I miss my step kids terribly, I think about them all the time! I wish they could be with my fiance and I on our Wedding 07/07/07, anyone in the same situation? What should I do? The kids are 6,5 and 3 years old, two summers ago I took care of them for the entire summer but the second they went home to bio-mom and she had to hear about all the fun they had she stopped letting my fiance and I take them! We have a court order to see them but do not have big $$$ to be taking her to court...I'm missing them!
2007-03-27 09:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do take her to court pro-se. This means you have your man go to the court house and ask for a pro se packet for contempt of court charges against his ex for visitation denial. (interference of the custody of a child) in some states this is a police report and arrest...the woman could spend up to 6 months in jail for refusing to abide by the court order. Where is he to pick these kids up? What does his court order state? Have him BE there & call the police showing them the court order. The police MUST uphold the court order. FILE the contempt paperwork! It might be FREE for him if he fits the poverty guidelines. Otherwise its less than $50 to file it. I know, I've had to go to court pro se SEVERAL times! I won too! They are NOT allowed to change the court order themselves.
My b/f's exwife told their kids NOT to hang out with me. That it's NOT visitation with me. But he lives with ME so they have to be around me. He threatened to take her to court for NOT allowing him to see his kids last summer. She has since then reconsidered and he gets them every other weekend. But before the kids liked me she was letting us have them 4-5 nights a WEEK so she could go out to the bars!
2007-03-27 09:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 13:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by ashworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it is VERY hard for a mom to let her kids get close to someone as in another mom. been there and it scary.What you need to do is first of all talk to the mom in public so there wont be and big arguments maybe over coffee. and you need to reassure her that you DO NOT want to be there mother they one and you just want them to be safe and happy it wont be easy it took me a year to get to that point.it's hard ..maybe you hubby can talk to her and see what her concern is about you and then work from there...communication is the key and remembering you all want whats best for the children
2007-03-27 09:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
super sweet, fun ages to grow a fond attachment. sad that the bio mom wouldnt want everyone to love her kids...if reflects on her...that it shows she's doing a good job that they are lovable babies. you should let her know that. maybe she wants some love too. hehe peace
2007-03-27 09:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose its up to thier father and mother. Hopefully, he can get some rights as far as them attending the wedding.
2007-03-27 09:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter went through this, but without alot of money to fight her in court, theres not much that can be done about this. she is jealous of u, and how happy u are, and your upcoming wedding, so she is going to punish u for it.
2007-03-27 09:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but if you are not the bio Dad you have very little rights.
2007-03-27 09:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you just love the vindictive ones?
I forgot, that's about 99.999999999999999%
2007-03-27 09:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋