I have know this man when he was married. He stopped talking to me when he got a divorce and then all of a sudden he asks me out to "lunch". He treated me great and was the best date I ever had, asked me on a second one, and then wigged out and dissappeared. I really had/have feelings for him and would date him, or would just be freinds but i dont know why things have gotten so weird. I have known him to be the most decent guy and I am really confused. I am MUCH younger, and I was just wondering if he just asked me to drag me along and to make himself feel better that he could still be attractive to a much younger girl. Was I used for the sake of his ego? Or did he have feelings for me? this is his second divorce and his exwife hated me with a passion (even though I had no issue with her - she was pretty, smart, ex) Should I try to reconnect or did I do the right thing when i told him to go to hell? Please men let me now your motives .......
2007-03-24 13:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by STL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel qualified to answer this since I'm on my forth marriage.
Things just aren't that simple. None of us really know what we're doing. I'll try to answer without writing a book.
I was married for 7 years. After Viet Nam I married a dancer that I had known for two weeks, We were in love. even now I realize this was true. She became an alcoholic . I was lost without her.
Yes I was seeing lots of young girls in numbers. My first wife was 1 yr younger than I. My 2nd wife was 6 yrs younger. My third wife was 12 yrs younger and my forth was 13 yrs younger. I am married 22 yrs now.
This man is going through a mental merry go round. My advice would be to run, but if you simply must have him. You've got to put your brand on him and take control. Give him something to believe in. Make him belong as well as loved.
My opinion is still to run.
2007-03-24 13:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly i assume that's ok as long as you somewhat love him and he somewhat loves you. You extra ideal make confident he somewhat does in the previous you flow any farther. additionally in case you have been married and divorced which ability you haven't any longer consumer-friendly him long. do purely no longer leap into something which you at the instant are not waiting for. some human beings purely % to get married and prefer the sensation and so as that they do no longer likely think of it via. You knew you ex for 4 years and did no longer comprehend who he somewhat grew to become into so make an effort to get to comprehend this one. additionally i'm a single mum and dad and his daughter would not % a chum she desires a parental discern (no longer mom yet yeah) so I say decrease back off on that too. you're able to have exciting and not be her pal.
2016-10-20 09:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I met my current husband while he was married .. Yes i was the much younger other woman. I think they like the excitement at first. I can tell you that for me being younger i am now bored out of my mind.
2007-03-24 13:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by lisalisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women dont want men until other women want them so Im sure everytime he hooked up with you his ex wife would pretend like she wanted him back. So the question is why do you women play games so much
2007-03-24 13:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like younger women so they feel smarter and more powerful. Some men like younger women because they like their beauty or innocence. It's hard to say.
2007-03-24 13:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl you did the right thing. For sure he was trying to convince him self how good he is with younger girls. Am so glad you noticed he was playing with you. =)
2007-03-24 13:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah i did a few (younger) but they were so dull boring and inexperienced.. i went back to the older than me's...
2007-03-24 13:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋