Yesterday he told me "there is not anyone else, i don't want there anyone else." Should I take it seriously? There are just so many guys that give lines. We have been seeing each other casually. Well it came out yesterday that neither one of us is seeing anyone else. Part of me really wants to believe him and the other does not. The only reason that I don't want to believe him is he has been real hesitant about commitment.
2007-03-20 04:29:24 · 23 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey if he makes you happy then go for it....you can at least give him a chance to prove it to you that he means what he says....and if not at least you tried it out.....good luck
2007-03-20 04:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The lady doth protest too much."
He's a little bit defensive. Saying, "There's no one else," would have sufficed but he had to compound it with, "I don't want anyone else." He probably followed that up with, "Really. Seriously. Cross my hear and hope to die. May lightning strike me down if I'm lying."
Leave this guy. Date other people.
He's hesitant about commitment because he has other options or because he think he has other options. He may not be seeing anyone else at the moment because he doesn't have any opportunities but he'll probably jump at the first viable chance to cheat on you.
2007-03-20 11:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Carlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to feel that way. Guys will say whatever they can to make you feel happy and comfortable with them whether its true or not....a hint of advice if he's told you he loved you and you guys have been seeing each other for only a week then he's probably making everything else up. YOu can't just love someone right off the bat. So he could be telling the truth. i wish you the best luck with that relationship and i hope everything goes out okay. good luck and best wishes
2007-03-20 11:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard...you might have to give him the benefit of the doubt since nothing is really serious. As time goes on, you'll know for sure. And if you don't feel comfortable you always have the option to stop seeing him and go for someone who doesn't seem as hesitant about commitment.
2007-03-20 11:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself! As you become more in touch with you own real feelings challenges will be easy to meet. You must, if interested give him a chance. Again keep yourself number one at all times. The right man will come to you when the time is right for you, and only you will know when that special time comes.
You are an unrepeatable gift of God and deserve the best in every aspect of life. Meet your challenges and keep on believing in yourself and good fortune will come your way!!!!
2007-03-20 11:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's hesitant because he's afraid of geting hurt. It kind of sounds like you may have been hurt yourself baby-doll. Give him a chance if he has given you no reason whatsoever to think anysuspicious thoughts. You gotta get out there and play the game, or you'll never know if you will win or loose. That's what life is all about. It hurts sometimes, but we take chances, if they feel worth it and you want it.
2007-03-20 11:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a certain amount of trust to build a relationship. Just because he says he hasn't been seeing anyone else, doesn't mean that he wont find someone interesting tommorrow. There isn't any rush, so just play it by ear and if you are ready to be exclusive then say so. If he isn't ready, then he can tell you that, and you can decide to stay or go.
2007-03-20 11:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Wanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O this is a tough one. I think for right now u should believe him, but start asking if anyone knows if he's double dating. My bf was cheating, but i figured out because his Best Friend told me.
2007-03-20 11:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by we_love_him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a reason not to believe him, then don't.
But, if resistance to commit is your only reason, then I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt.
2007-03-20 11:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems lik hes not that bad with commitment if u are the only one that hes dating and he told you that thats how he wants it to be.
it sounds like ur the one with the issue to commit, but thats ok if ur not ready then dont force anything if he really likes u he'll wait until ur ready
2007-03-20 11:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to show his commitment, because you both were being casual about it. after a month or so if he's acting the same, drop him. make sure that you talk to him about it, too!! good luck!!
2007-03-20 11:55:49 · answer #11 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋