Sex to young?

Question

I am 17 and I had a party a week ago and there was this black guy named derek and he is 23. We had gone out about three times and we had sex in the back seat of the limo after my party.
Now I am scared I am pregnant and what to tell my parents if I am?

Answer 1

if you're mature, then 17 isnt too young to have sex. i started having sex when i was 17 and its a good thing that i was mature about it and knew about contraception and the risks if i did not use it. you cant just have sex with someone and not realise that there would most likely be consequences if you dont use contraception. if you are pregnant, then you need to tell your parents. they might be mad and disappointed in you but they will support you and get over it if you realise the mistake you've made

Answer 2

Did your parents ever warn you about the consequences of unprotected sex? If so, you should listen to your parents and what are you doing having sex in the back of a limo with a 23 year old??? If not, you should really invest some time at planned parenthood and learn more about sex. You're only 17, realize how cheap and sleazy it is to be having sex with someone you barely know.

Answer 3

U should not be having sex in the back seat of a car in the first place. Thats just dirty. I dont think a 23 year old would be trying to geta 17 year old prego for one. If its only been a week wait for your period & if you miss it then take a test. If its neg. Congradulations & learn about condoms or close your legs.

Answer 4

Well first you need to find out if u are indeed pregnant. If you are u will have to sit down with your parents and explain what happened and hope they understand, If u aren't then it still might be good to talk to your parents or an adult u trust about this new world u have stepped into

Answer 5

get a pregnancy test to find out before you panic .go to boots etc, my question is if you were on the pill and had a condom if you werent then go to a health clinic or a doctors, you are over the legal age so your not too young , just say to your parents that your sorry discuss what you want to do with the baby- do you want to terminate it remember, take away the fact that your scared and that their is a baby involved , inside you number 2 you could get it adopted or keep it, remember its your choice

good luck

Answer 6

Well you just told the whole internet that this guy legally raped you. You're a minor even if yu consented. U need to get a home pregnancy test and if u are you need to tell your parents straight up what happened, but theyll more than likely file for rape

Answer 7

In the back of the limo after your party?...Eeeewww. Take pregnancy test asap & pray it comes back negative. If not, you'll have A LOT of explaining to do.

Answer 8

You just had to mention that the 23 year old guy was Black and then drop his name, didn't you?
Oh well, you live and you learn. Might as well find out for a fact and then tell your parents. They're going to find out eventually anyway.

Answer 9

ok, first if hes not your bf, dont have sex with him. you shouldnt have sex if you dont want to get pregnant, and itll be a hard lesson if you are. yes you did have sex to young, its really stupid and you should have more self respect and self control.
If you miss your period, take a test, and look up on the signs.
if you are pregnant, then you just put your self in your own trouble. your now gonna have to think about abortion, family, friends, keeping the baby and all that.
Hope you learn your lesson.

Answer 10

If you know you are pregnant, you'll have to tell your parents. It's not like being pregnant just goes away. It really depends on what option you want to take after that.