I have many friends that I have known for a while that are at my college and more that I have met while in college but I am a bad talker and I dont know how to invite people out or get people to invite me out. I dont want my guy friends to think I am coming on to them and I dont want my girl friends to think im desperate (which I am). I can't stand the boredom anymore so I need to turn my in class friends into people I see out of class. Help!
2007-03-24 12:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by sammy j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Figure out what you have in common and suggest you do it together.
1. Have lunch together (everybody has to eat).
2. Have a post-midterm beer together (everybody has to unwind).
3. Start a study group for one of your classes.
4. Ask people things like
a. If they did anything interesting last night.
b. If they did anything interesting last weekend.
c. If they have plans for this weekend.
d. If they have plans for this evening.
If any of it sounds interesting, you might suggest you do it together (bar; pizza; rock climbing; bowling).
5. Start an activity group for any of the above (put together a flier with your # or email and a suggested place for it).
6. Study in public places.
2007-03-24 13:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Biff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite them all to a party or just ask em to *** to the mall
2007-03-24 19:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being smart!
Listen and then ask her/him out....do not force yourself...
2007-03-24 19:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋