What do i do now?

Question

I am so into this guy that held me one night till i slept a year ago because i was still bitter about catching my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)i have seen him here and there throughout the year and always thought about him.I finally called him a month ago and told him he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he had no idea and he thinks im the most beautiful girl in the world,he said he wished he knew but he started seeing someone a month ago and its only fair that he tells me.I told him he had to tell me to let it go and he said he cant.I ran into him a couple weeks after and we were like magnets and started kissing,until i remembered his girlfriend and told him we had to stop,again he said he wished he knew how i had felt,i told him we would be freinds because im not'that girl' he understood and again told me how he felt about me and how he wished he knew,now what do i do?its been a week since and i have not heard from him,i now have these feelings for him.

Answer 1

It's hard to be friends with a guy you had dated or have feelings for. I can't be friends with my recent boyfriend. I still love him and I think you need to not be friends with this guy. Especially since he's got a girlfriend at least until you let go of these feelings you have for him. That's my advice for you.

Answer 2

From what I'm hearing it sounds like: (him), yes I like you and have feelings but wished I've known earlier) Well, my dear, he knows now, if you haven't heard from him, I'd say move on. If he really wants to be with you (SINCE HE KNOWS NOW), he had time to let the other girl know , I think that, by you telling him of you're feelings and he kissed you, beware, for he could just be playing with you now. IT IS A POWERFUL FEELING KNOWING SOMEONE WANTS YOU, some will abuse this at there will, BE VERY CAUTIOUS!

Answer 3

You are being foolish girl.If he cared that much about you he would find a nice way to tell the other girl goodbye.Sounds like his feelings are not mutual.
Your ex cheated on you so how do you feel about cheating on the girl this guy is now with.Treat others as you wish to be treated.Don't be foolish........respect yourself and be an honest person.

Answer 4

Well, if you really like him, you need to talk to him about it. If he is seeing this girl, and he doesn't really love her as much as he love you, he really needs to break it off. On the other hand, his girlfriend would be mad at him for kissing you anyways, so does she know about you two? If you really love this guy, and you're sure that it's true, and the feeling is mutual, you need to be with him. Like I said, if he doesn't love that girl, he is just wasting his and her lives, destined to break a heart sooner or later.

Answer 5

Be strong. Let it go. The feelings are there. It's hard, but they will pass with time. It's better for you in the end to move on. You need someone who will understand and respect you. Believe in yourself. You will find him.

Answer 6

part of me wants to say to just move on but it really sounds like you and this guy could have something special in the future. so i guess my advice will be if it meant to happen it will happen so be patient.

Answer 7

that sounds like a movie plotline. If it's real love then chase after it, tell him to loose his girl and be with you. It kind of sucks for her but think about it like this, she doesn't like him as much as you do and he doesn't like her as much as he likes you. so its ultimately better

Answer 8

i think you really luv this guy and he luvs you.
forget about his gf bcoz the world is now changed everybody are rude and thinking about them selves, so u do the same. don't stress about his gf jz go on 4 ur luv.......