I saw my future dad and he seems friendly.My mum is definately getting married to him but when my mum was married before my original dad left her and broke our hearts. What shall I do if this marrage doesnt work out? I shall be so depressed...
2007-03-27 08:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Asian Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Although it is usually tough on the kids, know that a broken relationship has nothing to do with the kids. It's the adults that couldn't live together. Enjoy the happiness you and your mum are experiencing now and don't wait for the other shoe to drop (that's an old expression that basically means waiting for and expecting the bad to follow). No need for you to be anticipating being depressed. YOU control that. Work on yourself as to why you get depressed. Remember, you can be and should be happy. Other people do not control your inner happiness.
2007-03-27 09:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm exceedingly lots the right same project. i'm turning 21 in August, he 22 in Feb - better half and that i've got been at the same time 5 years on Sunday. i do no longer want an engagement to any extent further than 18months to 2yrs. ideally i might choose to attend til i'm 24 to be married, for a similar reason as you - the stupid judging etc. nevertheless relatively what's a year, if we are engaged at 21 and 22, and married at 23 and 24? i might choose to get married in September, so we'd ought to hold off an engagement for 18 months to be married Sept 2014, or we can wait until after my birthday this year (that's the way its looking- previous due this year) and get married Sept 2013 (argh is that an unlucky year?) we've lived at the same time on our very own for over a year, have joint funds, have a domestic dog, i've got moved interstate for him, finished 6 months long distance, finished uni... i'm commencing to experience impatient too, which makes me experience relatively immature, yet i might relatively like the rock on my finger and to make this guy my hubby. Gahhhhh enable me be attentive to the form you circulate :)
2016-10-20 01:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your mother's decision and you should support her because it is her life that is being affected the most. I am sure she has weighed the pros and cons of remarrying and believes it to be the best option.
There are no guarantees in life as you will soon find out in your own life. If the marriage doesn't work out well at least she will have the satisfaction that she gave it a try. Look on the bright side, things may work out great.
2007-03-27 09:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't go into this thinking negative thoughts. Your mom must believe in this guy or she wouldn't be marrying him, so you need to give him a chance. Ask your mom if she can arrange for just him and you to go out to lunch or the movies so you can get to know him. Or if the 3 of you can do some things together. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-27 09:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is good to your Mom, and they truly love each other, do your best to enjoy getting to know him, and discovering the nice things about him that caused your Mom to want to share life with him. Be friendly and welcoming - be yourself. Again, as long as he is good to your Mom, and they are good to each other, enjoy your Mom's happiness with her. Hopefully you will come to find you have made a new friend! Have a great day!
2007-03-27 09:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lotsofwords 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom recently got re-married and I was very hesitant to get to know him, but they seem to be doing fine. Just be happy for her and make an effort to get to know him too. Nothing you can do to prevent anything,
2007-03-27 09:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by I love my Chihuahua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cross that bridge when you get to it.. don't stress over it now, just make the best of the situation, and hope all works out well.
2007-03-27 09:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look on the sunny side of life - assume it's going to work. If it doesn't work out, you can deal with it then!
2007-03-27 08:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not concentrate on how great things will be when it works out instead.
2007-03-27 08:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think that way think possitvie your mom has learned i hope and give the guy a try he may be ok
2007-03-27 09:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋