I am not perfect but throughout my life well short life i have realized that CHEATING on SPOUSE and LOVE/GF/BF for both girls and guys is one of the most ultimate sins!!! I hate it. I hate how people cheat. I am not sexist but um i think cheating guys are worse! if a girl cheats (no not me!) she is called a wh**e or s**t or the c word. it mostlikely the guy wont forget and will either ruin her rep, be abusive towards her or whatever. the worst things is, that instead of inflicting this (crap) back on the men, we women are weak and take them back, again..and again.... so tell me when is it gonna end? if u dont love ur partner or spouse then why are u with him/her? if u have urges to cheat then leave the relationship. damn the people who blame it on midlife whatevers..
2007-03-24 12:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by Heer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so shame on u cheaters. shame on u for making ur partner feel unworthy, used, and possibly (i hope it is not common)diseased,all b/c u couldn't keep ur those organs in check. it's b/c of you cheaters that kids live in broken homes, spouses are left homeless, hearts are broken, and sometimes lives are ended. how dare you for blaming us for ur wrongdoings. and when we take you back don't think we're blind...we know that u haven't stopped lying....we dont even need proof to know. and if ur cheating then why r u being suspicious of us? phoning us to find where we are, going with us (yes) every damn where, telling us how to live...and worst of all (dedicated to u cheating men) flaunting your worthless underachieved,loser ho, loose,conniving mistress in front of our face. ur right we'll never be like them,not ever...cuz we are already above them. by the way, if they'll do it with you, (this is when the cheated laugh)...they'll do it to you.
2007-03-24 12:46:33 · update #1
and if u ever see me walking down the street....don't worry ur not worth it. this is not any kind of drama.....i am sick and tired of cheaters being excused if u had some kind of past that makes u want to be unfaithful or treat ur spouse or partner badly then the solution is simple...STAY SINGLE!!!!!!! If in ur culture u will face being kicked out or whatever then take it. no one person can actually force any other person to do something. there are accounts of when some people were tortured for information,they kept their mouths shut....so who is forcing you to be with ur partner that u don't love? don't worry, this is all i can say, but i hope u know, u narcissistic fools, God is watching you... one last question for the condemned.... how is it that when u look ur self in the eye using the mirror it doesnt crack? final words....what goes around, comes back around.
2007-03-24 12:52:06 · update #2
It really sounds like you have had a really bad experience, I can only hope to give you some words of comfort and hope that your next experienced will be one of pleasure and Love. Marriage is tough enough without one not being happy enough to be patient with the other, and show a little extra affection, it does work ! Faith in your pardner is paramount, along with Trust. You can be the Best Husband and Lover, but without those two, it's all for Nada !..I was fortunate enough to marry my High School sweetheart, who at our 1st meeting, I thought she was a stuck-up -itch ! Patience does work, believe me !! Good Luck and God Bless !!
2007-03-31 14:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nothing hurts worse than finding out that your partner is cheating on you ,esp if it is from a third party. It can be devastating to the one that takes their vows seriously. I believe that this has become a drive thru world. You can go to the drive thru pharmacy and get your drugs, oops nothing to drink - how about that drive thru liqueur store and the off to Vegas for a drive thru wedding - cuz you can always go back and get that drive thru divorce. People have strayed from God's word that is why there is so much infidelity. God created sex for a man and wife to come together as one. I overheard my husband say there's no way he'd cheat - he doesn't want to go to hell for a few minutes of pleasure and that our sex life gets better as the years go. People have to remember what it is they fell in love with about the other person and keep them above themselves and it can be better than any fling ever could. I still get feeling that I had when we were first together every day when he walks thru the door. Don't give up on all men and don't let someone like that make you bitter. Just find the man who has the same outlook as you and preferably a man that really believes in God. Not some bible thumper. A real man. It will happen when you least expect it. Good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-04-01 18:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with what you said. I think if a man or woman wants to cheat on their spouses they need to end their marriages especially if they have a problem with being faithful. One time is may be considered a mistake but two and three or more times especially if you have convinced your spouse to give you another chance. Most of the time the cheater is given more chances than they deserve. What does that say about the person that is being cheated on. Where is your self esteem? How many times will you allow this to happen to you? The person being cheated on go through all of these changes. For example, what is wrong with me, having to hold your head up, constantly replaying this over and over in your head. Or wondering where they are when they are not around you. These are my thoughts because I have what is called a serial cheater for a husband. I too hate cheaters. Just leave if you are not man or woman enough to hold up your end of the marriage vows. I feel you whomever you are. Great post by the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-30 13:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by witsend 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i totally agree. i left my husband after the first time i knew he was fooling around. i wouldn't sleep with him cause i told him he needed to do a STD test and show me the results. yes we did try to work it out for the kids(was married 20 yrs) but i decided i wouldn't play 2ND to no one and i never will. i current husband knows one time hes out the door no questions. i think i was afraid to raise kids on my own. plus try to make enough money to pay all the bills(which i ended up loosing our home to a foreclosure)plus he cheated and i had to pay ALL joint accounts off in divorce. so i got screwed in more ways then one and NO IT Will Never happen again! i glad you voiced you opinion on here. I'm glad to hear someone tell it like it is. :)
2007-03-31 00:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go girl. I agree. People who cheat are pig's with no self respect why would they care for anyone else.
2007-04-01 09:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with what you are saying but you must also understand there is two side of story. I'm not saying it wright but it is so. I too believe that once you are married be true to yourself and spouse.
2007-03-29 18:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by patty m 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
and we won't menchion the way it ruins a persons way to trust ever again in others....and the incurrable diseases...yuck!!! your right it is so grose....there is no excuse for being a cheat. AT ALL, EVER!
2007-03-31 15:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by jo.joggers 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THERE ARE NO LOGICALLY EXCUSES FOR CHEATING, UNFORTUNATELY IT HAPPENS AND FOR VARIOUS REASONS. YES, IF SPOUSES WANT OUT OF A MARRIAGE AND CANT BE FAITHFUL, THEY NEED TO GET A DIVORCE. HOWEVER, THIS IS NOT A PERFECT WORLD AND WE ARE NOT PERFECT PEOPLE.
2007-03-30 07:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by mssgtmidnight1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree man its not hard to not look at another guy or girl while with someone.
2007-03-31 13:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by jazzylynne1991 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with you tell them like it is im glad some one is speaking up
2007-03-24 19:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋