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for some reason i feel more naturally attracted to white men, than black men, i dont like feeling this way i feel like i should like my race of men equally if not more than any other race. i dont know hot to make sense of how i feel, i think it is because of the really bad experience i had with a black man, my 40 yr old cousin was molesting me and what nott when i was lil girl. maybe this has scarred me in different ways. i thought i was fine and wasnt traumatized from the situation. maybe i have been this whole time. can anyone help me????

2007-03-27 09:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i know i should get help for the abuse, but i wanted to kow if other people felt like that is the reason i my not be attracted to black men. i hate feeling that way about my own race

2007-03-27 09:37:05 · update #1

4 answers

There is nothing wrong with being attracted to men of different races, you like who you like and don't let anything stop you from feeling that way. However if you want to like black men and don't because of the experience you went through, then you should get Counseling because it could help to clear up alot of things for you and help you on that path to being attracted to black men (Me personally I do not see why you want to be, but it's your decision). Hope this helps, good luck.

2007-03-27 09:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~(*) Loving Life (*)~ 2 · 1 0

It does point out a fetish and that i pick that attraction and love no longer come to be some thing concerning a fetish. It may also be ok to claim "jungle fever" nevertheless i might pick that the attention on interracial relationships fade. Love is the same whether or not it is with men and women of the equal race or particular racial firms. We don't seem to be from the jungle thus I uncover the time period reasonably antiquated and useless in contemporary society. It's now not an offensive time interval it is with out disorders just a bit dated.

2016-09-05 17:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I wouldn't judge ANY colour,race or nationality by the terrible thing that happened to u when u were young.

If I may say it may be helpful for u to get counselling for the assault u suffered as a child.Thats a terrible thing to happen to any kid, and a hard thing to carry around as an adult.

As for your personal tastes when it comes to physical attraction? well we all have different ones, I wouldnt worry about it.

All races are equal, and we all find different things and people attractive etc.
Dont beat yourself up over it!

2007-03-27 09:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Honey, if you've been abused, you don't belong on something so frivolous and ultimately silly as Yahoo! Answers. If you haven't gotten professional counseling/ therapy for the trauma you endured as a child, you really should. It will probably help you in ways you didn't even know you needed help.

Good luck to you.

2007-03-27 09:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1 0

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