Do you bealived in love?

Question

Can someone tell me , I married 3 times , don't get me wrong ., but , can you share your opinion about the meaning of love ,

Answer 1

YOu need to get a good book and read it... get some therapy.... something that will increase your insight into yourself. After three marriages there is something about YOU that you are clearly missing and it is harming you in a very profound way. You MUST begin an OBJECTIVE course of self education right away. You've got to get outside support - a good self help book will get you going on the right path. The only thing these three marriages have in common is you. It's no fault of love. No matter what these women did to you, you've got to look HARD into yourself and begin learning NEW ways of being, thinking and behaving and it won't happen overnight. Go to a bookstore or Amazon and begin scouring and reading book jackets - the right book for you will show itself. Bottom line, love is like water, it will take the shape of whatever container you put it into. Now, you've got to change your container (yourself) so love will take on a new and happier form next time you enter it. Change your container and change your life. Good luck

Answer 2

of course! love is more than just romance, good sex and having fun together. it's about the support you give each other during bad times, the trust you have for each other, & knowing that you can communicate well with each other. some people never find it b/c they look in the wrong places, or they find it & don't know how to make it grow. since you've been married 3 times, i strongly suggest you do some soul searching as to why each relationship failed. you may keep making the same mistake over and over again. whether it be picking the wrong type of person or not cherishing your partner as they are and realizing that relationships take a lot of hard work. good luck.

Answer 3

Love is an undefinable thing. But if you're talking about two strangers just falling for each other, then there's a rushed feeling that just flows through your heart and you make an unthinkable move that you would never normally do. Either you notice the rush, miss and go for the next best thing, or you completely don't feel it at all (Blinded by love). There's always a perfect match for you, so learn from the mistakes in your previous relationships and marriages and make your move.

Answer 4

Love is the unspoken bond. When someone says "I love you" it means nothing. It is only words. A lot of people confuse lust for love.

I know I love someone when it is all highs or lows, there is no just middle ground. Because it is either so good, there is no words to explain it, or so painful, that this person has been hurt, once again there are no words to explalin it.

I am guessing you have never been in love. Marriage does not equate to love.

Love is a dimension that few people understand. If you experience it you are one of the lucky people in the world

Answer 5

If you don't believe in love or don't know what it is...I suggest you seek God and learn his word by reading it. It's not enough to just listen to and believe what people tell you about God and his words, you must actually read it for yourself to get a true understanding.

I think it's the best thing to do to begin to understand love, what it means and how to find it. In the context of self-fulfillment with no other or higher purpose, love is whatever you want it to be.

Do you see what I mean?

Answer 6

You have to find out why you got a divorce. Did you chose women who cheated or did YOU cheat? If it's you, you know the answer... it's your fault. If she did, then maybe you should try meeting more moral women. If it's communication that broke down the relationship, try to figure out how it went wrong before you go into another. It's just hard to say. But, to make a long story short, yes, I believe in love.

Answer 7

Love is like you are dreaming and walking on air, it makes you happy when ever you think about the person you love. When you love someone you know that you are willing too go thru good and bad with that person and vice versa.

Its about your heart, mind and soul coming together and that feeling of completeness coming over you.

Love begins within, you have to love yourself unconditionally , before you can truly love someone else

Answer 8

sorry cant help still looking myself, but what i hope it is called levels in a relationship i feel that if you can over come the obstacles that you encounter then still have feelings for that person stronger than that moving up a level . each time their is friction the make up should be like thinking what if i loose my best friend.....then again i said i am still waiting for my chance,haven't found that person worth the pressure, the thought the emotions .....wow three times what are you looking for the magic coochiee.

Answer 9

love means committ ment maybe you have a committtment promble and not a love one i have been married to the same man for 29yrs or maybe you are marring the wring kid of man all i know if you love them you stay unless there is violenices good luck

Answer 10

love is not easy....having a relationship is like having a job, U have to work on it every day or its gone. Just wait and you'll find the perfect person for you. GOOD LUCK!!!