Is there an anti-testosterone medication available?
2007-03-18 06:29:48 · 16 answers · asked by tουΖουrs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being so freindly with men
2007-03-18 06:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by sychofatmen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no medication for his kind of trouble ,,,, It's all mental and ignorance ,,,, Tell him to stop interfering with your social life or he's not going to have you to fight over ,,,, He's being an asss ,,,, Just who does he think he is that he thinks he has the right to exercise that kind of control over you or dictate who you can or can't associate with ?
He's just your boyfriend ,,,, A visitor in your life is all ,,,, He must have some major insecure feelings about him self and he lacks sufficient brain pan to address or figure out how to handle this problem without resorting to violence ,,,, Wild animals display the same behavior ,,,, the bull or buck is always on the look out for rival males to protect his rights to rutt ,,,, Sounds like to me that you have a decision to make ,,,,,
I guess if you like the cave man type it's ok but this is 2007 AD not 2007 BC ,,,, You just might be wise to look in some other direction for male company and let this guy deal with his problem alone ,,,, From what you said you are the cause that moves him to violence so maybe you need to change that ,,,, He's not the only fish in the pond ,,,, Maybe you need to go fishing and find some one that's fun and exciting and pleasant to be with ,,,, They are out there all you have to do is find one and most of them come trouble and problem free ,,,,
2007-03-18 15:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Medication is not the key to solving your problem with your boyfriend.I have the same problem with mine.When guys get too attach with their girlfriends they tends to not want you spending your time with anyone of the opposite sex besides them.I have male friends but my boyfriend only approve of the ones that I met before him.Totally not fair.I had to communicate with him about my problem.Communication is key to any and every relationship.If it still doesn't work.
Look at things this way believe it or not most guys try to be friends with girls because they like them.Most well..all of my guy friends have a big crush on me.I like them only as a friend because i have someone already but I am a big flirt so that doesn't help either.I hang out with them behind my boyfriends back.I rarely go out with them so that I won't form a attachment to them or vice versa.
Guys know when other guys are trying to get with their girlfriend.My best friend told me that it is funny how when you are single you don't meet allot of guys.As soon as your off the market that is when every guys that hasn't notice you-they will now.Try talking with him about your problem first.If that doesn't work out ten do what I do.Sneak around because it is sad but that is the only way of me getting what I want.Friends outside of b!@#$y girls.I hope it works out for you.
2007-03-18 13:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by jany50002002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not be flattered if your boyfriends picks fights with boys you want to just be friends with. If he can't accept your having friends (males or females), then he has an abusive kind of personality. He should trust you. If he doesn't, you need a new boyfriend, honey, or you will eventually marry this kind of "Me Macho, Me own you" guy. It is not a good trait. Tell him to trust you and back off or he's out of your life. And mean it.
2007-03-18 13:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think if this kind of attitude is something you can live with. He sounds like a very jealous person, maybe even unreasonable sometimes. His tendency to provoke fights is definitely threatening, and could cause you trouble in the future. Unless he changes (I won't hold my breath if I were you) his immature ways, I suggest you find a more secure man.
I had an ex-boyf for three years who was a green monster and I avoided all my guy friends because of him. After we broke up, I found myself with no guy friends to run to because I traded them in for my guy. I hope things will be better for you.
2007-03-18 13:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get used to it, that's not something you can change. If your bf wanted to, he could work on changing, but all that is tied in with his insecurities, so your talk isn't going to have any effect on him (except to make him uncomfortable and defensive). You have a possessive and controlling guy on your hands, say goodbye to life as you knew it.
Or break up with him and look for someone a little more socially secure.
2007-03-18 13:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he is insecure, controlling and even a bully. Think about if you want to be in a relationship with someone that is possessive and starts fights with other males that want to be your friend. Has something happened to make him not trust you??
2007-03-18 13:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie246 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that you aren't going to be more than just friends with other guys. But if he is that insecure, I would dump him immediately, just because you have a boyfriend, doesn't mean you can't have another friend especially if it's a male!
2007-03-18 13:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a big bad a** too be friends with Break him down too size for a change or just dump him
2007-03-18 13:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by verysmartguy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, he is a really jealous guy I guess. Just tell him to cool down or else that he will lose you. Tell him that you wouldn't do that if a girl talked to him.
2007-03-18 13:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by vexen431 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's perhaps them trying to pick you up thats the problem
2007-03-18 19:06:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋