Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

I got in a fight with my boyfriend last night, cause I looked in his cell phone , and I found two girls numbers, I yelled at him, and ask them who they were, and he said , I met them before , at a party he took me, and they are just friends, that he loves me and only me, and he gave me his phone and he said that I could delete it, if it would make me, happy, and I did, but I told him I till dont trust him, and I told him that if I ever see girls phone numbers in there again , It will be over with us, and he started crying, and he kept telling me, that he will not cheat on me, and he tellls me that the girls were putting the numbers in his cell, I dont know if I could trust him, we been going out for two years, and he saids he wants to marry me, and have kids, he said's he's not friend's with them anymore, cause he thinks I dont want him to have girls , just as friends, and I dont., How can I trust him, everytime I bring it up of him cheating on me, he crys.

2007-03-26 06:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

I need some interpretations on a couple dreams! A little background info first. I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months. Things are great. I really care for him alot. Last week sometime I had a dream that he sent me a text message telling me he loved me. Then last night, I had a dream that we got married.

What are the interpretations of marriage in a dream?

2007-03-26 06:11:17 · 2 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

In a relationship, do women control men with sex? If so, why and for what purposes? For instance, could a woman keep the frequency to a minimum to keep the man wanting her more?

2007-03-26 06:11:17 · 7 answers · asked by Northstarr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love to give my friends (close and not-so-close ones) things they have been really wishing for. i just find that their faces when they receive the gifts are priceless. and worth my money.

is this normal? it's just that i see people around me don't give gifts much. and my bro said it's a waste of money. but i find myself happy when my friends are happy. sometimes i'm left broke buying gifts (i have a lot of friends). should i stop?

2007-03-26 06:11:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiancee has cheated on me with a girl I actually have seen her picture, so I know vividly what she looks like. He swears that she went to get on him (to have sex) and he pushed her off. These images are in my head and I just want to get them out! We are trying to work things out and everything I have asked him to do, he's done. He also says that the particular incident I am talking about was back in November and hasn't happened since. She used to come see his band play and he no longer plays and is home 100% of the time so I'm not affraid of him doing it again. I just want the images gone. Can someone help?Thanks

2007-03-26 06:10:32 · 15 answers · asked by PNJ T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 06:09:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say you go out with your hubby, all his friends are there and within an hour he leaves you, never to be seen until the end of the night. It's not like there is no room at the table and he doesn't come back to see you or even drop off a drink on his way by. You end up talking to people but you notice that many married couples seem to always come back to each other long before yours. I hate crowds and grow nervous if I don't know anyone, he knows this but he just doesn't seem to care and leaves me alone. His so called friends have been known to hit on me and he is nowhere to be found. No amount of talking works, I don't want him around me all night but shouldn't there be some kind of happy medium? Am I asking too much? He carries on with friends and their girlfriends and seems to remember me at the end of the night and gets all lovey when we get home. Should I get over it or do I have a reason to be slightly irritated by his lack of attention during outings?

2007-03-26 06:09:27 · 19 answers · asked by trojan 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me..

2007-03-26 06:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by Erin J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 06:08:39 · 38 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

He was listed as the father on the birth certificate, but since my relationship with my adopted have not been on good terms since I was 19, she may not give me the information she has on my father. What do I do?

2007-03-26 06:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Chris D 4 in Family

My sister is getting married and moving into her new home soon. What will be a good gift I can mail it to her?

2007-03-26 06:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by Soo K 1 in Weddings

He was listed as the father on the birth certificate, but since my relationship with my adopted have not been on good terms since I was 19, she may not give me the information she has on my father. What do I do?

2007-03-26 06:08:06 · 1 answers · asked by Chris D 4 in Family

I had a very bad relationship with my childrens dad we had kids early on in the relationship and little by little i found him out to be a compulsive liar and a theif i thought i could change him and help him but nothing worked and i couldnt trust him in my house with money ect i payed for the kids hiding money etc we moved away and 2 yrs later he wants to see the kids i cant trust him in the house or outside to be a good influence etc should i let him see them i mean he even got my daughter to steal sweets in tesco and thought it was funny. Stealing from his friends and family. I just want him to go away. Any advice for my situation guys.....? Thanks in advance x

2007-03-26 06:07:58 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My new boyfriend was my friend for a really long time. At the beginning of our relationship, he started showing tell-tale signs of falling in love, but I just got hurt real bad by it, and I dont want to be in love. Luckily, I didn't say those words to him even when I wanted to. He's supposed to be my date for the spring formal next month, but I recently found out that he still heavily messes around with other girls. He doesn't know that I know, but I just told him "dont flirt with hell when you got heaven." (yeah i made that up lol). and weve only been going out for 2.5 weeks. I want to duke it out until after formal (that way I can see if things change). Should i take a different approach or am i doing the right thing?

2007-03-26 06:06:38 · 7 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

We talk fluently about lots of subjects but when he comes to say "I like you so much" or "You are special to me" or "I've got fellings to you" I turn so much confused and barely say "Thank you' (sounds stupid) i know ... later, he asked me for a (slow dance) but I was so shy ... i like him for real but at same time I dont know how to overcome my shyness ... moreover he encourages me saying :"I like your shyness".
Any advice?

2007-03-26 06:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

What if you had a friend and she/he changed a lot their attutude and the way they act toward to you and was really hateful what would you do.

2007-03-26 06:06:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do they give you disposable under wear....I don't wan't to go naked on bottom....so what do you recommend....also what are the rooms like/do they have doors that lock or just curtains....cuz I want my privacy...lol...basiclly what is the process from the time you walk in to the time you walk out...Thanks sooooooo much...bye

2007-03-26 06:05:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can it harm the baby

2007-03-26 06:05:02 · 44 answers · asked by o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and I had a party a week ago and there was this black guy named derek and he is 23. We had gone out about three times and we had sex in the back seat of the limo after my party.
Now I am scared I am pregnant and what to tell my parents if I am?

2007-03-26 06:05:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let’s say a Ferrari for example. Would you complain that you missed out on driving a pinto, escort, gremlin, or any of those other beaters?

This is the only reason I am able to stay married, because the woman I married is HOT. While the majority of you women out there are the equivalent of those aformentioned beaters.

2007-03-26 06:05:01 · 12 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant never seem to find one. I dont get it. I am a pretty attractive guy, although I know that will not get you to far with women. I am in good shape and have a nice job. Love my family, funny guy who is really laid back. I get a lot of complements from women and hang out with a lot of them,but just cant get one to date me. Maybe I am to nice. Do women really want jerks??

2007-03-26 06:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by sirloin 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't know how to do it. I am not very outgoing or talkative!

2007-03-26 06:04:38 · 12 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 06:03:40 · 5 answers · asked by nice_ja 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a cop. His dad is a therapist. Recently my husband has been drinking alot at night to the point where he doesnt remember screaming at me, calling me names, and pushing me. He texts my friends at 1-2 am all sorts of text msgs.... in the past some have been dirty, and recently they have just been silly comments, things that dont make any sense. This only happens when he drinks! Other than that, he is an amazing husband and father to his daughter. (daughter is from a previous marriage) Anyways, He promised me he would get help. Talk to someone... anyone. I suggested his dad, and he said ok. That was friday night. This weekend he was off, and I thought he would do it then, but he didnt. So I called his dad and told his dad everything, and asked him to please let me know when he talks to him. I feel guilty for involving his dad, but I dont know what else to do. I told my hub if he doesnt get help, Im gone... and I mean it. Was I wrong?

2007-03-26 06:03:36 · 35 answers · asked by Tater Tott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does Bt do it for you or do you have to sorted yourself?

2007-03-26 06:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before some people judge me for putting this online for strangers opinions understand that I have no one to talk to. I have asked my fiancee to move with me back to my home town. I have a severe case of diabetes and I need to be close to my family. He says he will move and then changes his mind. I told him I need to move for me wether he goes or not I wish he would go but I cannot make him do anything. He tells me he loves me but sometimes I think he doesn't. I moved 400 plus miles for him and our relationship. I was fine with that but since I almost died 2 months ago the need for my family to be around me is great. His family does not except me I have never done anything to deserve that maybe I scare them, I am very independant and my fiancee is very dependant on his family. If I could move for him because I love him so much and leave everything behind if he loved me that much couldn't he do the same? In my mind it makes me think he doesn't care as much.

2007-03-26 06:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by kekihigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone ever seen the movie "Something New", I feel like that movie was about me, but with a little twist. I have always dated nice guys, guys with good jobs, nice cars, most of them boring like me, but I was comfortable. And the new guy is diffrent, very funny, too outgoing, smokes, drinks, had some troubles (if you know what I mean) he can cook, but don't clean, but he is great in bed, has a job too, (doesn't make a whole lot) car is okay, even though I love him sometimes he is a bit much for me. I'm not a wild person at all and its a little diffrent I guess, I really don't want to seem boring to him. I have to admit I have been having a lot of fun since I've been with him. I guess you can say he is a bad boy, but I can tell he is passionate about me.

Sometimes I feel like he is too much, but I think I'm sprung :o(
lol...

2007-03-26 06:01:59 · 8 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Singles & Dating

change his mind?

She's gained about 20 pounds in the past year and is very self-concious about it.

He's a health nut, and he thinks that giving her a gift of a year long membership at the gym for Mother's Day is the greatest idea he's ever had!

I think it is an insult.... what do you think?

How can I make him see this is rude?

Plus, his mother knows I always pick out her gifts, even though from both of us, and I don't want her to think I had anything to do with this!

2007-03-26 06:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and found out later, after the fact that she had lied about her birth control use. While I am pro choice and feel as though abortion should continue to be a legal option for all women everywhere, i am not a supporter of abortion used as birth control. I would have still gone with her to help her with the before and after even if she had told me she had not used birth control. I am however very upset that she lied to me about using birth control, and even more so because now she has said that her boyfriend does not like condoms and neither does she. Should I tell her that I am angry with her for lying to me and that I feel, pro choice or not, that sex is a responsibility and she is horribly shirking her duty as a woman by NOT taking care of her health and safety they way she should, or should i keep my mouth shut and let it go?

Really not interested in the abortion = murder rhetoric so many of you like to spout off about. This question is not about abortion opinions.

2007-03-26 06:01:20 · 19 answers · asked by juniormintsrock 2 in Friends

2007-03-26 06:01:03 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating