Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

Im in grade 7. And well Im doing great at school. & everything. But is it worth it having a boyfriend? I mean the reason isn't cause everyone is having one its because of experience. Some of my friends have one but im not pressured of having one. Do you think right now I can start having one or wait till highschool? plz help.

2007-03-18 06:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Babee Snapzz 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this is kind of a long story. I have had a pretty good boyfriend for a little over 16 months now, and it's been good but we've had some so-so times in the relationship. Yesterday, I had been texting a guy from school that had been an on-off crush all year. He called me later that night while he had some two friends over and we talked for hours. I found out (from himself) that he liked me! But he is really good friends with my boyfriend, and we both know that cheating is wrong. The problem is that my guy is out of town, so I won't be able to talk to him until the end of the week, so there's no way that we could go out before then even though we want to. The "new guy" invited me over to a friend's house tomorrow for his birthday (he's having people over) and he said it would be "couples night." I'm still wondering though if this is the best idea, because it's been a while with my boyfriend and I don't know if this is a good thing to end it over. What should I do? Who should I date?

2007-03-18 06:33:19 · 3 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me a month ago and then I went to her work about a week ago to give her a note asking if we could talk about what was going on with her. She took it and then as I turned to leave she asked me how I was. I said good how are you. She said good and started to smile but when she saw that I was leaving that smile vanished and turned into a ya whatever look. What's it mean?? Am I looking too much into this or is this a signal from her? Keep in mind since she got that note she hasn't replied to it yet.

2007-03-18 06:33:14 · 20 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

both married met him at a local club we shared the same hobby, he started by making faces at me, i noticed him & it all started. he was charming gave me so much attention & i fell in love with him. my marriage was going through difficulties, we talked, there was this attraction between us, unmistakable noticed by most. i had been married for 15years starting all over & giving up my home & kids even with the problems seemed very tough & i could'nt imagine the idea of him having to break his either, but 1day i did try 2 put an end to my marriage & left only 2 go back because my son,9 , started wetting his bed & so i told him that i chose my family but could'nt stand losing him & proposed we stayed together 2 which he refused..but there was this attraction still & 1day i invite him over, eventually he came, in bed kissing..he suddenly jumps out & says i won't sleep with u, why?he says many things & leaves. so hurt i stop speaking to him, suffered A LOT. some months later he dies he was 33

2007-03-18 06:32:57 · 3 answers · asked by inco g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have 2 really good friends, jade and kim, theyre like sisters 2 me. im a year older so i went to highschool first but while i was there they became close with these guys mark and chris. chris is cool but marks a complete asshole and man whore. jade and kim wanted to take my gf out for a girls night out to judge her or something. when they went there, they ran into mark and chirs, went over to marks house. and mark insisted on everyone playing truth or dare. he dared my gf to kiss that chris guy, chris i guess was kind of high, and he even said "wait, doesnt she have a bf?" but mark insisted that it didnt count and that if i was a good guy, it wouldnt matter to me cuz it was just a game. she got home and told me right away and i flipped out. i broke up with her right away just like mark wanted me to do cuz now hes dating her. but now jade and kim want to meet my new gf. i fear history will repeet itself. if it hapens again what should i do?

2007-03-18 06:32:35 · 2 answers · asked by dandaman3523 1 in Singles & Dating

Soon to be ex takes kids out of state on weekend vacations but does not inform me. I feel I should have the right to know before he does this.

2007-03-18 06:31:42 · 13 answers · asked by loveheartsfree 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 06:31:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mom in law is a fine 43 year old MILF.I am 36,her daughter my wife is 23,how could this be wrong/ She has just had silicone boobs done,and she has cornered me as she wants to show them to me alone.I do not think I can stop myself.To have them both is every mans dream.

2007-03-18 06:31:04 · 2 answers · asked by BAKKUS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 06:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so into this guy that held me one night till i slept a year ago because i was still bitter about catching my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)i have seen him here and there throughout the year and always thought about him.I finally called him a month ago and told him he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he had no idea and he thinks im the most beautiful girl in the world,he said he wished he knew but he started seeing someone a month ago and its only fair that he tells me.I told him he had to tell me to let it go and he said he cant.I ran into him a couple weeks after and we were like magnets and started kissing,until i remembered his girlfriend and told him we had to stop,again he said he wished he knew how i had felt,i told him we would be freinds because im not'that girl' he understood and again told me how he felt about me and how he wished he knew,now what do i do?its been a week since and i have not heard from him,i now have these feelings for him.

2007-03-18 06:30:05 · 8 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you chose to date a ugle guy but so sweet or a relly relly cute guy but so abnockshos that he dose not look at you

2007-03-18 06:30:03 · 7 answers · asked by likemagic* 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there an anti-testosterone medication available?

2007-03-18 06:29:48 · 16 answers · asked by tουΖουrs 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 06:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by kunta 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a quandry. I have been married 8 years. Now, in the beginning, all seemed ok. He was a homebody, and I thought I was too. This seemed agreeable to both.
Now, it is 8 years later and is no longer agreeable to me.
I am in school, and wish to expand my horizons. I want to go out places, meet new people, even get together with them!
My husband is very anti-social and only agrees to meet with other married duos. He is very conservative. I am very open.
We realize now we are complete opposites. My parents are like this, but have been happily wed 38 years, thus giving me the false illusion that opposites can work it out that long.
My brother is divorcing his opposite wife of 12 years. I think he is brave, yet misguided a bit. I am unclear on the details.
Irregardless, what do I do with this situation? We have opposite goals, dreams, etc...but need each other to survive financially!
What direction do I take from here?

2007-03-18 06:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The 1950's and 60's were loaded with great Musicals that depicted Love and life.

Once I had a date with Sandi in Brooklyn, who lived quite a distance from me. Long walk . I was 16 and it was the 60s.

along the way , I found myself singing songs on the way (out loud) I sang "Tonight I fell in Love" I sang
"Tonight, tonight" and I sang "Tonight" from West Side Story.

I realize that that age is gone but has this ever happened to you in any form?

2007-03-18 06:28:55 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

lol

2007-03-18 06:28:17 · 33 answers · asked by kar6693 1 in Singles & Dating

At least I thought she was my friend.Ive done everything for her and shes always been there for me until now.Shes been my best friend for the last four years. Ive bought her a truck so she could get a job. Let her move into my home.Bought her anything she wanted. In return shes always done anything she could to support me.We have never been sexual because she thought it would change our relationship and I always respected that. Now when I need her the most shes been away for the last five days. Ive heard from her a couple of times so I know shes alright. She dont want anything to do with me for some reason and I cantr figure out why. I feel like Ive lost my best and only friend and I dont know what to do.Have I been fooled for the last four years just thinking she was my friend.Could she have fooled me for that long And why.

2007-03-18 06:28:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know it sounds unusual to ask my ex-girlfriend if its ok with her if i start dating someone..
but i just did and what ive got was no response from her, i tried calling her but she doesnt answer my calls anymore..
the reason why im trying to do this is that i want to be sure if i really have to move on and forget about her coz i still do love her.

why is she acting this way? is it possible that she still loves me that's why she doesnt say a word

2007-03-18 06:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by curious lover 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me why sisterinlaws and motherinlaws are very cruel with
daughterinlaws , for nothing, what we can do for this , tell me
the solution for this probs.

2007-03-18 06:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by indianhuman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever im around a guy i like, or find attractive i feel very self conscious and intimidated. Furthermore when i dance with a guy, i feel like im outside my comfort zone. I have grown up without a dad, so have had no male influence in my life, which i think does not help, so im not really used to being around men and feel uncomfortable around them. I also lack confidence in myself, due a facial problem and braces (not gonna go into details - but my mates say that i am a good lookin girl, i just don't feel it at times). For instance, i was dancing with guy at club, but could not make proper eye contact, as i felt fairly uncomfortable, thinking that they will be judging me or noticing that i am not very attractive, compared to other girls.

Any advice much appreciated, as this is hindering me when out at socialising and meeting/dancing with guys i like

2007-03-18 06:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Appletart 20 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my boyfriend for about a year and we aren't engaged yet, but have plans to marry in the near future. He has an ex-girlfriend of 4 years in hs and college and they still talked for up to 2 years until we met. It was a very serious relationship and she repeatedly cheated on him and he kept going back to her because he was so in love. I'm not sure why this bothers me so much but I think about it every day. We are very happy together but I am always wondering if he would be with her right now if we hadn't met. I can't undo the past but it bothers me so much that he had such strong feelings for her. It makes me feel like I am his second choice. Do these feelings ever go away or should I get out of the relationship? I hate feeling inadequate and I'm not sure if it will ever get better. He doesn't talk to her or anything -- I am just stuck on something I can't change. He gets frustrated every time I bring it up.

2007-03-18 06:24:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That's what my wife said, when she asked for a divorce.
It really hurt. All I've ever done was provide for her and the children.
I left that evening only to have her walk up to me @ a bar and say I knew she would be there with her friends. She didn't appear to be upset @ all.
It ripped my heart out.
How can you love someone too much?

2007-03-18 06:23:58 · 13 answers · asked by weazle 1 in Singles & Dating

Because my mom has been acting like super ***** for the past week... she usually is a *****, but JESUS.

I asked her a question last night, and she snapped at me like nothing else. She also started yelling at me and accused me of stealing something... Geez, I do well in school and I am about to graduate top of my class, and she finds the biggest excuses to ***** at me. I can't move out like I did before... since they all live on the other side of the country :(

Maybe she is bipolar.

2007-03-18 06:22:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Family

I go to a small school and everyone there thinks I am really shy. I have 2 good friends that I am not shy around because i know them really well. I would like to get to know more people and make more friends. Any advise on how to be more outgoing and popular at school. I have tried but it is very hard for me.

2007-03-18 06:22:08 · 11 answers · asked by airiv311 1 in Friends

I believe we feel and experience emotions in the same way, perhaps we just show them in a differently. What do you think of this?

2007-03-18 06:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by Flyinghorse 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was having a one on one conversation in this man’s office, and we were discussing beauty (professional conversation, but it’s not at work, he’s not my boss, or co-worker – I know people will wonder!).

I already know he finds me really attractive from other things that have happened, but this time he said (which was in line with the subject) that beautiful women are powerful, but while he did that, he looked in my eyes, then quickly down at my chest, then back up to my face. I was listening to him talk, I was the only one in the room, so he knew I would see it.

My question is: when men look at a woman’s chest, is it just a slip (he’s in his 30s)?? I think that, if he did it knowing I would see it, he WANTED me to see it…to know that he considers me as a sexual partner?? Or maybe he couldn’t help himself…What do men usually do?

2007-03-18 06:21:16 · 21 answers · asked by Mary P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Spent years caring for invalid mum and never got married. I help out with friends children and love being with them but today I ache with lonliness. At christmas and bank holidays I
have nowhere to be I would so love to be a granny with a familly. I am only 57years old are there any adopt a granny schemes for people like me and where can I find out. I have
so much love to give and it is all wasted.

2007-03-18 06:21:15 · 19 answers · asked by Loobyloo 2 in Friends

Do you [as I] stay off here on the weekends because of all the teens trying to find a girlfriend/boyfriend? I figure , let them have there fun. why not.

2007-03-18 06:19:53 · 5 answers · asked by don 6 in Friends

Hello, I'm from Russia, and I want to improve my English.
If you want to know interesting people in another country, if you want to see new place, get to know another culture and find a good friend, write me!
I can tell you about our country and we can be friends.

2007-03-18 06:19:08 · 3 answers · asked by Vitori 1 in Friends

i have a brother an dhe drives me crazy i would also think that a sister would to i want your apinuon

2007-03-18 06:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by likemagic* 2 in Friends