2007-03-18 06:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely not ,,,, Unless you want to lose a friend ,,,, which in that case you'd have to decided which friend you'd want to lose ,,,, Treat it as none of your business ,,,, The truth will come out sooner or later and when it does you can say you had nothing to do with it ,,,, Let nature take it's course ,,,, and just be there when your best friend needs you ,,,, That's all you can and should do ,,,, Stick your nose in someone else's fire and you just might get it burned ,,,,
2007-03-18 07:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should know that her husband is cheating on her. If you don't want to tell her yourself, try getting a picture of her husband and your other friend together and sent it to her in the mail. Or you could be a true friend and call her over to your house and tell her the truth face to face. She might get mad at you or not believe you, but at least you tried to do the right thing. You know about the affair and not tell her about it is just as bad as them cheating on her.
2007-03-18 15:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard to say. Would you want to be told? I think you should have a talk with the friend who is doing the cheating and tell her she needs to come clean to the friend and stop the affair, or you are going to tell your friend.
2007-03-18 13:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ammikins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, I was the guy in this situation once upon a time. My now ex-wife was cheating. Many of our friend knew it but said nothing. Some really close friends. Some were in on it. Now all these people are just people I know, and not considered friends now. Just be careful because it can blow up in your face and you will all of the sudden be the bad guy.
2007-03-18 13:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by krash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would want to know if I were being cheated on. I would be hurt if I found out a friend knew and didn't tell me.
2007-03-18 16:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'd tell the husband you are on to him and he should tell his wife before she finds out on her own. But, also, if I were you, I'd break off my relationship with that so-called "friend." Your BEST friend is the one you should be loyal to. So, tell the cheating friend that you can no longer be friends with her as she is doing wrong to your BEST friend.
2007-03-18 13:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt want to be in your spot!! I would definatly talk to the hooker that is cheating with a married man and tell her to stop or you will tell or tell!!! Would you want to know? Wouldnt you want your best friend standing up for you?
2007-03-18 13:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a sticky situation. Sometimes you may tell someone something becuase you want to help them but it could backfire on you and you could lose a frienship that you value. I would not tell her but I would go to him and make sure he knows that you know. It is quite possible she already knows but is trying not to think about it.
2007-03-18 13:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by lizabet17110 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would write her an anonymous letter, very short, and give her some evidence to back it up so she can catch him herself.
2007-03-18 18:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. What sort of friend even has to ask such a question?
2007-03-18 13:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋