Ok so I love this girl with everything that is in me, unfortunately, there is also a lot of jealousy issues from a past relationship. I have gotten so much better and no longer let my jealousy affect her but it still affects me very much I get upset and sick to my stomach.
Any one got any ideas or anything that they do to help deal with this issue??
2007-03-24 13:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it already! You said it was a PAST relationship. Why should that bother you? She is with you NOW. Be grateful and appreciate that she is in your life, but if you continue to raise the jealousy issue.....or even feel jealous, it will affect the relationship negatively.
So it's simple. Let it (jealousy) go and be happy.
2007-03-24 13:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a sickness. Very human, but a sickness. If you want to keep this relationship and it sounds like you do, please get counseling! Your girlfriend will feel like she is in a prison of sorts. She will also lose respect for you! In life, we imitate the things we fear...in other words, you can drive her right out of your arms!! Trust is so wonderful...it's the greatest gift we can bestow on the one we love. If you are good to her, kind, respectful, considerate...in other words, if you are a good mate, well, good men are hard to find!!! She will not look elsewhere, trust me!! Meanwhile, watch that vivid imagination of yours! Our minds are habitual in nature...they follow a well worn path...pay attention, when your mind goes down that jealousy path, say, STOP! You do have this choice, really! Good luck to you!
2007-03-24 14:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurities from past relationships are due to wen falling in love with someone else and you wished you were the 1st person to kiss/cuddle caress make love to,but no-one ever tells you who is the one you have to lead your life until you find the right one.Trust me you no wen the one is the one you will let the green eyed monster sleep
2007-03-24 13:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big old can of green-eyed monster whoop ***. Trust is the answer. If you yourself can be trusted, then you have no reason to mistrust others because jealousy comes from lack of self-trust, not lack of other trust
2007-03-24 13:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is often women,who talk the bits and bobs of a relationship with their respective companions,with different women,(some thing i could confess,i've got under no circumstances understood why,as maximum adult men,to their male acquaintances,maximum probably do not).they do look to have truly a specified friendship,yet she is a mutual buddy,who you of course the two comprehend.that's the undeniable fact which you're actually not truly the centre of his interest,that's quite bothering you?.you have advised him the way it truly is making you experience,and if we settle for that that isn't a interest you're the two enjoying,then you definately've a determination to make,as to if or to not in simple terms call it an afternoon,or not,if it truly is unquestionably making you truly uncomfortable.
2016-12-19 13:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always love yourself before you get into another relationship. Know you are good enough to be without someone before you are with someone.
2007-03-24 13:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear blue contacts. Or make her jealous by going out with someone else.
2007-03-24 13:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by linkin_brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋