Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

I am a bridesmaid at my sister's wedding, but still have to send an acceptance, I think. My other sister wrote WE WOULD LOVE TO COME on separate pieces of paper and her, her partner and children held them up for a photo - I want an original idea like this! Can anybody think of anything? If not, just some nice ideas for what to write in a card would be good. Thanks!

2007-03-26 07:31:43 · 11 answers · asked by raspberryfluff 2 in Weddings

i've had sex but i've never had a boyfriend. would you think there was something wrong with me?

2007-03-26 07:31:41 · 22 answers · asked by amanda g 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy seems to "get off" in a matter of minutes and it frustrates me! I'm almost 11 weeks pregnant and i'm so emotional and its makes me upset knowing we cant "make love" longer then a few minutes! What are some ways or something he can to to last longer! PLEASE HELP

2007-03-26 07:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by Proud mommy of 3 boys 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend comes over and is dressed in a sexy but tasteful lingerie, we start kissing and nothing else. She sits me down and says how much i mean to her and how much she appreciates me. We are friends and in real life i have tried to be there for her whenever she needed me. In the first part of the dream I was at her house with other relatives and something happened where i almost got runover in front of her house. The next day when she comes over, she tells me all her feelings for me and how when i almost died, she realized that i was always there for her and she wanted to be with me. The thing is she has a boyfriend in the dream which she gives up for me, and in real life she has a boyfriend which is now the sad part, where I realize this is only a dream and nothing like what she confesses will ever be realized by her. It made me sad this morning, where I know she will never feel like that in real life. But her confession made me so happy. Any experience real or dream, like this?

2007-03-26 07:30:09 · 5 answers · asked by ikatchur 1 in Friends

Im 23, just graduated from collge & in my career.my bf is 24 &has not yet gone to college-he went to the navy & now wrkng at a garage door co.I told him from the start that i would be movng to LA after I graduated & I did just that.Most of my friends&fam live here +i've always wanted to live her. He is stuck in northrn ca w/his job & can't move for a while. Weve been 2gthr 1 1/2 yrs.I luvhim, &were great together &it was gettng very serious, but we're in diffrent places.he wants to marry me and is convinced i' perfect for him, but I want to explore more &have some 'me" time, delve into my career, accomplish some goals, &maybe date a few diffrent personalities before I commit to him forever. + i want him to at least get his degree &catch up to me maturity-wise &be more succesful, etc before I commit fully to him 4ever! +Ive had sevral longtrm bfs &havnt been single very much&i think this is the perfect time.Hes dealing horibly w/ it & makes me feel SO
guilty.am I doing the rite thing??

2007-03-26 07:29:53 · 14 answers · asked by katie colmes 1 in Singles & Dating

This is kinda funny, sad, but true. I dated two wonderful people (not simultaneously, though) for a decent amount of time. I had invested so much emotion and time into both relationships, and as a result, have deep feelings for both of my exes, and vice versa. The really ironic thing is how both relationships ended: we never ended, we just fell off...communication became distant, then ceased. Time passes, and I don't hear from him for a while. Then, out the blue, he calls and we talk. I ask what happened to us, we argue, point the finger at the other, I get frustrated and hang up. He'll call back, we'll talk, everything'll be cool. We keep in touch, but I find myself questioning myself and his motives. Do I really wanna do this again??? I know I must make up my mind, but either way I lose. Somebody help me, please...

2007-03-26 07:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by Coko 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 07:29:36 · 33 answers · asked by an146442 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so me and 2 of my friends (Tommy & Marcus) are pretty close, and Tommy likes Marcus's cousin, and Marcus is really proctective of her because she's like his little sister, Tommy is like wanting to make a move but he always asks me before he does for some reason, and i have no idea what to tell him, is it wrong because his closest friend is related to his possible girlfriend? Basically my question is what to tell Tommy to do

2007-03-26 07:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My step daughter is getting married in Fall 2008. She was thinking of having Candy Apples as her wedding favors until a couple of people at her work said they didn't think it was a good idea. Personally, I think the idea is fun, unique, season appropriate and reflective of their personalities. However, the bottom line is they want something which will be well received by the guests. What do you all think. Yes or no on the candy apple idea?

2007-03-26 07:29:18 · 31 answers · asked by Super-Mom9 3 in Weddings

My boyfriend's mother acts like she loves me, but I have heard that she only tolorates me because of our son. I have done NOTHING for her to dislike me and it pisses me off that she may be talking trash about me and getting away with thinking that I have no clue! Should I have a talk with her or not? My mom gets along well with her too and she cant believe it, although I have heard this same thing before I had my baby!

2007-03-26 07:29:16 · 2 answers · asked by vrc 1 in Family

my friend comes over and is dressed in a sexy but tasteful lingerie, we start kissing and nothing else. She sits me down and says how much i mean to her and how much she appreciates me. We are friends and in real life i have tried to be there for her whenever she needed me. In the first part of the dream I was at her house with other relatives and something happened where i almost got runover in front of her house. The next day when she comes over, she tells me all her feelings for me and how when i almost died, she realized that i was always there for her and she wanted to be with me. The thing is she has a boyfriend in the dream which she gives up for me, and in real life she has a boyfriend which is now the sad part, where I realize this is only a dream and nothing like what she confesses will ever be realized by her. It made me sad this morning, where I know she will never feel like that in real life. But her confession made me so happy. Any experience real or dream, like this?

2007-03-26 07:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by ikatchur 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is my problem, I need a non-confrontational way of talking to my husband about my brother. They get along better than my brother and I do, but that isn't the problem. They talk about all my faults. I am feeling hurt right now that thy are doing this. I have asked both my brother and my husband to stop. But they don't.lately, they went over to my in-laws (whom I love dearly and get along with) and while they were there all they did was talk about my faults, things my husband knew about before we were even married. I feel like my brother is trying to sabotage this realtionship like he has in past ones, but when I try to talk to my husband about this, he accuses me of comparing him to them, not the situation that is similar. I want to work this out, but I am lost as to how to do it. Pleae help me, I don't need any rude answers, I need caring and understanding ones, please.

2007-03-26 07:28:08 · 12 answers · asked by victoria E. 4 in Family

if u like a shy guy and he knows how do you know if he fancies you back.

2007-03-26 07:28:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I checked his phone not because i dont trust him but because everytime i passed him from the bedroom to the kitchen he would quickly hide his phone?!! I asked him if he texts any one and he says no... The reason i say with him is because i have a baby with him and im pregnant with his 2nd one... Should i try to talk to him? Reason with him about why he is doing this? I figure since im a mother now he doesn't look at me the same way he use to when we where dating. I love him and want to make things work??? Opinons please... Thanks

2007-03-26 07:27:11 · 4 answers · asked by tigger07pooh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was dating my ex for 6 months, after which time we broke up and they revealed to me that they had been dating their "ex" throughout most of our relationship. The "ex" broke up with them for someone else, but they are still "best friends". Since they broke up, they hang out and talk more than they did "before the break up" (or perhaps i can hear about it more now since I wasn't supposed to know they were dating before)... The "ex-gf" finally found out about me (not that we were dating, but rather that i exist) and is pretty much jealous that I'm around. So yesterday was my "whatever we are now's" birthday, and I called at midnight to say happy birthday, and they tell me that "the ex" and the best friend got locked out of the car. Which would normally be ok with me because they are still close friends... but the thing that bothers me is that, my "other's" best friend and the "ex" don't like eachother... so im wondering why they would all be together...

2007-03-26 07:26:58 · 7 answers · asked by lilmissheiress 2 in Singles & Dating

I need advice from others cuz i think i have blinders on either that or just out right dumb!! I have feelings for someone had them for years now. for 5 months now the person has been acting like they do not want anything to do with me but in the same breath does. Should i just let the person go as my friend and give up on hoping for anything else happening? also the person tends to stand me up when they say they are going to be there and dont show up. this person told me years ago that they wanted nothing more then honesty from me but in the same breath i have caught this person lying to me. Such as saying they are gonig offline then there are not. Call me back then they say they will and dont. Please no mean or rude answers here as i am new to this.

2007-03-26 07:26:56 · 6 answers · asked by sunshinegirl20052000 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the type of person who loves to go out and have fun however all my friends seem to be broke what is the best way to meet new friends?

2007-03-26 07:26:45 · 1 answers · asked by classiclady 3 in Friends

and have you acted it out yet? what r u waiting for?

2007-03-26 07:26:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife need about 10 hour a day just for her to function right.

2007-03-26 07:26:14 · 18 answers · asked by celticdragon 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Movie tickets...

Dinners...

Rent????

i dont know what to do...

??

2007-03-26 07:26:09 · 105 answers · asked by Meibys M 1 in Friends

I just think this is kind of embarrassing, I even doubt he knows what this word means, so I ll have to explain him...........help me!!!!!!!!

2007-03-26 07:25:57 · 26 answers · asked by mila j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 07:25:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well prom finishes at midnight, but we won't want to go home
Party at someones house is out of the question as eveyones parents/bro/sis has school or work next day.
Tried contacting bowling alley etc but by the time we will get there is 1am, and they close early on a Monday
So, any ideas?

2007-03-26 07:25:25 · 2 answers · asked by PromMad :D 1 in Friends

If so did it / is it working?

2007-03-26 07:24:55 · 3 answers · asked by Jeremy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just met a cute guy and he is a navy dentist.Unfortunately he lives in a very different part of the countrybut I am so much falling for him!!We exchanged e-mail and phone number, and I can't wait to talk to him. So I want to call him sometimes, but what timeis the best time to give him a call?I guess the navy dentist is not a 9-5 shift work....
A part of me thinks as a girl, maybe I should wait for his moves
but he said he is a shy guy and I am too excited about him.

2007-03-26 07:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by happy-angel 3 in Singles & Dating

I always go for someone that i can't have?

2007-03-26 07:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by buggs8498 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a girl for just under two months now. It's her birthday next week. I don't think we've really got extremely close yet; the relationship has been more of a mid-ground between a friendship and and full-blown relationship. How much would you advise is a reasonable amount of money to spend on her birthday so as not to appear stingy but also not to appear 'over the top'?

2007-03-26 07:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 07:24:25 · 35 answers · asked by princess 2 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was 17 I started dating a guy that was 15 at the time. I was his first real girlfriend and all that. I will admit that at first I treated him kinda bad and we got over that and we ended up being together for about a year and a half. He wanted to see other people cuz I was his first real gf and he wanted to see what else was out there.
Well it was a kinda bad break up and we didn't talk for 5 months. Then we got back together for a short period of time but I was distant cuz i thought thats what he wanted so he ended up leaving again.
Couple months go by.. Well now im seeing a guy that i really like but see no future with.Well me and my ex started talking again and cleared up a lot of things between us. He told me that leaving me was the biggest mistake he ever made and that he still loves me.
The big thing here is that i am still in love with him, but no one wants to see us together again because hes already hurt me before, but i think he honestly wants to make things work...

2007-03-26 07:24:16 · 13 answers · asked by xxfallenxstarxx_13 1 in Singles & Dating

WE LIVE IN TEXAS

2007-03-26 07:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by your_ma_was_here 1 in Singles & Dating