One of my minors in college was dance, well my loans had to be paid off, and in memphis the cost of living is low, so they dont pay much on your 9 to 5! No matter what you do! ANd my job is in Information tech! So hey up unitl last august i was a stripper in a memphis strip club. Here the black clubs are grimey...but all i did was dance, collect my cash and go home to my then fiance, now that we are married and he knows about my past, he looks beyond it, he is now payin my loans off, but his older sister who is very unattractive, singled and has no job tends to hate me becuz of my past dancing days...hey i had a 3.4 gpa in college and i had a job, im no where near a whore i just did what i had to. Is she right for treating me like crap becuz of my past? Everyone says she is J becuz she cudnt get by in a club! What do you all think about strippers who only do it for the money?
2007-03-24 12:46:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First, your sister-in-law is jealous of you. You can't make people who base their life decisions off their own securities see things differently. Don't even try. She is who she is and you just have to deal with it. When she brings it up, tell her you were done with that conversation ages ago and she needs to move past it.
Second, if you're comfortable with what you did and the reason you did it, then there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-03-24 12:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brntte3078 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cuz was a stripper and I love her unconditionally. Besides it's not my business what she does, in some ways I give her credit for being so gutsy, I couldn't do it.
As for your sis-n-law, have you ever asked her why she is such a **** to you? Maybe, if you really care as to what she thinks, if you let her vent you'll get your chance to tell the whole story and don't forget...."you did nothing wrong, you are a decent and loving person who her brother loves unconditionally and she needs to get a life of her own."
Good luck, hey maybe if you help her with a makeover and show her how to pole dance she won't be so envious! lol
2007-03-24 16:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh yeh heard all of it in the previous. in line with possibility you will possibly desire to write a singular to pay off yer debt you properly into one alredy. What do you all think of approximately strippers who in basic terms do it for the money? as much as them yet dont winge approximately it after cos you get called a slapper.
2016-10-20 08:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bills gotta get paid and stripping is one way of making fast cash. People gotta do what they gotta do just to survive. Ignore the SIL, who she got to support her lazy ***?
2007-03-24 12:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stand up for yourself because you know that you did it to support yourself and nothing else. Just ignore your bratty jealous sister-in-law and move on.
2007-03-24 13:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ones that do it for the money to help out there should be no problem, the ones that do it for sex and such well differant story.
2007-03-24 13:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she hates you because you cant really speak english
2007-03-24 13:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Skeeterbug M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋