Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

A few weeks ago i had sex with my ex (kids' father). I felt real guilty about it because i cheated on my husband who is a great step father and husband. I don't wont to lose him, but I'm afraid my ex might cause trouble. How do i get my ex to back off?

2007-03-24 13:18:05 · 28 answers · asked by Sarah Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He thinks he knows everything about anything, I just want to throw my shoe at him!!! Even if you're not talking to him, he wants to put his two cents into your conversation!!! UGH!!! How would you deal with that??

2007-03-24 13:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Friends

Ok so there is this guy i like. he i a little younger than me. I think he likes me because he always looks at me and things like that. I dont see him that much. I like him. Do i let him know i like him? I dont know what to do! please help me! any suggestions?

2007-03-24 13:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by lilshorttie4life 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like someone who can handle me and my health problem. Without trying to control me or use me. I need someone who willing to get to know me, before judging me.I need someone who is between the ages of 34 & 40. NO younger or older. Someone who lives alone, pays his bills, has a good job and owns his own car. Someone who's not a momma's boy or lives with momma. And guys please no braids, dre loc, long hair. No smokers, drinkers, drug users or sellers. Please dress nice ( no begging clothes hanging off your body, but ironed well). Thank you

P.S. I date both white and black

2007-03-24 13:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted a similar question to this, but I did not get an actual answer to it. How much would it cost to get a wedding gown altered that has a train about 3 ft long and would need 3 inches taken off ALL the way around it (including the train)? The details would not be effected by the alteration.

2007-03-24 13:15:53 · 5 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Weddings

I want to know how to ask a girl out because I'm kinda shy and I don't want to choke in front of her. Any advice?

2007-03-24 13:15:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So me and this guy went to the movies and we have been talking as friends every since. And he invited me to his party that he is going to have later on. I know he is a big flirt but I can't help but being extremely attracted to him, he's funny and nice and charming and we have alot in common.

But he told me a few weeks that he wasn't looking for a relationship because he was moving but his plans changed and he's staying here. Any advice? Or should I not act on my feelings for the fear of him saying he doesn't want a relationship with me...in other words rejection

2007-03-24 13:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by pebblespunk2 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a way I can get an order for my kids father to keep them, and he have to keep that order just like a child support order?

2007-03-24 13:15:17 · 8 answers · asked by ladybra07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and whty do grils like boy they don'tlike

2007-03-24 13:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She bees gettin angree wen I looks at des nummers. An says I am spying on her privacy. You thinks she is running round on me ?

2007-03-24 13:14:51 · 26 answers · asked by kuyasaya 2 in Singles & Dating

Can someone tell me , I married 3 times , don't get me wrong ., but , can you share your opinion about the meaning of love ,

2007-03-24 13:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by jrgbll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I love this girl with everything that is in me, unfortunately, there is also a lot of jealousy issues from a past relationship. I have gotten so much better and no longer let my jealousy affect her but it still affects me very much I get upset and sick to my stomach.

Any one got any ideas or anything that they do to help deal with this issue??

2007-03-24 13:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in a relationship like that and there have been times that i have even lashed out at my husband and used force with him. i think that it's time to leave what do you think?

2007-03-24 13:13:47 · 4 answers · asked by Lindy O 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How is yahoo caculating the percentage rate for answers. It seems like I'm stuck on the 4% with lots of questions that I have answered and some just got on here and their rate is very high with less questions answered. I just would like to know how one in being rated in this regard.

2007-03-24 13:13:46 · 2 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, it seems as if I'm always doing something wrong (truth is, I really am!) and I can't stop! if it's not the tone of voice, it's the staying on the computer too long thing, or it's the jamming up the printer, or arriving late to an appointment...anyway....I've been feeling really bad about myself lately...and we're supposed to be married in 2 months. My question is, should he accept me with all my faults (I am immature, moody, clumsy...) or am I supposed to change before we get married? I know I have some wonderful sides to me (funny, creative, affectionate, a great cook) but he is always complaining and telling me I have to change...my parents agree...but I just think he should love me the way I am! is that a fairy tale? Does this mean he's not right for me? I love him and he loves me, but I'm tired of not feeling good enough...I'm starting to feel bad about myself!

2007-03-24 13:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

don't want or need a present every single day.

2007-03-24 13:13:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would really want her to be my gir friend

2007-03-24 13:12:37 · 1 answers · asked by JR 1 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy i like and i sit righ next to him. he found out i like him cause my ex-best freind told him and now i dont really know if hes flirting with me or not. and im not one of the pops and 2 of the populars like him. he said to my friend that he'ed keep telling me someone likes me and i hope its him. someone please help.

2007-03-24 13:12:26 · 10 answers · asked by camri g 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you tell your parents if you think they may be against you trying for a baby? Or not? And if you do.. How do you tell them?

2007-03-24 13:11:45 · 4 answers · asked by ?Gems? 5 in Family

I am getting married in 4 months, my fiance and I were thinking about providing some beer at the reception. I just found out a few minutes ago that my brother who has been in prison and is now at a half way house will be able to go to the wedding and reception. The thing is he is staying away from any drug, even alcohol( which I am totally for) He said that he will go to the ceremony but not the reception if their is alcohol there. He is not putting me on a guilt trip or giving me an ultimatum. He says he understands and supports whatever decision I make. He just needs to do what is best for him. I love my brother and want him there on our special day. I want to just make it an alcohol free event now but I also know that alot of people are going to want a little bit of alcohol there, including my fiances parents. We have already done a major change because of them. I know its my day and I should do what makes us happy, but either way I go I am going to upset someone.

2007-03-24 13:10:20 · 17 answers · asked by shelly63795 3 in Weddings

2007-03-24 13:10:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I got asked to prom by a really cute & popular senior and its really cool cuz i'm only a freshman so this is an opportunity that i just couldn't turn down. Well I said yes to him & I got all excited & told my best friend but she went & told my kinda sorta ex-boyfriend. We only dated for 5 days so I can't exactly call him my ex but o well. I had no idea that he still had feelings for me & he got really upset about me going to prom with this senior. But I tried to explain to him that I was only going with him as a friend cuz my date had already told me that he had heard i was cool & fun & he asked me cuz he wanted to go with someone who wasn't trying to get with him so he could just have fun with his friends. So he's obviously not interested in me in a romantic way or anything but my ex is still jealous & he acts like he doesn't care & he's just being really mean & selfish about it. Its not like I can go with him cuz we're both freshmen...I didnt mean to hurt him...what do i do?

2007-03-24 13:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

they will "act" all happy??? i do not get that!!!??? unless maybe they do NOT want people to know they are having trouble...so no one will TELL anyone??? do you think that is it???

2007-03-24 13:09:26 · 1 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family

I WAS once. And I hide it. Maybe you should ask for help. Talk to us. I know there are nice people on here with good hearts and minds. Try us.

2007-03-24 13:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 13:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have know this man when he was married. He stopped talking to me when he got a divorce and then all of a sudden he asks me out to "lunch". He treated me great and was the best date I ever had, asked me on a second one, and then wigged out and dissappeared. I really had/have feelings for him and would date him, or would just be freinds but i dont know why things have gotten so weird. I have known him to be the most decent guy and I am really confused. I am MUCH younger, and I was just wondering if he just asked me to drag me along and to make himself feel better that he could still be attractive to a much younger girl. Was I used for the sake of his ego? Or did he have feelings for me? this is his second divorce and his exwife hated me with a passion (even though I had no issue with her - she was pretty, smart, ex) Should I try to reconnect or did I do the right thing when i told him to go to hell? Please men let me now your motives .......

2007-03-24 13:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by STL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi friends,

I'm very upset about my relationship. We married for 12 years and have 1 boy. My husband makes a lot of money, and he spent a lot too. I ask him what he spent money for he didn't give me the answer, he alway says "I make a lot of money so I have something to spent" If I ask more detail he tell me have seperated bank account and don't look on what he spent so it doesn't bother me. What should I do? Is he cheating on me?
Thanks for your help.

2007-03-24 13:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by Kimvan T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

especially if you know that he is moving which is a gud friend 2 u

2007-03-24 13:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have been goin out for 5 months and im 15 were just taking it slow but i wanted to know how i could ask her if it would be alright if i put my hand on her butt while we kiss but i dont know how to ask her

also if u think this is innapropriate id also like to here what u have to say

2007-03-24 13:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 13:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating