What would you think if you find out your man is texting someone else and lying about it?

Question

I checked his phone not because i dont trust him but because everytime i passed him from the bedroom to the kitchen he would quickly hide his phone?!! I asked him if he texts any one and he says no... The reason i say with him is because i have a baby with him and im pregnant with his 2nd one... Should i try to talk to him? Reason with him about why he is doing this? I figure since im a mother now he doesn't look at me the same way he use to when we where dating. I love him and want to make things work??? Opinons please... Thanks

Answer 1

Well It's safe to assume that there something suspicious going on, since he attempts to quickly hide his phone, he's trying to hide something from you.

But if you checked his phone, what is the nature of his conversations to her? that should give you a better indication of what's going on.

I would definitely confront him and tell him that you know he's texting someone and you deserve an explanation as the mother of his child. But don't take a confrontation approach, just let him know that you need to know the truth. I understand that you have children together, but don't turn a blind eye to the situation in order to make it work. Address the issue for your own peace of mind. But definitely talking to him is the only way that you're going to be able to resolve this. If there is a reason why he's doing this, you deserve to know. If he's not happy with your situation together, maybe he can tell you what specifically he's unhappy with so you guys can work together on it. But don't make excuses for him either, such as "he doesn't see me the same way he used to" because if you're willing to put up with it, he's going to keep doing it and taking it further.

Answer 2

He's not going to tell you the truth if he has something to hide. You need to get your inspection gadget on and find out the facts. You deserve to know. You are starting a family if you accept it now you will be opening the doors to a lifetime of pain. Nip it in the bud now! Let him know you will nott accept it!

Answer 3

If my man was texting another woman and lied to me about it, I would have to assume there is something going on between him and her.

Try talking to him and let him know you have checked his phone and know for a fact he is lying. Get it all out in the open.

If you stay silent, it'll eat away at you.

Answer 4

I dont know about you but if it were my man, i would chop his weiner off!!!