I have been out the dating scene for a long,long time and recently I started talking to a guy that I met in church through a mutual friend. We went out to eat pizza with some of his family and we had a good time. That was about 3wks ago. The problem is that he hasn't call since then. He calls his nephew,but not me. His nephew tells me that he has call him asking if I like him. I want to know the same thing. So the other day I broke down and called him. He didn't seem to want to talk. So he told me that he would call me that night,but he didn't. I am the type of person that refuses to run behind anybody especially a man. So what should I do?
2007-03-27 09:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by readingsingingsleeping 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait for him to come on to you meaning if he cares surely he will come around to be the man for you.
2007-03-27 09:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a Conservative Christian, I have had similar rejection feelings, and they hurt. Now if you may have said something that might have given His parents a reason to be concerned, that would for sure affect His reaction towards you. Personally, I would go see His mother, and have a old time chit-chat session, heart to heart. If you really care for Him, His Mother will have a strong protection for her baby. It sounds like (reading between the lines )you deeply care, but pride is getting in the way. Kick it away girl, go for it !!
2007-04-04 04:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is nott acting his age. Let it go, find a nrew person.
If he was a man, he would keep his word and talk to you personally face to face without about feelings ya have for each other instead getting a thrid party. Thats so elemenatary. You deserve someone who can do so better and be a man and talk to you about feelings for each other.
2007-03-27 09:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it be. If he doesnt want to talk or call, he doesnt want to talk or call. Simple as that. If he really liked you he would have called. He probably just wanted to hang out and have a good time.
2007-04-04 09:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to forget about the guy. If he doesnt call u then obviously he isnt very interested. or maybe hes just not ready to date yet. I think you should just give him some time and get to know him.
2007-03-27 09:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by dancerchik555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.....is he really shy? Either that or he is simply not interested. I would just stop calling him all together and if he contacts you, then you can go from there. I don't chase....especially if they seem to run faster.
2007-03-27 09:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him again, wait until he calls you. Either he is in a relationship or he doesn't like you.
2007-04-04 04:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by tasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just met really. maybe he's not adjusted to exchanging friendly hellos...maybe didnt have room to date and needs to do that or maybe not ready to do that. give him a chance to think about it some more. are you in a hurry? peace
2007-03-27 09:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he'll call back, but dont wait around for anyone.
2007-04-04 06:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy. waiting for a guy isnt worth it. if he stood u up like that, just forget him.
2007-03-27 09:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Harlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋