I hate feeling like this. Sometimes my husband is so charming to me and I think how luck I am. Then I could wake up the next day and he could do something idiotic for a week straight and I think, " out of all the men in the world, I chose this one."
2007-03-24 12:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by wishywashy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel that way every other day. ;)
And then I think about how sometimes I'm not the easiest person to live with, and how he puts up with my stuff without complaining.
So I dream about what it might be like without him, then come back to reality and realize it could be much worse, and I have it pretty darn good with him.
2007-03-24 12:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely know what you are saying. My husband just last week, calls me and tells me that he packed up all his belongings and is leaving for a few days to think.
It's not about me, it's him. He's unhappy. It's the stupidest thing in my life that i've ever heard.
We haven't even been fighting. He moves everything behind my back. I was devastated. I didn't understand at all. He says he doesn't know why he did it. Moves back in and I'm supposed to act like everything is normal.
We've been together for 7 years, married for 4 years. There's been times that we had problems, but not now. He up and leaves and then says he feels stupid for doing it and I'm supposed to overlook it.
I thought our relationship was better than most of the people I know. But, instead I"m married to a psycho.
His brother died unexpectedly in Dec. I really think it has something to do with this. Went to the Dr. and put him on depression pills, but I'm still wondering what in the hell happened. One minute your life is fine and then poof it's total chaos.
2007-03-24 19:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Karen H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone!!! My husband is a great person and on most days the love of my life. But sometimes like the past 3 days he makes me sick. Maybe we are the ones with problems! Hope everything works out for you! Have a good night.
2007-03-24 14:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Carla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He appears like he does not understand what he needs. advise he pass out on his own till he reaches a determination. perhaps he will understand how lots he truly loves you, or maybe he won't. the two way a determination would be desperate. it is not undemanding for him to thread you alongside purely in case he chooses you.He expects which you are going to be there if his different plans fall with the aid of. You need to be a concern in some mans life. It does not look nonetheless that he's that guy. desire this permits..
2016-11-23 13:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by ugolini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get use to it men are sometimes that way and most of all women also feel the way you are feeling. When you think you made a bad choice then you really picked the right one. good luck.
2007-03-24 12:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what love is, sticking through it and not kicking him to the curb..
Just because your married does not mean that its 100 percent in love all the time..
But it does not mean you don't love him, So don't get confused with that one..
In love and being in love is two different things.. You may love him more at times, and other times less. But that is how it goes.. It doesn't mean you don't love him..
Your not alone, it happens to everyone.
Only in movies or shows they are 100 percent happy.
2007-03-24 12:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by krennao 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason for wedding vows. I suppose your situation falls under "for better, for worse." You can't have one without the other. Communication is the key.....keep that open and you two should be able to work out anything.
2007-03-24 13:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by sassysusie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I thought I was the only one who felt that way. LOL
Just kidding.
Yeah, men are men, they are strange!
2007-03-24 15:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by cabingirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh sure, all my friends and i feel this way,,, thats why you need a girls night out with your friends and see all the losers out there and be happy with your guy.
2007-03-24 12:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by joeelliot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,thats why they are called men
2007-03-24 12:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋