I got in a fight with my boyfriend last night, cause I looked in his cell phone , and I found two girls numbers, I yelled at him, and ask them who they were, and he said , I met them before , at a party he took me, and they are just friends, that he loves me and only me, and he gave me his phone and he said that I could delete it, if it would make me, happy, and I did, but I told him I till dont trust him, and I told him that if I ever see girls phone numbers in there again , It will be over with us, and he started crying, and he kept telling me, that he will not cheat on me, and he tellls me that the girls were putting the numbers in his cell, I dont know if I could trust him, we been going out for two years, and he saids he wants to marry me, and have kids, he said's he's not friend's with them anymore, cause he thinks I dont want him to have girls , just as friends, and I dont., How can I trust him, everytime I bring it up of him cheating on me, he crys.
2007-03-26 06:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And he saids he'll do anything to make me happy, he saids that I'm the goddes of his life, and he needs me, but I dont want girls phone numbers in his cell. What should I do.
2007-03-26 06:13:34 · update #1
He saids he trust me, but I cant trust him, Am I wrong
2007-03-26 06:16:38 · update #2
you need to trust in your boy friend maybe the girls were friends and he only love you trust him and talk with he how about you feeling in that moment or with that thing but talk no fight ok
2007-03-26 06:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by ROMEO IN LOVE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Judging from the thumbs-up/thumbs-down ratio, I'm guessing you want to justify your actions by having someone else, even a complete stranger, agree with you. I'm not that guy.
You never trusted him to begin with, dearie. You went looking for a fight when you "found" their numbers. Cell phones do not just divulge that information upon opening them; you have to search for it. It is possible for men and women to be friends, no matter what people tell you. We co-exist on a platonic level quite frequently. When you accuse him of cheating, he cries, and you wonder why. Maybe because when you love someone and they don't trust you, it hurts in a way that I can't begin to describe. Either grow up, and start an adult relationship trusting the man, or call it off and go back to dating boys. Either way, stop breaking this dude's heart over some number; this is how misogynists are born.
And if he does cheat on you, that doesn't mean you should never trust again. Instead, it means you just trusted the wrong guy. There are trustworthy men (and women, for all you skeptical fellas) out there. It takes time, it takes some growing up, and it takes some heartache. That's just how it is.
EDIT. I get a personal thumbs-up for predicting that I would get a thumbs-down from you. Sorry, but you are wrong for not trusting him. You have no business having a relationship with anyone you don't trust. You might be very lonely in the future.
2007-03-26 06:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I do not believe persons without problems, no longer even my mom and dad. I believe there may be just one man or woman that I believe in my existence and I do not believe him one hundred% both. I'm very wary of persons. I do provide all people a danger and I do take delivery of all people the way in which they're, however trusting them... that is some thing I can not do. And it doesn't suggest that they are not reliable, it is simply the way in which I am. I continually query persons's reasons as good. I'm simply very suspicious, and whilst I'm suspicious approximately any one or some thing any one says I begin investigating- that's how I received my nickname 'Detective L'. One of the explanations that I do not wish to be in a courting is considering of my believe problems. I believe it is the entire Pluto have an impact on in my chart that makes me like this.
2016-09-05 16:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um so ur saying he said girls are putting their numbers in his phone? come on!!!!!!!!!! that fact alone tells you a lot. u need to be or appear as if ur more trusting of him and he shouldnt be letting other girls put their number in his phone and he shouldnt be keeping them!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-26 06:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Heer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop jumping to conclusions how do u know that he's cheating , try and put across your views without shouting . he obviously cares about you alot , you are acting to clingy cool off a bit or youll drive him away gd luck
2007-03-26 06:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by adrianna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possesive much? You even made him cry. Sounds like his intentions are good and honest and you are stepping over his feelings. You really have mayor insecurities if you are telling him that he cannot have friends that are girls.
2007-03-26 06:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you willing to remove all the guys phone number on your phone??? if he truly loves you and let you do whatever you did and still not trust him, maybe you are just using him?
2007-03-26 06:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your insecurity is the problem. If he is going to cheat on you, you making him feel guilty is just going to make him do it faster.
2007-03-26 06:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by outlaw_tattoo_biker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not married and spying on your man already. To your Boyfriend i have advice (RUN)
2007-03-26 06:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by excalibur44 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep loving him but ....Trust him as far as you can see him.
2007-03-26 06:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋