So me and this guy went to the movies and we have been talking as friends every since. And he invited me to his party that he is going to have later on. I know he is a big flirt but I can't help but being extremely attracted to him, he's funny and nice and charming and we have alot in common.
But he told me a few weeks that he wasn't looking for a relationship because he was moving but his plans changed and he's staying here. Any advice? Or should I not act on my feelings for the fear of him saying he doesn't want a relationship with me...in other words rejection
2007-03-24 13:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by pebblespunk2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can go into it looking at it as just friends. If he starts acting differently, you can ask him about it and tell him you thought he wanted just friends, but he is acting like he wants more. If you want more, you need to tell him. I believe in open communication and honesty in every relationship.
I was just friends with a guy for almost two years. I had some more than just friends feelings for him for a while, but blew them off. He then actually had the same feelings. We talked about it and now we have been dating for about 4 months. If you don't talk about it, you will never know for sure. There will always be the fear of rejection, but if you don't know clearly before you step into it, then you will be hurt more in the long run. If you think he is changing his mind, talk to him about it. Don't read into it more than there is, and if you feel like there is more feelings on your part and there is not on his and probably will not be, you should get out of it before you get hurt, unless you can remain just friends.
Best wishes to you.
2007-03-24 13:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the party with an open mind. If you hook up with him, then that's gteat and your question will be answered, but it might be an opportunity to meet someone else. You just never know.
Be careful. Guys who flirt well are often players. They know how to make you feel good, and how to hook you on them. Keep your clothes on until you know what you both want from the relationship. Don't get caught up in his flirtation.
Good luck. But all going well, you may not need it.
2007-03-24 20:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about timing. Just wait till you find that you have the encourage to ask and can handle rejection. As they say it is better to have loved than not love at all
2007-03-24 20:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ell it looks like he kinda likes you too....just try to get more along with him and do more stuff together ...so maybe he could like you even more..so good luck!!
2007-03-24 20:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋