its only been one day since I spoke to him--he has no idea I am breaking up--I have made up my mind--he is married and I cannot do this to myself--I have been busy all day long trying to keep from thinking of him--I know he used me and lied to me I just feel like such a fool for ever getting involved with him--its only been one day I do not know how I am going to get through this
2007-03-24 12:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
good for you.
oh, your stomach, it should never stop hurting to remind you that you don't cheat, with a married man.
2007-03-24 12:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Those kind of relationships only lead to more heartache. Take it from who has experience. The soon you break it off, the sooner you can be on the mend. Each day that passes gets better. You really can never erase him totally from your mind. The more you try to stop thinking of him, the more you do.
2007-03-24 14:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 4 days after you lay off the Scotch & Vodka (LOL this one I know hehehe.. all to well)
Yo have to admit.. you let yerself in for this.. a married man for cats sake... what did you expect? Consider yourself lucky.. you'ld be the next wife dealing with the new mistress eventually sheesh...
If you didnt see this comming.. Umm i wont say anymore it would be rude...
2007-03-24 12:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why girl?why? why did you do that do you think that you are the type that has to play second best? you know it is alot of single men go on and get it over with.how would you feel if you was married and your husband had a woman on the side put yourself in her shoes even if she dont know the truth always comes out and dont think you are the only one he is seeinng on the side if he is going to cheat on his wife with you dont you think he would cheat on the both of you with someone else.HIV!!!!!!
2007-03-24 13:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by c_lynn_73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect the first few days to be bad. Don't try to make yourself feel anything different than what is natural for you to feel. It will be tough, but time and distance will work its magic and you'll feel better soon.
2007-03-24 12:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might take a while if you loved him...but you shouldn't feel bad for it...you never knew that it was going to end up bad..so dont tourture yourself for your actions...it could of happen to anyone....but if you want to forget about him easyer, all you have to is think about how your glad that your not with him anymore and that you wont get to suffer anymore
2007-03-24 12:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 09:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get to the final end to really leave the situation alone, then you will return to normal.
2007-03-24 12:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no time limit. Just surround yourself with your friends etc. Stay happy &&. positive :]
2007-03-24 12:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋