Recently I got asked to prom by a really cute & popular senior and its really cool cuz i'm only a freshman so this is an opportunity that i just couldn't turn down. Well I said yes to him & I got all excited & told my best friend but she went & told my kinda sorta ex-boyfriend. We only dated for 5 days so I can't exactly call him my ex but o well. I had no idea that he still had feelings for me & he got really upset about me going to prom with this senior. But I tried to explain to him that I was only going with him as a friend cuz my date had already told me that he had heard i was cool & fun & he asked me cuz he wanted to go with someone who wasn't trying to get with him so he could just have fun with his friends. So he's obviously not interested in me in a romantic way or anything but my ex is still jealous & he acts like he doesn't care & he's just being really mean & selfish about it. Its not like I can go with him cuz we're both freshmen...I didnt mean to hurt him...what do i do?
2007-03-24 13:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't owe this guy any explanation or any apology. You didn't do anything wrong. You are just living your life the way you want to. Nothing wrong with that. What should you do? You should go to the prom and have a really good time. Don't pay any attention to Mr.Jealous.
2007-03-24 13:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats his problem...its not as if he was a steady boyfriend or anything ( 5 days isn't too steady, if you ask me) and you have your own life to live! YOU get to chose....and if he is acting all weird about, just let him! Go out and the time of your life at the prom! HAVE FUN and don't worry about him.
2007-03-24 20:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats his problem......if hes "hurt" then too bad.....if he doesnt understand that you are only going as a friend then he might not be the best person to start a relationship with......your "ex" seems like he is TOO jealous......let him deal with it, he'll get over it
2007-03-24 20:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋