Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

It just feels like I’ve had my personality sucked out of me! I don't know who I am anymore. Most the time I just feel so dull and low, where I just cry for no reason at all, hiding away in my room away from everyone else. Other times I’m enjoying life.
It’s like I’m trapped in this cycle, each days the same, I’m bored of it

The thing is since I moved to a new town a few years ago I have never had close friends like I used to. Msn is as far as my social life goes (sad I know). Ocaially we would meet up if it was someone’s birthday, that’s about it.
My family used to be much closer as well, but all we ever seem to do now is argue.

I feel like I’ve lost all motivation to life. How do I start enjoying my life again?

2007-03-24 12:57:11 · 12 answers · asked by green_l1ly 1 in Family

me and my ex bf were together for a year and 1/2 and he took me for granted and even though he begged to get back together i was too hurt. 2 years later we've been talking again and hanging out and messing around... its just like a relationship except without the commitment, even though we are only with each other.
i realized i really do still love him and i want to get back together but he doesn't want to because he is afraid to be hurt and doesn't think it will work, even though he says he loves me too. we've never been just friends though so i dont know if i should just move on and potentially fall out of touch, or continue doing what we're doing because i get to be with him and i love him..... help! : /

2007-03-24 12:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by xobabigrl87xo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:56:41 · 10 answers · asked by Nacho Nacho man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:56:03 · 15 answers · asked by tiffanie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i had a gf and then we brock up. but while we were breaking up, there was this other girl who seems to like me in our school. i kept flirting w/ her & after that i saw she used to hang out w/ me and my friends everyday in lunch time.
once she turned to me & told that she hates me. and then i told her she can't hang out w/ my ppl. but then she told me she didn't mean it, & she hang out w/ my ppl cuz she has a best friend there and it's not cuz of me.
but then she does lots of thing 4 me. like she would take side of me when somebody calls me thief(long story), buy me stuff, hug me, stare at me, smile at me, flirt me back and so on...

now what's my next step? should i be just her firend or what? i don't know wut to do next help me. what would u do if u were me?

2007-03-24 12:55:56 · 4 answers · asked by Confused!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a little over a year ago felt an instant connection. As I got to know him better and discovered how great he is my feelings just got stronger. He's gorgeous, sweet, funny...but he has a girlfriend. I've tried my best to reason with my feelings and move past this, but when I think I've made some headway, I see him and realize I haven't. It prolly doesn't help any that we spend alot of time around each other either. I need some advice please. I've heard that he's happy where he is and I want him to be happy so I really need to work thru these feelings. Anyone had a crush on someone they couldn't have who's willing to help out before I find myself even more head over heels for him? I've fallen hard and that's not good.

2007-03-24 12:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by okwriting 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:55:21 · 2 answers · asked by stevie m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:55:12 · 5 answers · asked by Lindy O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married next year to a man an dI want to know a good place to get married and it be legal

2007-03-24 12:54:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 12:54:14 · 20 answers · asked by stevie m 1 in Family

2007-03-24 12:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 12:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have many friends that I have known for a while that are at my college and more that I have met while in college but I am a bad talker and I dont know how to invite people out or get people to invite me out. I dont want my guy friends to think I am coming on to them and I dont want my girl friends to think im desperate (which I am). I can't stand the boredom anymore so I need to turn my in class friends into people I see out of class. Help!

2007-03-24 12:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by sammy j 2 in Friends

Every night i cry myself to sleep wishing there was a better way out than torchering my self with tears. i want life to end but then againg i dont .why is it so hard for me with everything i used to have fun with dulls me ,i cant sleep,and i cry every day. what can i do with my life or how can i change to mkae it better?

2007-03-24 12:52:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like a girl that is friends with one of my friends. Sometimes we will look at each other and then one of us will turn away. She said "Whoa, did you see that shot" during gym class to her friends. I don't know what I should do since we are not friends but I can tell she doesn't dislike me.

2007-03-24 12:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by ravage 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy ALOT and he used to like me. i didnt tell him i liked him back so he just moved on totally. we used to be friends and then all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me ttotally. i try to talk to him and start convos and he doesnt wanna talk most of the time i guess. idk why he just stoped talking...nothing went wrong just one day it happend. i asked him and he just said he didnt know why.i really like him so what do i do??

2007-03-24 12:52:24 · 2 answers · asked by julia 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:52:13 · 2 answers · asked by martin v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is about me finding my husband online...We were married 9 years..He was gone for 8 of those years!..I had to make a life without him..But everyone thought I was fooling around..Then my sister betrayed me and told my husband I was thinking about a divorce..she betrayed me!..and I had not even told my husband I was unhappy yet..So I wrote about how innocent people were hurt by accusations and I was even arrested for false information and found "Not Guilty".. But my husband divorced me and later found out that my sister had made the whole story up!.. Looking for an appropriate title to include all that and draw people to my book with alot of other surprises as well????

2007-03-24 12:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by sasabe48 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife want ideas for awesome sex anyone got any suggestions

2007-03-24 12:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by Christopher R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate feeling like this. Sometimes my husband is so charming to me and I think how luck I am. Then I could wake up the next day and he could do something idiotic for a week straight and I think, " out of all the men in the world, I chose this one."

2007-03-24 12:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by wishywashy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its only been one day since I spoke to him--he has no idea I am breaking up--I have made up my mind--he is married and I cannot do this to myself--I have been busy all day long trying to keep from thinking of him--I know he used me and lied to me I just feel like such a fool for ever getting involved with him--its only been one day I do not know how I am going to get through this

2007-03-24 12:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 12:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by somebodys_watchn_you 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been marired for 11 years

2007-03-24 12:50:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 12:50:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my birthday was last wed. the 14 th march. shud i tell him he must of 4got, or wat shud i do??? just 4get it? cuz i luv gettin presents, n he nevr gav it 2 me...??? HELP

2007-03-24 12:49:58 · 23 answers · asked by kateboyz7 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:49:58 · 12 answers · asked by erica h 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and my BF is 16.
He is moving to alska this summer, for about 2 years.
we have been going out for a month and a half, and he still
has not kissed me. would it be OK if I kissed him???
He is a cancer and I am a Capircorn,
so he is kinda mood-swingie sometimes
so I dont kno how he will respond.....

2007-03-24 12:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by *~Filthy Gorgeous~* 3 in Singles & Dating

Any guys want to date my sister. Shes 22 has a baby boy she's going through a rough time right now & could use a sweet caring "MAN" not a boy. If there's any offers im me at freepuppies2005@yahoo.com

2007-03-24 12:49:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. I workout and eat well, I look like a Spartan in physique
2. I makeover 120K at minimum every year
3. I have a tailor, a maid, and a laundry assistant

2007-03-24 12:48:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so since 5th grade there was this girl who was always my best friend.we did everything together.people thought we were twins. we were never apart.and now her and my cousin who is the same age are pushing me away.they chaned a ton.we had this friend who we didnt like that much and we got into this huge fight with her.well ever since then they have turned into these two evil bitches.they are mean to this girl who did nothing to them.it feels so weird because we use to have sleepovers every weekend and now i talk to her like once a week.it sucks i miss my best friends but then when im with them im like i just want to get away and go hang out with my new best friend.who unlike them is always here for me.but still i miss them and want them back but is it worth it trying to make are friendship work?

2007-03-24 12:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by dallas t 1 in Friends