I have been seeing a guy whilst he's been travelling, we met 5 weeks before he went, decided we both liked each other and said we would 'see each other' until he got back. I'm worried I'm being too girly and flirty with him over emails and stuff and just wanted some second opinions.
1. Do guys like forwardness?
2. I don't want to come on too strong and push him away when he gets back - any advice?
Any serious advice would be really appreciated!
2007-03-24 12:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a chilled kind of guy, 5 years older than me so he's 23. We have a laugh together make jokes etc. Any more details needed let me know.
2007-03-24 12:53:05 · update #1
to answer this question i would need to know more about him sorry i cant help, try asking him
2007-03-24 12:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel...if you feel that its right to be the way you are then isn't that whats matter the most. It's like being with anyone in social situation, being yourself is probably the best thing and they will either take it or leave it.
Guys do like forwardness, but as I tend to get a little shy it does scare me, but deep down it takes the pressure of me having to do that part of the relationship.
To conclude be yourself and do things that make you feel ok. He will either do one of two things, become scared at which stage he was never right for you in the first place or he will enjoy the 'real you' and kept coming back for more.
2007-03-24 19:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The emails are probably harmless, anyway make them sound inviting, show him what he's missing. And when he gets back, let him come to you. Some guys like alot of affection, some dont. I'm sure in time you'll learn which one he is. Take it steady, dont invite him to live with you not until you both know thats what you want.
2007-03-24 19:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cheeky girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol omg ur my age :D um.. wot ive found with guys who are 23 ish deyre not much different from guys who r twenty.. act da same.. da only difference u will see in men is dat wen dey get older dey mature lol but deyre ideas on how a woman approaches dem is da same.. be forward but dont be overly suggestiove.. im bold too but dont rush it.. its stil da beginning.. u hav to make him crave U as a whole and not certain aspects such as how flirty u r.. flirt but not too much n dont even tlk about sex.. like not involvin both u at together atleast.. too much too early :D Good luck!! lol i need to find me a 23ish man myself
2007-03-24 20:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by *PYT* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you dont sleep with him.
There is no problem in telling him you like him & you would like to see him again.
Keep him at bay for about 6 months & if he still wants to see you he could be the right type for you.
Men like a challenge not easy girls.
Men use easy girls
2007-03-24 20:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There used to be a saying that went something like, 'the man chases the lady until she catches him.' So let him do some chasing til you catch him.
2007-03-24 19:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by d00ney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're coming on too strong at all... this is what people do when they're in the situation you're in.... just relax and do what you think it's best!!!
2007-03-24 20:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Medina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋