im not fat but i dont wiegh 115 anymore any ideas, and ive never gave anyone a lap dance, any tips?
2007-03-27 08:57:50 · 19 answers · asked by shariberry251 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a man - Here are some legitimate ideas. A lot of areas local comunity centers sponsor classes, yes there are classes, to teach basic sexy dancing. There are also available online video's that teach this exact thing. Remember, your husband loves you for who you are. spicing up the sex life can be enjoyable for both. Classes and videos are also available for him. I hope this helps you. Good Luck
2007-03-27 09:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by f20nala06 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my wife and I have been married 25 years and a long time ago i used to go to some strip clubs with my friends. My wife asked me one day how can we go there and look at other mens wifes and girl friends and watch them strip for you. She asked me how I would like it?? Never answered her so one night my friends and I were there just watching. Little did we know my wife came in and asked the owner if she could get up and dance a few songs. Well she did and she did strip in front of us and my friend put some money (well you know where) A night i will never forget you should try it
2007-03-27 09:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence and Mood and of course Lingerie is the key....
Hmm, I bought the DVD "Strip Tease Aerobics" with Carmen Electra. It was a whole lot of fun practicing, and getting my body in shape at the same time. (helped me with confidence)
I set the room with low lighting, and of course a big fluffy chair. (didn't care for hard chairs..couldn't get the groove on)
I downloaded some nice songs to set the mood a little more, and when he came home from school. The room was ready for action. You could tell he wasn't ready for what was about to happen.
Once I sat him down, helped him relax...then started the music, and the show was on the road. WOW!! Lot's of fun, he keeps asking me to do it again, and again, and again!
YOU CAN DO IT!!!
2007-03-27 09:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go for it! Your husband will direct you. I read this book that enticing your mate by surprise will keep life in your marriage. They can't wait to get home to see what kind of surprise you have for them. Don't do it to often though. Lap dances are good and you can even get poles built into your bedroom now. It doesn't matter what size you are just you trying to do the thang will inspire him! GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-27 09:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tettypu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a strip club and watch the dancers there to see what they do. Ask them for pointers, they might help you.
STRETCH CAREFULLY FIRST!!! The last thing you want is to pull a hamstring muscle or roll your ankle or tweak your back, leaving you unable to enjoy the fruits of your labor.
2007-03-27 09:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ill leave the answers to some people..but for me a little booze would really bring out the confidence. Thats what I usually do to be in the mood for dancing...
2007-03-27 09:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by stilettofan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no small barbie myself and I have gained amazing confidence in the new trend of lap/exotic/and pole dancing.
go to www.xposefitness.com
its great for ANY age and ANY size.
I love it and so does my boyfriend.
2007-03-27 09:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lori A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should strip him first, then you last. Have fun with it and do take your time! Put on something nice that he likes to see you in, be creative and enjoy!
2007-03-27 09:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch some porn..
Go to a few strip clubs..
2007-03-27 09:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carman Eletra makes tapes on how to do this
you can buy them from Amazon
2007-03-27 09:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋