Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

2007-03-27 09:51:44 · 9 answers · asked by francinebars 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has started to become distant with me. He still talks to me, but a lot less than before, and if I tell him he's changed, he doesn't seem to understand what I mean. I miss talking to him but I don't want him to feel like I'm getting in the way of him and his girlfriend, even though I know he wouldn't think like that. But I also don't want him to think I'm jealous of his new girlfriend, which I'm not.

Basically his girlfriend is not the problem at all. He's only started becoming distant with me, but talks to loads of other girls. I've decided to ignore him, but I'm still confused... He's normally a very nice person who wouldn't start ignoring someone for no reason...I don't understand...

2007-03-27 09:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by cassie d 1 in Friends

I have been with my man for 6 months, he is my soul mate I know this and I am his we equal each other. There is a long term relationship that we shear it is like we have been together for years. Well I know deep down he wants to ask me to marry him he has mad many hints. But I know he is really scarred because he thinks he failed his first marriage because his wife cheated and he is afraid of failing another marriage. When confronted how he felt about the whole marriage thing he simply said that we did not need a piece of paper to show commitment?? I am not happy with that I want to hang on to him forever he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I know the way things are between us, the future plans we have that this is a lasting relationship but I want that reassurance that it is me he is dedicated to. Please help another thing is i have 3 kids from my first marriage and he has 2 and we all work as a great team it is hard to put in such small words but we all clic

2007-03-27 09:50:28 · 18 answers · asked by KEL971 2 in Weddings

i liked this guy and i've liked him since 3rd grade and i finally got up the guts to tell him i like him and here was his response: "Oh okay too bad"
im trying soo hard to get over him but i cant!
what should i do???

Mysticgirl

2007-03-27 09:50:01 · 25 answers · asked by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

been with a girl four years since 14 were now 18 we had a kid i paid for everything after the kids born and ive taken care of her for two weeks this girl says the kid might not be mine for 6 months now i have been fighting to get a paternity test cant get them to go what do i do consult an attorney?

2007-03-27 09:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so there is this one guy I've noticed that is starting to like me. But i honestly have no intrest in him. I like this other guy. I just need some ideas on how to give him the impression i don't like him using actions not words.

Ideas

2007-03-27 09:48:58 · 23 answers · asked by cutie.pie_xo 3 in Singles & Dating

Let's hear the people opinion.

2007-03-27 09:48:49 · 21 answers · asked by Richy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

emailed an old childhood friend just to say hi and in the first email he signs off with love, hugs, kisses, calls be babe, hey beautiful, have not spoken to this person for a very long time. says he thought of me often, had dreams about me and him, he had a huge crush on me. etc...even used the love word. but then says we can't let our emotions get to us..I am not the one with the emotions. He just got out of a divorce and remarrying someone he claims she is not the love of his life.

2007-03-27 09:48:37 · 10 answers · asked by mk123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 09:48:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i do...i want to like him but then if it dosent work i dont want to ruin our friendship...what should i do???

2007-03-27 09:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by mnwild1012 1 in Friends

I'm still in love with my ex, but he is not ready for a realtionship. I think about him all the time and I can't get over him. Should I wait or move on?

2007-03-27 09:47:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He just came to my school today. He's new and he's mature. When he got here all he did was look at me and stare. Yeah he bit his lips at me a couple of times, and i did it back, but im sure it's nothing and i probably misunderstood it. I really want him, what should i do? I'm mature also. We've been passing notes the whole day, and I asked him if he wanted to be friends. He said yes. I really want to be his girlfriend, what should i do?

2007-03-27 09:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a guy thats in the Army, I care about him deeply. It's hard not being able to see him as much as I'd like, and it's only going to get worse at the end of the year when he goes back to Iraq for a year. I was just wondering how the other military girlfriends/wives get through the long seperation.

2007-03-27 09:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by puckbabeald 2 in Singles & Dating

Please, no one report me! I kno this is in the wrong category, but I needed a place, this "person" wouldn't look.

ok, the thing is,I was in foster care, last feb. for being molested by my step dad.This feb.we had a court case, that they resheduled to march the 26th (yesterday).I told the DA that i lied about everything, even though, i didn't. the reason i lied was,i knew that once he was put in jail, then we would have to move, because of no money.i also knew , my brother hated me,and my neighbor did too.that's why i lied.now, yesterday (yes, same day as the court case)my mom, told him to do our grass.he came in the house and gave me a hug,we haven't seen each other in a year.so,i feel dirty,and like, i don't want to live at home any more, because i don't want to see him at all.
am i just being stupid? oh yeah, before the case was dropped, and the restraing order thing was lifted, my mom would leave me alone alot to go to his house and hang with him.
what should i do?

2007-03-27 09:47:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... when you got your first kiss?

i'm in 16 and haven't gotten mine, anybody else in the same boat. i need a bit of moral support.

2007-03-27 09:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants to become a "clamper"... All he tells me is that he has to go through some type of "boot camp." What is a clamper and why would you want to be one?

2007-03-27 09:46:18 · 2 answers · asked by Jenny . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please read this all before you answer! I have a GF that her, and I have been together for 2 yrs. I made the mistake of cheating on her with my roomate about a year ago. Ever since then the roomate and I continue to live together because I am not stable enough to get out on my own and my relitives live too far away for her, & I to see each other on a regular bases if I were to go live over there. She brings up the past ALL THE TIME, and talks to her friendswhich says she needs to break up with me. I know it was a mistake and I am lucky to continue to have her, but all at the same time I cannot deal with the past being thrown at me all the time. What should I do?????

2007-03-27 09:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, i'm the son of a soon to be divorced pair of parents, I don't want any sorrow or anything I want to know why or if the courts favor the woman even if they gamble 6-12 hours a day and provide little to the family

2007-03-27 09:45:44 · 15 answers · asked by dadewk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i want to get back with my ex but not in a long term relationship thing i want to get back with him and make him want me soo bad becasue som girl took hima way from me and i want her to feel what she did to me ( she didnt care about my feeling when she did it) is this wrong i want to make him want me soo bad then just throw him out well if i dont get caught up with my game i miss him alot bbut then im so over him we have so much unfished bussiness too we broke up out of no where with no qustions ask it was weried like we force too wat should i do should i get him back cuz thta would be some be *** revenge rite???

2007-03-27 09:45:36 · 1 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been involved with the same guy for 12 years now, just recently when we were having sex he uninated inside of me and grossed me out he has done this twice now and he denys it but the urine smells and he is just rude thinking im weird or something. Is this a normal behaviour? How can he urinate during sex and being errect? please help!!

2007-03-27 09:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it possible to make yourself fall out of love so that you can break up with someone and move on? if so how do you do it? i need to not love him so i can tell to get out of my life cause i know he isnt good for me but i cant do it cause i love him so much. so how do you make yourself move on?

2007-03-27 09:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well this boy in my art class is always touching my arm and it freaks me out! he calls me fat and im not freaken fat! and today i was walking the track and he was going to trip me and he is really ugly! can people help!

2007-03-27 09:44:09 · 28 answers · asked by xhollisterx33 1 in Friends

as they both claim it is the other ones mess! ive tried dividing the room into 2 halfs for them to look after their own part, but its really not big enough. short of moving into a bigger house what can I do to stop the arguements??

2007-03-27 09:43:59 · 30 answers · asked by caz5316 2 in Family

I was sooooo in love when I met my first true love - my ex boyfriend. We was together for 3,5 years. He was always looking at other girls, he had one acquaintance. It hurt badly, but I never said anything. When I left abroad for 3 months, he started dating this “friend”. Of course it ruined our relationship. So I went to work abroad for one year. Naturally he got together with that xxx after few weeks.. He was texting me when I was away that I was the best he ever had and he won’t be happy ever in his life. But he is still together with her. I realized that this year apart hasn’t changed anything. It still hurts badly. We don’t talk anymore.. maybe sometimes a few sentences on internet, but very rarely. But I think about him all the time. Last time he said that he likes that girl, but he can’t say her that he loves her and he hopes he will with the time . HOW CAN HE SAY IT TO ME?! I don’t know what to do? Shall I meet him? But I have my pride! But I don''t want him to be with HER!!!!

2007-03-27 09:43:50 · 16 answers · asked by Elisabetta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay,
so it turns out that I am gay after being in denial for two years. I am just so afraid to tell my parents because they are very religous and against homosexuality. However, my friends are excited for me so it's like i can be me at school and with friends but not at home and at church. I need some help here?

2007-03-27 09:43:46 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't like to have intercourse from behind, but my husband wants to perform that kind when we have sex. Well not all the time, I have let him perform it in the past but it's been a few years. I personally don't like it because of cours it is not pleasant. I am curious.....do all men like to perform anal sex?

Like I said we have done it before, but I really don't like it. When he asks I say No, but don't want him to get mad or not please him?

My husband and I have been married for 11 years and our sex life has been great at the beginning and has been steadily good the rest of the years. With two growing girls and the caos of work, school, and children it's hard to electrify our life.

2007-03-27 09:43:44 · 2 answers · asked by ((surimi)) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 09:43:28 · 13 answers · asked by kdawg_nfl_legend 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:43:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, I am having all kinds of thoughts enter my mind right now. I am thinking of how nice it would be to not answer to anyone and enjoy life again.

2007-03-27 09:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce