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is kind of, free not attached 2 anything no desire, wen i asked her wat she wants she said company of god, or just be left alone, she has no attachment 2 any thing except god...i realy love her can do any thing for her, but all i know she cant be happy with me...(we r not together we talk on phone, i like her n she knows that, she takes me as friend n tells me stuff) she dosnt opens her self 2 anyone not even2 her parents but she is not happy..she is over maya(materialistic desires)... n says wants 2 be alone n by alone she means ALONE no one at all.... she likes emptyness n says she can feel god there in the emptyness.....dont tell me that she needs therapy or treatment coz she knows wats happning, if i'd give her logic she agrees...like if she is talking 2 god its just her subconcious....she agrees n says ya may be it is but she likes that time wen she is alone...i realy love her n want her happy wat should i do....we r aroun 18.....PLZ PLZ help

2007-03-27 09:15:46 · 4 answers · asked by Grunge 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

give her space she might need to get her head cleared. Not everyone needs someone to be happy.

2007-03-27 09:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0 0

Thats a complicated situation. and I'm sorry for it. I dont know if any advice I could give you would change much but here it goes!

Keep reassuring her that you care for her and want her to stay in your life. She knows your feelings and sooner or later she will come around. Maybe she is going through a phase of depression...lets face it we all have. If you love her then you will be patient. You will remember why you loved her in the first place and you will allow yourself to stay grounded. It could be that she wants to know that you know God before she goes any further with you......maybe you soudl try praying adn asking God to talk to you and have him tell you what needs to be done.

2007-03-27 09:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 4 · 0 0

Duh....leave her alone. IF she choose to be alone then it's her sole decision....nothing you can do will make her happy. If she is happy with the Lord then that's the one who meets her needs, you can't, so just leave her alone.

2007-03-27 09:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~(*) Loving Life (*)~ 2 · 0 0

did she say she was unhappy? i didnt hear that...so maybe she's happy how she is, the way things are. youre the one who seems unhappy that she isnt moving into a different kind of happiness..with you. join her. peace

2007-03-27 09:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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