Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I broke up with my ex bf about 4months ago. We recently made contact with each other and ended up sleeping together. I broke up with him btw because I was afraid to get hurt. He does not want a committment, etc. but agreed to be exclusive with me. I broke up anyway. Now he is casually dating another chic (whom I didn't know about until afterwards) and he has told me that she is leaving in a few months anyway. Here's the question, what does he want from me? Usually when he contacts me, he does not want sex or even to meet up. He usually just wants to say hi. I am so confused. What does he want?? I am the one who initiates the physical part..UGH!! HELP!!!

2007-03-27 09:14:58 · 21 answers · asked by Siren_Cin 2 in Singles & Dating

i said u don't tell me what 2 do and look should i fight her or leave it alone and deal with him

2007-03-27 09:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am on a dance team. Everything was fine, but then come December, it's like everyone can't stand me. I am quiet, but I made a point of going out with the girls once in while and conversating. I have a degree, I am helpful, I hardly complain, the coach likes me, I am a pretty good dancer, so what's the problem? Most of the girls are blonde, loud typical "princess" girls, where I am not like that. I don't hold it against them, but I don't pretend to be something I'm not either. We are all in our twenties, so you'd think they'd be more mature than that. Where exactly did I go wrong that everybody dislikes me so much? I am not imagining this either; it's pretty obvious.

2007-03-27 09:14:35 · 16 answers · asked by Melissa 6 in Friends

2007-03-27 09:14:15 · 25 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I leave her to go find peace and happiness? The main reason would be because she is A N A L about everything and is constantly on my case daily about the stupidest things. Should one continue to live unhappy? I am not very happy in my marriage. What should I do?

Serious answers only please.

2007-03-27 09:14:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this in my History class his name is Todd I think he likes me. I mean he flirts with me all the time but he does have a history of being a huge flirt. Though it seams with me its different i mean he gets really jealous when i talk to other guys and he gives me nicknames and other stuff like that. I think he would ask me but his close friend is my ex bf who is still in love with me. What do I do???? My ex is so distroying my love life!!!

2007-03-27 09:13:44 · 15 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Singles & Dating

is there any irish here, or just all US, Of A, citizens only

2007-03-27 09:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So tell me–what?

2007-03-27 09:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well heres the problem. me and my bff like the same guy. (lets call him tyler) well tyler asks my bff out today. at first she wasn't sure about going out with him. i thought they would be a good couple so i encouraged her to go out with him. (i thought she wouldn't actually say yes) and she said yes. i know i should be happy for her but now i am juss sad.

2007-03-27 09:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by נυѕт ѕмιℓє 5 in Friends

i have this guy that likes me but i dont like him. he is just a friend to me. he is short and kind of cute. how do i let him down but dont ruin our relationship. he has been my friend since 1st grade. i just want to be friends. i kind of like him but i dont know. what to do. help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-27 09:12:24 · 35 answers · asked by Goomba 1 in Singles & Dating

well i was wonderin if guys lyk girls lyk me... cuz i have brunette hair w/ blonde highlights, green eyes, i am curvy, i am prefered 2 have uhhh big ones(if u no what i mean), and i am also preferd to as hott..... please help me......

2007-03-27 09:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do when the person you like isn't there anymore?

2007-03-27 09:11:26 · 11 answers · asked by Oscar T 1 in Friends

my and my ex-girlfriend are still very good friends. she now likes another one of our friends, but thats where the problem lies. i am still in love with her. does anyone have any advice to help me get over her, or even to just lessen the pain?

2007-03-27 09:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Dragoon 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year and now all of a sudden I never get to see him like I want to. Man this sucks!!!

2007-03-27 09:10:55 · 7 answers · asked by Sxy is tha name 1 in Singles & Dating

my grandma passed aways a few years ago. she ways taken care of me .i would like to know how can i get the money she had in the bank . she didn't have a wiil

2007-03-27 09:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by Jamila 2 in Marriage & Divorce

people we've slept with, now things are diffrent, i don't get it.

I'm in my late 30's its not like i just jump in the sack when ever the mood hits me, (I can take care of that myself) there has to be some kind of connection there before I sleep with someone.

So please explain to me what the hell happen?

2007-03-27 09:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go to school 6 hours away from my boyfriend. We have been dating for 3 years, but things get hard at times. Any advice to make our relationship work better?

2007-03-27 09:10:33 · 3 answers · asked by Mody1704 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had strong feelings for a friend of mine for over a year now. We live in different areas of the country but when we get together we hang out as friends and sometimes hook up but its hard for me to express how I feel because we are always saying goodbye. I just recently visited him and had a great time and now I am home and have all these things I wish I would have said when i was with him.

2007-03-27 09:10:10 · 18 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 25 2 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago because i heard that he was going to reak up with me. it made sense to me though because he had been acting weird fot the week before. so i broke up with him, still totally in love with him. as soon as i did it, i walked away crying my heart out. the next day i found out the he was never going to break up with me and that he was acting weird because his knee had been killing him [[he has a bad knee]] and he didnt tell me that becaause he didnt want me to think that he was a wimp. he was my first kiss [[make out]] and ive gone farther with this guy than i have with any other boyfriend that ive ever had. i called his cell begging him to take me back and leaving messages while i was crying. he wont even talk to me but he talks **** about me behid my back. but i REALLY love him. we went out for about 2 and a half months. im planning to pull him aside after school today to talk to him personally about us going back out. should i do it? or not?

2007-03-27 09:09:35 · 2 answers · asked by Harlee 2 in Singles & Dating

i find it hard to flirt if they dont start it, what are some tips or ideas that you have

2007-03-27 09:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Singles & Dating

We ahve been going out for over a year now, and we are in love. But I know that at the age of twenty two I was certainly not looking for a serious relationship, although I found myself in one. Because I wasn't ready for that relationship, I broke up with the guy after 6 years, although I know that I did love him amd we were compatible. I am afraid that although my current young thing does love me, and thinks he will stay with me, that he is too young to know that. I really want kids, and if I stay with him I will have to wait until he is old enough, and risk that he will dump me just at that time. agh, I know I will stay with him anyway but I need reassurance. Any positive experiences of this?

2007-03-27 09:08:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having my first sleepover soon and I don't know what to do. I'm going to be a teenager and want to make it fun. I already thought about inviting a few friends, and things like that. I just don't know what to do. HELP!!!!!

2007-03-27 09:08:32 · 12 answers · asked by TaNnEr RuLeS XD 2 in Friends

My boyfriend's been out of the house since he left to the Marines. He barely owns anything but a decent album size of porn. He tells me he often uses that for his self pleasure (basically everytime i go over it is porn inside his dvd player). Is it normal? and for a guy like that, could he possibly sleep next to a girl without having sex with her? Or say no to a girl who's willing to give?

2007-03-27 09:08:19 · 1 answers · asked by ruby433c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 09:07:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lover in Pain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been out the dating scene for a long,long time and recently I started talking to a guy that I met in church through a mutual friend. We went out to eat pizza with some of his family and we had a good time. That was about 3wks ago. The problem is that he hasn't call since then. He calls his nephew,but not me. His nephew tells me that he has call him asking if I like him. I want to know the same thing. So the other day I broke down and called him. He didn't seem to want to talk. So he told me that he would call me that night,but he didn't. I am the type of person that refuses to run behind anybody especially a man. So what should I do?

2007-03-27 09:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by readingsingingsleeping 1 in Singles & Dating

They've been broken up for about a month now and I really like him. Even if she doesn't mind, does this make me a bad person?

2007-03-27 09:07:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok just a couple weeks ago my church went on a winter trip and the girl i like came to i tryed to make eye contact with her all the time and when ever i did then we would be staring at eactother for like 15 secounds then my buds would nudge on me and say hey its your turn roll the dice. by the way im in 7th grade and so is she and i just hope i coulld talk to her or have one of my buds talk to her. please help 7th grade girls and everyone else!

2007-03-27 09:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will re-enact the activities of that evening by going to a comedy club followed by a stop at our favorite club on South Beach. What do you think would be a nice gift to commemorate the occasion?

2007-03-27 09:06:38 · 8 answers · asked by J.C. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like true love is when no matter what happens in ones life you and the person you are in love with will always be together. Unconditional Love. Some people don't understand this term. No matter what comes up in your life, no matter the situation that person will be there. Every waking moment. The only situation that you have no control over is death. Hence the phrase "till death do us part". This is how I feel, I want to see how you all feel about the situation.

2007-03-27 09:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Niddy G 2 in Singles & Dating

an effect on the type of person you are today and the functioning of your relationships?

Is there a pattern that continues to follow you?

2007-03-27 09:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Other - Family & Relationships