Before i begin: I'm from a muslim culture, asian, quite traditional, and have strong cultural values. I knew my wife for a few months before marriage, we were engaged and used to speak on the phone for hours... we told each other everything about our past.
She always told me she had never been with any man before, never had a boyfriend, and was a nice muslim. I myself had never touched a woman, and was a virgin on my wedding night. That is a very important cultural value i hold. A few days ago i found out that my wife had been in a steady relationship with a boy in university, slept with him and was with him for over a year. Went on holidays with him, and was also pregnant with his baby (which she got aborted). I always had doubts from the wedding nights, but never let them effect our relationship. It is just hurting too much knowning that every moment she spends with me, she has done it with this man! nothing seems special anymore, i don't even feel like touching her.. please help!
2007-03-20
04:30:12
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