What am I that shy?

Question

We talk fluently about lots of subjects but when he comes to say "I like you so much" or "You are special to me" or "I've got fellings to you" I turn so much confused and barely say "Thank you' (sounds stupid) i know ... later, he asked me for a (slow dance) but I was so shy ... i like him for real but at same time I dont know how to overcome my shyness ... moreover he encourages me saying :"I like your shyness".
Any advice?

Answer 1

Maybe he really does like your shyness. I know that was what turns on a lot of men who like me. Are you still in high school? If you are, I don't know what to tell you. I was never a good "boy-handler" in high school, even with the guys I hung out with. I'm going to tell you that I think you two should stay really good friends and don't be too worried about your shyness. I'm very quiet and this supprises a lot of my male friends. I also get a lot of men because of my ability to keep the yap shut. Some guys like the quieter type, but remember to speak up once in a while, too.

I think you're just blushing when he complements you and you may not take compliements all that well. It's very hard for me to take compliments. I like them, but never know how to react. I think you're doing fine.

I hope I actually answered your question. Sorry for going on and on. Hope you do good with him.

Answer 2

Shyness is based on insecurity! Build confidence up and know you are worthy of anyone! Think positive and feel good and that Will work!

Answer 3

He sounds like a great guy. Being shy isn't a problem. The question is, do you trust him?

Just step up and let him know how you feel about him and why you respond the way you do. Give examples.

Maybe you just need more time.

Answer 4

Be yourself. Go at your own pace.

Answer 5

So ??