-27 09:03:21 · 7 answers · asked by Kat G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

she married with her uncle's son:(((((((((((((((( what can i do? i was friend with her about 7 years..... I LOVED HER :(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

2007-03-27 09:02:47 · 23 answers · asked by Shahab 1 in Singles & Dating

guys, do u like curly gurls? why?

2007-03-27 09:02:40 · 17 answers · asked by emme 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:02:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And is it true that we only fall in innocent liking or love only once and after that its mature love or adult love??? however i prefer the latter!!!

2007-03-27 09:02:16 · 7 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Singles & Dating

I go out with a guy who lives 4 hours away from me. I really like this guy and he likes me back. He is lettin me keep his tie and his watch until the next time i see him. I am lettin him keep a squishy pillow.

2007-03-27 09:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I have been seeing this woman for about 2 months and I love everything about her. We were lying in bed together and I told her that I was falling in love with her and she didn't say it back. She seemed happy and flattered though at the same time and said she wasn't going to say it back until she knew for sure. Now I feel completely powerless in this relationship and even feel as if she backed off a bit , but that last part may just be in my head. Its hard to tell. I haven't said it since and I don't plan on saying it again until she says it. Should I back off on the attention I give her and play it cool or just not change a thing? Any advice would be appreciated. I feel like I jumped the gun on this one.....oops.

2007-03-27 09:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Singles & Dating

What makes you cheat on your partner?
Any answer would be appreciated

2007-03-27 09:01:43 · 15 answers · asked by snowdrop 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 09:01:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My whole family is very pregadis (except my mom) and i dont see why. I think black guys are cute and funny and i think of white guys the same way so why is everybody getting all bent out of shape over interracial relationships? And anybody thats been in one how did people react to you?

2007-03-27 09:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:00:45 · 2 answers · asked by seaside603 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known him for a several months, but I started feeling chemistry between us a few weeks ago. We are in the same class in college 3 times a week this semester.
Often the whole group hangs out after a lecture, but he rarely joins us.He is one of few people in our group who work full time and study at the same time, so he is very busy.
His very good friend is almost all the time with us so I can talk to him whenever. Today "my" guy was absent and I was dying to ask his friend where he was.But I haven`t.I didn`t want it to sound as if I were nosey, but I really missed him.
Hopefully he`ll show up on friday.
I see there is mutual interest, we just have to find our ways to each other, connect somehow. I am dying to meet him better as a person, listen to him, make friends with him.
He is also a few years older than me and I guess experienced(has been in relationships before), so I am kind of nervous about this all, but I`d really like to try.How can I get to know this busy man?

2007-03-27 08:59:56 · 5 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Singles & Dating

but it seems like she keeps making up excuses not to go out again, she says she cant this week and then shes going on holidays for 2 weeks and then she can't go out because of going to see her parents after holiday.

is she avoiding me and if yes then why doesnt she tell me she doesnt want to go out also why would she keep telling me she really likes me. we still text and talk on msn

oh and btw on our first night out we didnt connect that well

2007-03-27 08:59:55 · 11 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Singles & Dating

weve been togther for 6 months and shes told me once or twice that she loved her ex boyfriend more then she loves me. i told her to pick me or him and she picked me soo i htought its all good. but i few weeks later i found out she still talks to him. i seriouslly feel hurt by this but shes a really nice and sensitve girl soo i dont think i should break up with her cause i know itll hurt her alot.plzzz will someone help me????

2007-03-27 08:59:44 · 15 answers · asked by baadsha_007 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this boy ust to have boyfriend girlfriend feelings for each other and now we only have friend feelings for each other how can i get those boyfriend feelings back without forcing him to like me enymore like he ust to ?

2007-03-27 08:59:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"It's just a way of shaming people," said Maury Beaulier, whose firm is in Eden Prairie, Minn.
(shame on you for giving prop's to dead-beat people who make babies, but don't understand the concept of PARENT)

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070325/ap_on_re_us/pizza_wanted_posters;_ylt=Av.LmaHls92ljZo3noyeip5H2ocA

Actually, it's an EXCELLENT example...SHAME...just tie a sign around someones neck, telling the world that they don't pay child support, are molesters, thief, etc. GREAT way to let JQ Public the "goods" on this person.


And it sends a clear message; repeat business for criminal lawyers is bad business for EVERYBODY!

2007-03-27 08:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you give me some specific things to do at home to divert my attention from the heartache of recent breakup

2007-03-27 08:59:08 · 34 answers · asked by reza 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 08:58:23 · 2 answers · asked by rosysk8er 1 in Singles & Dating

Thought having children would help. Started cheating 10 yrs into my marriage to the end. Have great kids 17 yr old girl and 15 yr old boy.Both excellent in school and in activites. Their father is a wonderful man, great provider, & best father. I don't want to keep cheating. The reason I left was I met back with my 1st love & he moved back across country to be with me. I feel I really do love him but can't get rid of this guilt of leaving my family. I left by x the house, his retirement, cars, everthing & only took a few things. Left the kids with him so they wouldn't have to go through more change. I visit 3 & cookk for my family 3 days a week and pre-cook for 3 more. I miss my house I designed I other things as well. The hot tub & pool. I over the yrs tire to tell my x I needed more affection & wanted to do more but the try only lasted a day. TV was his life & to go to bed @ 2 or 3 am. We never traveled so I bought our fun. I pay him 200 to keep living there for our kids. Why guilty

2007-03-27 08:58:17 · 8 answers · asked by DeDe L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 08:58:03 · 39 answers · asked by KING 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 5 year old, but I don't know if I will ever have any more. Sometimes I see my daughter talking to her dolls or stuff and start to feel like I NEED to have another one so she won't be so lonely. I know there are a lot of only children out there... do you like being an only child?

2007-03-27 08:57:50 · 20 answers · asked by Destinee 3 in Family

im not fat but i dont wiegh 115 anymore any ideas, and ive never gave anyone a lap dance, any tips?

2007-03-27 08:57:50 · 19 answers · asked by shariberry251 1 in Marriage & Divorce

More and more of my "innocent" virgin friends are having sex and starting to drink. i'm only 20 and most of my friends are that age too. I'm still a virgin and have never been drunk in my life. am i being responsible or naive or am i just not growing up?

2007-03-27 08:57:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw my future dad and he seems friendly.My mum is definately getting married to him but when my mum was married before my original dad left her and broke our hearts. What shall I do if this marrage doesnt work out? I shall be so depressed...

2007-03-27 08:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Asian Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know some younger guys are attracted to hot women a lil older than them (like in their 40's)....what about women are you all attracted to hot older guys like the guys are the older women?

2007-03-27 08:56:16 · 2 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Marriage & Divorce