Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

Well, I talked to a friend about his bestfriend whom I have a huge crush on, and my friend said that he'd talk to his friend for me and well I maters into my own hands and called the guy and left him a voice mail asking him if he wanted to hang out and though he was busy he said he tried calling back 2xs and that he put my number in his phone... so do I wait and wonder or ask agian in like a week?

2007-03-27 09:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by JCHSpanthergirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so theres this new guy and he treats me so great. I think hes wonderful and attractive but i still have feelings for my ex. Even though my ex wants nothing to do with me, im still holding on to the feelings i have for him. I've tried so hard to let go and sometimes i get better at it but then i see my ex and the feelings come back. I feel like im ruining my new relationship with the new guy even though he doesnt kno about my ex. i want to start something with the new guy but im afraid i would just be hurting him and me. what should i do?

2007-03-27 09:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex is in prision and we have been broken up for 7 years, he has been there for a year now. I have been happily married for 5 years to my husband, but this weekend my ex sent me a letter saying he needs someone to talk to while hes in jail, that he needs my help. He hasnt sent me a letter since hes been there and just sends one out of the blue, what should I do, I still care for him but not in love with him.

2007-03-27 09:24:22 · 14 answers · asked by centwatson 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have a major crush on this guy at my school and I'm friends with him but he has no idea I like him! But I was just about to make my move but he asked out my Best friend and she wasn't going to go out with him because I liked him so I told her it was alright but I really don't like the idea to much and besides I think my crushes Best friend likes me and he's nice and cute and all but he's not my crush oh my god I need advice!!!!!!

2007-03-27 09:23:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about going to co-depentent suppport group but its 100 miles away and will cost me $60 to go and I have to take off work. I don't really care for therapist or I can't find one that I'm comfortable with. I've been reading some of the signs of co-dependency and I think I have it and it wrecked a really great relationship. I blamed it on him until I understood what I was doing. But I think we have a chance or at least I have a chance if we can get well. So has anybody had any results? Don't want meds they just make it worse but I heard ritalin calms you down but I can't get a doctor to give it to me. I got to do something I'm really depressed and this is ruining my life. My work performance is down and I can't get excited about anything but golf and that depresses me because my ex always plays when I do in scrambles.

2007-03-27 09:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by teana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I get so spastic I can't stand it, and the thing is that I worry too much what the guy thinks, or I always worry if I'm doing too much or too little, or saying the wrong things. But I think the reason is that I want to have a steady relationship again, and I probably won't rest until I'm in one again. I've been without a steady guy for 2 years, although I was in a casual relationship for over a year, just ended about 6 months ago because he had to move back home. So..whenever a new guy comes into the picture, I always worry if I become too forward or scare them away, by what I say or how I react to things. I don't know why I get like this, but I need help! I think I'm high strung or something, or a perfectionist? Like I need to know right then & there if he's interested kinda thing. What's wrong with me? =( I think the casual sex relationship messed me up for some reason.

2007-03-27 09:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by angel 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi I am 12 and I am skinny and for some reason I cant eat! I am never hungry anymore I have talked to my mom she doesnt know we went to the doctor they think I need to force myself to eat but I cant! and I am 12 and I way 89 pounds from not being able to eat! what should I do?!?!

2007-03-27 09:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by ilovemissduff 1 in Singles & Dating

for some reason i feel more naturally attracted to white men, than black men, i dont like feeling this way i feel like i should like my race of men equally if not more than any other race. i dont know hot to make sense of how i feel, i think it is because of the really bad experience i had with a black man, my 40 yr old cousin was molesting me and what nott when i was lil girl. maybe this has scarred me in different ways. i thought i was fine and wasnt traumatized from the situation. maybe i have been this whole time. can anyone help me????

2007-03-27 09:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you word that you are having a buffet for the meal but if people are vegan please specify or tell me in advance.
I know for a fact we are inviting about 6-10 vegans so it's enough to ask but not enough to have it at the buffet. We actually don't know who is "vegan" who is just doesn't eat meat so I can't just call people. My cater is going to make them a small seperate vegan meal so I can still have the 3 main meals. How do I work this for the RSVP card?

2007-03-27 09:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok this boy he likes me and hes retarted like really not the mean way and he stalks me if i jump on the trampoline hell just come over and he always asks me what im doing and he keeps asking me out i say no he DOENST GET IT!

2007-03-27 09:22:07 · 1 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay here it goes, Im in high school and i have this situation. I have a boyfriend and we have been toghther for about have a year now, And before you say that its to young to be saying you have a bf, 1st of all its just puppy love( but not in my eyes), and 2nd of all its not about that. What it is about, its this boy at school, and he use to like one of my friends, so since i knew her he always came to me for adivice. But the he told me he liked me. I told him no because my friend liked him to. Ever since then he stop for a while then he started again. But thats when i start dating this boy that is doesnt go to my school, i mean that we are chilld hood friends. So he keeps on flirting and im trying not to hurt his feelings. I dont have feelings for him at all. I just want it to stop before it messes up my relationship. Plus on top of that HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, he claims to be happy but he keeps on asking me out and flirting, and im just tired of it, so all im asking is what should i do

2007-03-27 09:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a white guy, but I go nuts for African and Latina women with junk in the trunk....what happened to me?

2007-03-27 09:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Took a girl out on Sunday for a outing..word date was no used. Thought it went well apart from a few silences. next week we are both off college. when do i call her and ask what she is doing next tuesday or wedensday as i can only manage those days. or does it seem like i am pestering her? shes shy so i am doing the chasing

2007-03-27 09:20:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lanny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:20:20 · 26 answers · asked by Allie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm turning 16 on the 29th and my family keeps asking what i want to do but honestly i have noooooo idea. plz help!

2007-03-27 09:20:15 · 11 answers · asked by Angel M 2 in Family

help i think ive got feelings still for my ex and when i dumped her which was 6 days :S i think.
i think ive still got feelings for her but she has a new bf i dont know what to do.
like half my brain is telling m find another girl the other is saying ask her again but shes with a boyfriend and am getting upset and depressed because of that and am upset about that she used to trust me and stuff but know she doesnt she trusts this other guy.
also i kinda thought she was cheating on me

Help what do i do?

2007-03-27 09:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by C 4 in Singles & Dating

heres the deal.....I met this guy we hung out it was cool started to get close one night we messed around almost had sex but, was interrupted. planned to see each other the next day. He called we made the plans & were supposed to met up in the evening an hour before I went to the store & ran in to him, his Brother & a girl which I found out right away that was his girl(it was obvious) I just kinda looked & walked away. 3 days later he called & said that he was breaking it off with her. I said don't call me again. 2 months have gone by & I still see them every now & then together. But, we ran in to each other 2 1/2 wks .When we talked he said that he really had started to have feelings for me & he was sorry for what happened. he called later that day I didnt answer but, really wanted to! But, I think it is best for me not to pursue him & want to forget about the Impossible. Any suggestions.......(they are not together since the"girl" is dating a friend of mine)

2007-03-27 09:19:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i REALLY NEED to say somthing to the boy that I like , any suggestions?

2007-03-27 09:18:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister just ended a 6 year relationship with her boyfriend and father of her two boys.

At first she thought the two of them would just agree to a "set amount" for child support and visitation. We finally got her to make an appt with my atty after telling her that she needs to at least see what her rights are and that it's best to have it all done through the legal system - now I'm just hoping she'll keep it.

What I'm looking for are any convincing arguements - perhaps personal experience or people you know - that will help us convince her that she's doing the right thing in consulting an atty to have this done.

2007-03-27 09:18:12 · 12 answers · asked by reandsmom77 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 09:17:52 · 5 answers · asked by michelle d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 09:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Singles & Dating

driving a wedge in the rest of the family? I've apologized 3 times and have had no response. Now my brother's surprise 50th birthday party has been planned (by my sister) and my immediate family has been omitted. No one in my extended family is mad at me except her. Tell me what you think about this. I am going to see him but I'm not invited to the party...he doesn't know I'm not invited because he doesn't know about the party.

2007-03-27 09:17:15 · 6 answers · asked by DeborahDel 6 in Family

Ok so me & my ex were together for 2 years and a little more . we were soooooo goood together and i had always been the one to instigate the fights in our relationship. now looking back i relaize this, but the problem is he says he wont give me another chance. since we broke up in september, i can honestly say i have really changed, though he wont talk to me, just once in a while & when i bring back things, he gets mad and says he cant hear this . well, his birthday is on april 1st & im going to send him a card and a CD of songs that we both used to like and listen to together becuase he always wanted me to buRn him a CD but i never did. i realllyy want him backk . and i know its my fault. hes so hard headed and says he will not give me another chance. i don't know what to do he was my first love & everything & after being together for a while, i can not forget him, ever. is this stupid? what should i do? help. anyone! i feel hopeless.

2007-03-27 09:17:00 · 27 answers · asked by babyz a queen ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

cuz i really want to know if this guy likes me but i dont know wat he likes in a so i kinda need help.

2007-03-27 09:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by dancerchik555 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:16:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by theodore k 1 in Family

I know that this is a popular website and it is read by thousands and this is not so much a qeustion but a comment. I work full time as a paramedic in a rural county an on one Saturday morning in October my life changed as well as an entire family and community. A 3 year old child was run over accidentily by a pick-up truck by someone he loved because he did not see him. He looked before backing up and saw all of his children and thought that they were safe. His son ran out to greet him, he backed up, and ran over his head. The child died enroute to the hospital despite our best efforts. His family is in eternal grief and I will NEVER forget that horrible day. I have signed a petition on kidsandcars.com for all large vehicles whether they be garbage trucks or pick up trucks to have warning devices to tell you when there is something in front of your vehicle. This is not often thought about till it hits home. Next time you get in and back up, look carefully. It could save a life

2007-03-27 09:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by medic_onfire 3 in Family

is kind of, free not attached 2 anything no desire, wen i asked her wat she wants she said company of god, or just be left alone, she has no attachment 2 any thing except god...i realy love her can do any thing for her, but all i know she cant be happy with me...(we r not together we talk on phone, i like her n she knows that, she takes me as friend n tells me stuff) she dosnt opens her self 2 anyone not even2 her parents but she is not happy..she is over maya(materialistic desires)... n says wants 2 be alone n by alone she means ALONE no one at all.... she likes emptyness n says she can feel god there in the emptyness.....dont tell me that she needs therapy or treatment coz she knows wats happning, if i'd give her logic she agrees...like if she is talking 2 god its just her subconcious....she agrees n says ya may be it is but she likes that time wen she is alone...i realy love her n want her happy wat should i do....we r aroun 18.....PLZ PLZ help

2007-03-27 09:15:46 · 4 answers · asked by Grunge 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up after 3 years about a month ago. I was still madly in love with him though. He told me he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, but we still continued to talk on the phone everyday which I didn't mind b/c I missed him. After a month went by we had hung out twice as just "friends" but we'd always end up snuggling, and one time we slept together. What pissed me off was he was willing to sleep with me knowing he didn't want to be with me. So I called him last night b/c I wanted to figure out what the hell was going on in our relationship, and what the posibility was of us getting back together. And he said he never did want to get back together. I'm so mad he would lead me on like this, an I'm pissed at how he threw 3 years of my life away. Yet i still miss him so much, and would do anything to be with him. How do I get over him???

2007-03-27 09:15:36 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating