Can a guy who's into porn really be loyal?

Question

My boyfriend's been out of the house since he left to the Marines. He barely owns anything but a decent album size of porn. He tells me he often uses that for his self pleasure (basically everytime i go over it is porn inside his dvd player). Is it normal? and for a guy like that, could he possibly sleep next to a girl without having sex with her? Or say no to a girl who's willing to give?

Answer 1

Its much, much more complicated then you having to worry about him cheating. But I would be cautions... the fact is if he still in need of having porn around he hasn't made it very far in his own personal development. In other words, his sense of self, his pride, is still attached to his balls. As that he still doesn't feel satisfied with himself enough to accully enjoy an intimate relationship. So I'm pretty sure he is lackin in the intimacy (doesn't mean sex!) department. Which why you must feel like your in love with a stranger sometimes. Ether way entil you've accully made love to an individual, even sex with strangers feels like fun! But once you've had that it becomes increasing hard to just look at naked people, its not because its sick or anything like that, it just doesn't mean as much, but to him it still means alot. BE CAREFUL. Chances are his heart isn't in it as far as yours is right now!