That's what my wife said, when she asked for a divorce.
It really hurt. All I've ever done was provide for her and the children.
I left that evening only to have her walk up to me @ a bar and say I knew she would be there with her friends. She didn't appear to be upset @ all.
It ripped my heart out.
How can you love someone too much?
2007-03-18 06:23:58 · 13 answers · asked by weazle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a lame excuse.
The only aspect where that could be applied would be in a case where someone was being stalked, but even then that's more of an obesession. She probably just didn't want to hurt your feelings with the real reason.
2007-03-18 06:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone too much. A person can smother someone too much, but that's different. And you shouldn't think that this is your fault or anything. She didn't seem to give you any warning, she just wanted the marriage over. There is a woman out there who will appreciate who you are, it just sounds like, unfortionately, you haven't found her yet.
2007-03-18 14:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by bashleyf2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant she just not the type for u and u probably force sumthin out of it she probably cares for u but she too wild u probably put 70% n she put30% into the relationship and she just dont see life the way you do i think she might have issues n like to be treatd bad n she like to have multeple partners thats why she was at the bar already tryn to meet sumone women move on alot quiker then men i belive but you should move on and belive in god everything happens for a reason and she to corruptd n you cant change her leave her to gods will
2007-03-18 13:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by sychofatmen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds as if she was feeling very overwhelmed with all the things you were doing for her and the amount of time and effort you take to show just how much you love her. It's not that she didn't appreciate it, I'm sure she did. It's just that it was too much for her.
2007-03-18 13:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they arent used to being loved that way, my ex was the same, I was the first bf she had you wanted her to do things, decide what we did, to have fun and I was there for her romatically, for support and everything, but she said it was "too much." And all I did was my best, sometimes there is nothing you can do, you just have to meet someone who realises how rare it is to truly love someone.
2007-03-18 13:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand i love my wife more then anything i just wished she loved me like i do her.u give everything u have to someone and they just walk all over u.
2007-03-18 13:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't love someone too much.... it sounds like she loves herself more than she loves you. I hope that doesn't sound harsh. Do yourself a favor and find someone who loves you as much as you do her. You deserve better.
2007-03-18 13:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by itsjustfoolishness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u could be too close to her and just split up for a little bit and if she still wants a divorce talk to her!!!
2007-03-18 13:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by christine ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about this.............she sounds a bit heartless. I wish you happiness in your future. Sounds like you would be a great catch!
2007-03-18 13:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by iam4given4sure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. problem is she didnt love you. my ex said i know how to love someone and not be with them. problem is love is more than words it takes 2
2007-03-18 13:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by rebarredforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋