Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I'm not a very trusting person because of past experiences with my mothers bf when i was young. But I dont want to tell Gabriel (my boyfriend) why i cant trust him because of the embarassment. I know he loves me, and I fell the same way, but how can I gain trust for him and forget about what happened in the past?

2007-03-24 12:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my minors in college was dance, well my loans had to be paid off, and in memphis the cost of living is low, so they dont pay much on your 9 to 5! No matter what you do! ANd my job is in Information tech! So hey up unitl last august i was a stripper in a memphis strip club. Here the black clubs are grimey...but all i did was dance, collect my cash and go home to my then fiance, now that we are married and he knows about my past, he looks beyond it, he is now payin my loans off, but his older sister who is very unattractive, singled and has no job tends to hate me becuz of my past dancing days...hey i had a 3.4 gpa in college and i had a job, im no where near a whore i just did what i had to. Is she right for treating me like crap becuz of my past? Everyone says she is J becuz she cudnt get by in a club! What do you all think about strippers who only do it for the money?

2007-03-24 12:46:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seeing a guy whilst he's been travelling, we met 5 weeks before he went, decided we both liked each other and said we would 'see each other' until he got back. I'm worried I'm being too girly and flirty with him over emails and stuff and just wanted some second opinions.

1. Do guys like forwardness?
2. I don't want to come on too strong and push him away when he gets back - any advice?

Any serious advice would be really appreciated!

2007-03-24 12:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i need a woman to talk to im 12 years old and i have no one to talk to as in a friend i have alot of qestions about islam that i dont understand im a christian but i want someone i can talk to about how i should dress and about my weight

2007-03-24 12:46:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been with my girl for 3.5 years now...totally committed to her, thought she felt the same way because of her actions and words...

She turns around the other week and says she doesnt love me like she used to...has been thinking about it for a few months..

Says ive done nothing wrong and she cant tell me why she feels the way she does...

I asked her to figure out what is the problem first, and what she wants out of life that she isnt currently getting from us before making such a decision...

She told me a guy at her work asked her out a few months back...i thought nothing of it at the time - could she be intersted in him?

We had sex only on saturday last week..she bought new lingerie and everything...

She said she wanted to work through it but has now gone back and said there is nothing that can fix it, not even time or talking about it

Ideas??

2007-03-24 12:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by aussie_style 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been stressed due to his job situation. He has been looking for a new job for the last months, he's in a full-time job but he is not happy there. Him and his boss do not get on so well and he did not get promotion he hoped for. He decided to look for new job. He spends his free time job searching, preparing for his interviews. He has been to few even near my city but he has not been successful yet. He told me last weekend he feels like he is loosing and he isn't feeling that great. He has pulled away due to this from me and has been distant with me. He still talks to me but he's very distant. He did explain to me that he needs to find himself a better job but I have not been handling his emotional distance very well and I've become worried and needy. He got upset with me once because I told him that he does not care about me anymore. He said he was sorry but he wants to be alone and he does not feel like talking. I want to see him but he says he is not sure when.

2007-03-24 12:45:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not perfect but throughout my life well short life i have realized that CHEATING on SPOUSE and LOVE/GF/BF for both girls and guys is one of the most ultimate sins!!! I hate it. I hate how people cheat. I am not sexist but um i think cheating guys are worse! if a girl cheats (no not me!) she is called a wh**e or s**t or the c word. it mostlikely the guy wont forget and will either ruin her rep, be abusive towards her or whatever. the worst things is, that instead of inflicting this (crap) back on the men, we women are weak and take them back, again..and again.... so tell me when is it gonna end? if u dont love ur partner or spouse then why are u with him/her? if u have urges to cheat then leave the relationship. damn the people who blame it on midlife whatevers..

2007-03-24 12:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by Heer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently accepted a great job offer. My weekly income more than doubled, and I have noticed my husband seems upset that I make more money than him now. I'm a bit suprised at this, and in my mind it all goes into the same account anyways. I don't brag about it, or in anyway make a point of him knowing the difference. Does anyone know why he is acting like this. He won't discuss it, and I'd like to understand why he feels this way. After 7 yrs of marriage, this is the first time he refuses to talk about it!

2007-03-24 12:45:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lady Butler 3 in Marriage & Divorce

all my friends confide in me.i dont tell them anything. and they call me and talk for hours. also they stare directly at me while talking to people. only me and it kind of creeps me off?

2007-03-24 12:45:25 · 5 answers · asked by Susieq2456 1 in Singles & Dating

i respect my wife,, but i need love

2007-03-24 12:45:18 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I were talking about labels people but on others. (such as prep, skater, jock, ect.) She asked me what I would call her and I couldn't think of one. When I asked her should couldn't think of one fore me either. This is what I wear: soild color t-shirts and dark colored shirts, faded jeans, and vans (for those who don't they are shoes). I have long dark hair and side swept bangs. I am fourteen. I listen to pop/ punk rock such as Fall Out Boy and Panic! At The Disco. I am depressed/mad about 75% of the time but not always. What do you think my label would be?

2007-03-24 12:45:11 · 2 answers · asked by Kristine S 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.faceparty.com/themanwhoknows this is me by the way

2007-03-24 12:45:10 · 1 answers · asked by michaelcarterv2 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 yrs old and would like to meet some body on line.

Please don't remove my question please.....

2007-03-24 12:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by michelle b 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend smokes and he knows i dont like it, it makes me choke =[ he keeps saying he will stop and then he goes and does it behind my back but at the same time i dont want him 2 think im trying to control his life what should i do ? please help =[

2007-03-24 12:43:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so in brief my boyfriend doesn't tell me much about himself nor does he really talk to me (but he is someone who usually doesn't talk) but when im with him and his friends he seems to talk a lot more. is it because he's comfortable with them but not me? also how do i get him to be how he is with his friends but with me?

2007-03-24 12:43:38 · 10 answers · asked by karne 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:43:26 · 16 answers · asked by kicker0927 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy and he was really romantic but he recently spoke with his ex and since then the romance was put on the back shelf and contact has been less frequent. I asked him about it and he got nasty and told me he has issues with me because I have no friends(not true but they have all gotten married and moved away so I connect with them on line,phone and via snail mail) and I seem to have a bit of a temper. I have made no demands on him whatsoever and he pushed everything forward. I do not get mad when he spends time with female friends or when he cancels to do something he really wants to do. I just wanted to get an honest answer for why he changed and break up if he is no longer interested rather than have him slowly phase me out without an explanation. Am I right? and now I feel he is trying to blame it all on me. Am I right? What does it mean when a guy accuses you of having no friends and having a temper? Is he calling me a B@*ch?

2007-03-24 12:43:02 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea F 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have an affair and the sex is better, will you ever be satisfied in your marriage again?
My wife suspects the affair, the affairee works with me. I have fallen out of love with my wife.

2007-03-24 12:42:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 12:42:30 · 2 answers · asked by kia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think that skinny is unattractive on a girl? I know that there's a thing as too skinny but what about just thin? Do you think it's a bad thing and that being heavier is more attractive?

2007-03-24 12:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by smarttkdgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

She treats me like dirt and says I spread rumors about here...... but I didn't do anything to her! She also called my friend a jerk, slut, horrible cheerleader and said she would neva make it to the team, and lots of others!!! I need serious help from anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 12:42:04 · 1 answers · asked by Hottie (Jill) 2 in Friends

Based upon my close friend's family, a young adult, virgin girl from a religious family is raped and although distraught, one of her concerns is that she won't be able to give herself away to a husband.

I'm trying to stay out of it, but her guardian is trying to console her that when she finds someone, being virginal or not will drain away because the love and emotion will be there and it will feel like nothing before/'virginity'.
I'm aware myself that sex with someone you love is far greater than any other kind, but we all consider losing our virginity the biological process of penetrative sex.

Long story short: Can virginity be psychological, or is it purely and only biological?

2007-03-24 12:41:38 · 10 answers · asked by RSJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my own cousin. I know it's wrong for me to be in love with him I can't over him. Every time I try to get over him I can't. What advice would you give to forget about him.

2007-03-24 12:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by jeanny d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 12:39:56 · 14 answers · asked by Holli W 2 in Friends

if my woman wants to well you know have sex and i am clothed should i take em off or leave them on?????????

GOTCHA!!!!!!!!!LMMFAO

2007-03-24 12:39:55 · 9 answers · asked by Christopher R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm online talking to a guy I really like. We were just talking randomly about stuff, when he asked me if I wanted to get naked. I said no, and he laughed, but after about a minute he asked me if I was sure. I duno what to say!

2007-03-24 12:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We do stuff all the time but lately she only hangs out with her friends. My friends tell me she may be cheating on me but i trust her way to much to even think that. We have been going on and off for the past 1 1/2 year because off gossip and other things. What should i do to put a little more spice into the relationship?

2007-03-24 12:38:35 · 11 answers · asked by lonleyteen269 1 in Singles & Dating

One night the police barged in my home and took my son? They wont give him back until i get me and my boyfriend headstraight wat should i do?

2007-03-24 12:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

met the love of my life recently and i feel everything has fallen into place in less than 2 months i don't feel like i am rushing

2007-03-24 12:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by habwe42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He lives at home. Bought a new computer with different games that he can play. This computer comes with a set of headphones that you can talk to & hear anybody in the world as your playing the games with them. Much like a telephone. That's all he does everyday and all night long. He's been short tempered and acting a little strange. I'm not happy at all with this but you can't tell him what to do.
How should my husband & I handle him other than kick him out??

2007-03-24 12:37:57 · 25 answers · asked by hillaryc59bc 4 in Marriage & Divorce