is it possible to make yourself fall out of love so that you can break up with someone and move on? if so how do you do it? i need to not love him so i can tell to get out of my life cause i know he isnt good for me but i cant do it cause i love him so much. so how do you make yourself move on?
2007-03-27 09:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The main thing you have to do is overcome your fear of being single. As soon as you can do this, you'll find it much easier to break free from him. Getting ridding someone who is bad for you is a good thing to do for yourself. Once you take that first step to treat yourself right, you will start to like certain things about being free and single.
On the other hand, if you continue on this path, you will get mad at yourself when he ends up really severely hurting you. You will be mad that you didn't walk away when you had the chance.
Just break up with him and enjoy single life. Forget about his selfish needs and start bettering your life. You deserve it.
Good luck.
2007-03-31 05:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by bradpittstuntdouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are half way there, you aknowledge he aint good for you, that's a hard step. Now you have to just do it, it will be hard, but keep on going, keep yourself busy, and cut contact UNTIL you are strong and realize it was the best decision you ever made, for yourself! Good luck!
2007-03-27 16:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by imix3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u can fall out of love but u cant make urself do it, if u try its most likely not gonna work just like wen u try t make urself fall in love wit someone but if u know hes bad for u do wat u have to do wether u love him or not. Gud Luck!
2007-03-27 18:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by blah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is just like falling off a horse---you must get back on; therefore if he falls out just put him back in.
2007-03-27 16:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can't. and if you say you "fell out of love" then sorry but you were never in love. if you love someone and want to be with them forever , want kids and couldn't live without them then your in love. if you like someone and don't want all of this then your not in love. believe me i thought i was in love but i really wasn't. you'll know if your in love.
2007-03-27 17:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by girlwithq's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could forget the one u love but it takes a while....and its painful too but u can do it ......it takes time and ditance ...but if u love someone u let him go and if he comes back then u guys should be together
2007-03-31 12:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Joanna A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋