weve been togther for 6 months and shes told me once or twice that she loved her ex boyfriend more then she loves me. i told her to pick me or him and she picked me soo i htought its all good. but i few weeks later i found out she still talks to him. i seriouslly feel hurt by this but shes a really nice and sensitve girl soo i dont think i should break up with her cause i know itll hurt her alot.plzzz will someone help me????
2007-03-27 08:59:44 · 15 answers · asked by baadsha_007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously she is saying you need to step your game up or she is gone. she likes you. she does. but she feels as though her ex-boyfriend cared for her more. do random things like bring her flowers or send her a note. show her that you really care for her and that you love her an d losing her will devastate you. show her that he is her ex for a reason.
good luck man.
2007-03-27 09:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Justin Sanchez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently it wont hurt her because shell just go to her ex. And i gaurentee you that she hasnt broke up with you yet because her ex probably has a gf right now and when he leaves her theres a good chance shell leave you. Just sit down and talk to her and just tell her straight up...that she shouldnt have to be with someone that she doesnt love and if she loves her ex more then let her go but it probably wont work because if theyve already broke up once then i doubt it will last a second time and when she comes running back to you dont take her back and let her relize how good of a person she couldve loved. hope this helps.
2007-03-27 16:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about how much you're hurting?! You should always think of yourself before you give a flying rat's *** about others! That's not cool. I've been in this situation. I've been your girl (talking to the ex and being with your current bf) and honestly, if she hasn't, she will cheat on you with him. Especially if she still loves him. Trust me. She's just keeping you around cuz she doesn't like to be alone and her ex won't give her what she wants from him (probably a relationship)! Sorry buddy but if you don't get rid of her...you're the one that's gonna get hurt BAD!!!
2007-03-27 16:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by batchick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me she seems as if she may be confused, then again she seems like she knows that she wants him and just does not know how to probably let you go, watch her closely because if she is speaking to him she may even be meeting up with him. I also think that she has feelings for him, be careful because your feelings are on the line. You can be with her but if she starts to really change slowly cut her off!! She just may be looking for a reason to leave you to go back to him!
2007-03-27 16:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...women are allowed to be friends with their ex's...just not allowed to be sexual friends...at least not while they're still going out with you anyways. Hey you can do the same stuff too her partner too....but I again always say,..."two wrongs don't make a right!" Call up your ex and see what she's doing tonight partner! Geezez!!! I say do onto others as they do onto you. You only get as good as you give anyway...and it sounds sorta kinda like she picked you partner...didn't she?
2007-03-27 16:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...you need to break up with her and don't look back. For two reasons: first of all, she is clearly still having feelings for the ex, obviously.... second, because she is so damn tactless and ignorant to realize that you do not actually tell that to the person. Move on, my friend......you can do better.
2007-03-27 16:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know what it's like to be her because I'm going through the same s***. i pretty much love my ex more than anything and the thing is i have a lot of guys that ask me out. so it makes me upset because i don't want to do what she's doing to you. but yet at the same time with her dating you she's trying to get over her ex. and it's good that they still talk but it depends if shes canceling on you to hang out with him. and if she says she loves you give her a chance because it's just as hard as it is for girls to get over guys as it is for guys to get over girls most of the time it's a lot harder. but at the same time it depends on who broke up with who...cause if she broke up with him then she had the time to get over him because she knew she was going to break up with him but if he did the breaking up then she still might be hurt from it (no matter how long ago they broke up)
2007-03-27 16:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by baby b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omigosh, you know what you need to do. NEVER settle for 2nd! She told you, your NOT the one. She is merely settling for you. Why would you accept this? If she wanted you at one time then there are other girls who do as well. Let ONE of them get a hold of you and let her make you number one! And you do right by that person, make her YOUR number one as well. good luck
2007-03-27 16:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please read this again and realize what you are doing she is playing you
You say she chose you no she chose to have both of you especially if she is still talking to her ex she doesnt love you you are to special to have her and good if she is upset dump her and get with someone who truly loves you
2007-03-27 16:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her but don;t break up with her it a stupid reason but just telling her to stop talking to him just say how would you like it if i talk to my ex girlfriend so if you talk to your ex boyfriend ill talk to my ex girlfriend just tell her that shell get the picture.
2007-03-27 16:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by geenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋