i've had sex but i've never had a boyfriend. would you think there was something wrong with me?
2007-03-26 07:31:41 · 22 answers · asked by amanda g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. Don't worry so much about what's "normal" or about what other people think, it really doesn't matter that much. What matters is that you're happy with yourself.
2007-03-26 07:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with never having had a boyfriend at age 20. You just have not met the right person you would like to be in a relationship with as your boyfriend. You've got plenty of time. Enjoy life. You don't need a boyfriend to enjoy a full life.
2007-03-26 07:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Me, Myself & I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think there's a better question to ask, but it's to yourself. Why haven't you had a boyfriend? Do you even want a boyfriend? Do you have a hard time meeting people? Haven't found the right one? Are to busy to have one?
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. You are still very young and have a lot of life and experience left to live, don't rush things.
2007-03-26 07:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would think she's desperate.
1) You've had sex but never had a relationship--that would tell me that you're willing to do things out of deperation.
2) I think you're defining yourself by having or not having a boyfriend too much. You're 20. You're not 40. You have time to grow and learn.
2007-03-26 07:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not especially, I met a woman in college whom had never experienced either at that age. In your case, I might even be tempted to say you are a little more honest with yourself than most. Relationships among teenagers tend to be a pretty fleeting thing and relationships for their own sake (because it is cool to have a bf) rather than rationally considered are foolish.
2007-03-26 07:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by DJL2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too easy. Believe it or not most men will say a woman that is too easy to get is not worth anything more than one night. Make them work for it instead of putting it on a platter for them. Stop just sleeping around.
2007-03-26 07:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to party more and meet new people, but don't try to find someone. If he is right it will be a mutual feeling. There is nothing wrong with you , you just havn't found the right person yet.
2007-03-26 07:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a right to live the life that they think is best for them. If you want to remain the same way you are now, then it is no one elses business.
2007-03-26 07:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It sounds like you just like to have fun. I suppose at some point you'll want to get more serious with a guy, but what's the rush?
2007-03-26 07:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to remedy that situation. LOL. what would you think if you found out i didn't lose my virginity til i was 20? same thing. it happens and it is neither good nor bad. it just is you. i would like to commend you on taking your time with it. it shows that you think about it alot and don't jump in to things quickly.
2007-03-26 07:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by jonathen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋