i was wiv someone just over a year ago and i was sooo madly in love.. Liked him for ages and Really thought he was the one..He ended it after 4mnths into the relationship n i was so upset because he wasnt only my boyfriend but my bestfriend aswell.. Well,a couple of weeks after i found out that my so called friend at the time had made a move on him and they were together... As u can imagin it totally f**ked me over and i felt sooo depressed,couldnt get my head around how someone could do that to me, especially a friend..
I havent propley spoke to her since and a friends birthday has come along witch am likely to bump into the happy couple witch are still togehter...
I still feel so mad by hey and i totally hate her and will nver forget what she did to me...
How can i get through the night without wanting to kill her????
2007-03-20 04:33:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its happened to us all, and i've felt like killing, best thing take out your anger in the gym, or cycling. it worked for me .good luck
2007-03-20 04:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by andyj251 on ebay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry about what your friend did but don't get violent about it with her by wanting to kill her. Violence is never the answer so just take a deep breath and don't act around her in a way that hints your friend that she should pay for it. She should know what she has done. If she doesn't feel guilty, then that's her issue. If she tries to talk to you, then go with your guts and tell her that what she has done has hurt you and if she wants to continue being your friend, then she has to find a way for all three of you to be great buddies.
2007-03-20 14:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do if you can is rise above it because she will be looking forward to you been there and she been there with your ex,(you know how women can be sometimes) she will want it to bother you because she can then believe in herself that you are still in love with her man and this will make her feel good. Go to the party enjoy yourself and be you don't be to over the top as she and everyone else will notice it what ever you do don't get drunk as this will make you emotional another disaster, just go have fun don't loOK at her or him make sure your with people you know and can have fun with and show both of them that ok you did a s**t thing to me but guess what that's your problem and sooooo not mine, if he can do it to you he will also hurt her in time and then you can reap the rewards of her actions with a smile. Good luck and have fun your better than both of them remember that.
2007-03-20 11:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you i really do.
To avoid the party is not the answer.
I think you should go to the party with a friend (dont go alone) who can support you but hold your head high!
You have done nothing wrong.
Ignore them but if they speak be brief and just nod your head.
I know this will be very difficult for you but there will be a time you have to face seeing them as a couple. You may as well do it now.
And as for your friend she was no friend to let a bloke come between you.
2007-03-20 12:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put your own feelings aside for your friend's birthday. You do not want to be the one to ruin her birthday. Stay away from both of them. If either approach, walk away. Be the bigger person and you will come off looking as such. The only other option is to not attend if you cannot do this. If you do attend, which I highly reccommend, look flawlessly beautiful. By looking this way and acting in such, you will come off as the bigger person. Don't let either of them know that it bothers you now or then. In the long run, you will see this is the better way.
2007-03-20 11:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! that happened to me early this year!!!
It hurts so bad doesnt it.
Eventually you'll feel much better about it.
Circumstances were different with me n my ex. but my best mate went after him.
I was so heartbroken and told her i'd never forgive her.
but i have done. and im glad.
Friends are here forever, boys come and go. they've since split up cause he broke her heart.
I lost too many friends to let myself lose another over a boy.
Your friendship is worth more than a boy.
What i told myself was 'he doesnt want you. he wants her. get over it and be happy'
its hard, it'll hurt like a ***** for weeks.
but in the end you'll be glad if you keep talkin to her.
just make sure she knows what she's done.
2007-03-20 11:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by tablesalt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she cant have been much of a friend if shes with your man and he sounds like a total prick for going with your friend, forget them both they sound like a right pair of Muppet's and probably deserve each other, but i wouldn't bring violence into it ,cause all that does is shows how much you are bothered and lets be honest they ain't worth spitting on...
2007-03-20 11:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what shes a b**ch making a move on your man dont forgive her or she might steal your next bloke, you go to that party get your best clothes on do your make-up and just have a great time and blank the pair of them you shouldnt let people back in your life that hurt you
2007-03-20 11:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone nice to go with, and don't give them a second look they deserve each other. Or arrange to go out another day with your friend explain the situation sure she will under stand.
2007-03-20 11:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by lyn.sweet@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool girlfriend because they will expect you to go mad,it will show them both what a nice person you are,get dressed to kill,it will certainly make your ex think what he is missing,and you know the old saying what goes around comes around,its only a matter off time!!!!
2007-03-20 11:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely act like they are not there unless they talk to you and then grit your teeth,cross your fingers and be polite.Enjoy yourself,have a laugh with your friends and let them see you are so better off now.
2007-03-20 11:44:24 · answer #11 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋