2007-03-24 12:56:03 · 15 answers · asked by tiffanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Baby girl if you are best friends then you should be able to tell him. As with anything when you deal with the opposite sex, you have to pick the right time and place. They say the best thing is to be friends first. Most people do not follow good solid advice that has stood the test of time, maybe that is why most marriages end in divorce. Remember that the relationship may not be the same if he does not feel the same. You need to ask yourself if you are willing to risk that or do you want to try and get over it. Pray and think about it without making a rush decision. Watch and see if he really has all the qualities that you want or did you just get a look at him in some really good light one day and was like "da** he's fine" Basically tread lightly after watching and praying for a bit, drop hints before you totally put yourself out there. Try and stage situations where you are really close physically and make sure you are looking really hot see what kind of response you get. I hope it works out for you and you wind up with a very long happy relationship. If not I hope you will be able to keep your best friend, really good friends are hard to come by.
Just thought of a sneaky but low pressure way to do it. You have to know another guy that he knows well. Text your friend and be like I really like you and want to get with you. Then see how he responds. If he is for it then it's all good. If he asks surprised and is like I don't know if we should take it there then be like oh my goodness. I sent that to you I meant to send it to "Mike" (pick somebody, picking somebody he does not know gives you and easier way out) If he makes comments about the other person (provided you pick someone he knows) then say man I was having a low momment I regretted sending it after I did I am glad I sent it to you and not him. If He is like no I think we should just stay friends or I am not into you like that I'm into these chicks over here, then you can still use the same I did not mean to send that to you line, but get your story straight before you do this, if you try it out. Good luck with whatever you do.
2007-03-24 13:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well try spending more time with him. Then flirt with him a little. Ask him if he wants to go to the beach or go to a movie. That way your keeping him away from other people and u get to spend one on one time. When the time is right he will fall into your arms and soon you will be in love!
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2007-03-24 13:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he likes you too. If he does then dont worry about the other girls he likes. If he likes you ask him if he wants to be your BF. That way it will be like a house being Sold; nobody else can get it.
If he doesnt like you accept the fact that you two are friends.
Cause thats as close as you can get unless he cheats on another girl for you.
2007-03-24 13:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting your friends to find out if he likes you. If he does ask him out. Or you can just ask him out and hope for the best. If people find out they will get over it soon enough. Plus whats life without a few risks
2007-03-24 13:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you to and he tells you that he likes a lot of people to get a reaction out of you. It's like fishing, you dangle the bait to see if the fish bites. When he knows that you like him too he will do something about it.
2007-03-24 14:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by xlntls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand how that's to love a terrific buddy who's a guy! tried it and its not stable to combine a stable friendship with a dating. in the long-term if it does not artwork out you would be able to destroy a stable friendship.
2016-11-23 13:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by ugolini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you sat down with him and told him how you feel?
he sounds like a very sociable person and has a lot of friends.
have a one on one talk with him-who knows maybe he feels the same about you. good luck
2007-03-24 13:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by lon d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you do anything..you have to think of whats going to happen once you tell him...it might end up good as in he might like you back or it can end up bad as in he only wanted a friend relation and now he dosent want to be your friend...but dont give up....just think twice and good luck =]
2007-03-24 13:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the fact that he LIKE ALOT OF PEOPLE says leave it! even if you werent friends!
the fact that you are firends makes it worse as you could wreck your freindship over him!
dont tell him either as you may turn in to the ONE OF MANY GIRLS HE LIKES! and he may bore of you and move on!
best luck anyway!
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2007-03-24 13:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. If he is your best friend, like you say, he should listen to you, and not laugh or make fun of you for liking him. If he doesn't like you, don't be embarassed!! Just tell him, after you tell him you like him, that you don't want you liking him to effect your friendship, and you don't want it to be weird, or awkward. But...there is a chance he will like you!!
2007-03-24 12:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋