tell me why sisterinlaws and motherinlaws are very cruel with
daughterinlaws , for nothing, what we can do for this , tell me
the solution for this probs.
2007-03-18 06:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by indianhuman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good luck, mine are both hideous! Maybe it's a jealousy thing?!
2007-03-18 06:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. We love my sister in law, she's great and we are really glad that someone took pity on my brother and married him. Okay that was a joke, love him too but they are just so suited for one another we are both of their cheerleaders and voice of reason when we need to be. That could be because she was around for about six years before the wedding and they have been happy for the last four years post wedding. We also were asked by the premarital therapist to be supportive to them and agree not to interfere in their lives. It was good for the whole family--her parents had to do that as well.
2007-03-18 14:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew the answer to that one I had the meanest mother in law and sister in law in the world but I divorced them when i divorced the ex and i moved so very far away it doesn't matter anymore
2007-03-18 14:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good questions. with my first mother in law I had to call her Mrs. Lewis. why I don`t know and my ex-husband said nothing about it. I am really nice to my daughter in laws it was not fun being treated like a second class citizen for no other reason then you married their son!!
2007-03-18 13:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by pheebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had a good answer for you. I know that when my ex-husband and I were dating, my mother in law saw me as er best friend. We would go shopping and to lunch together. But as soon as we got married that all stopped, and she even started to put me down. (as early as the day of our wedding) My ex-boyfriend, his sister and I were work friends and she introduced us, but when we started dateing, she stopped being as friendly to me. I don't know why this happends, but it sometimes does. I know people who have great relationships with their inlaws, and I envy them.
2007-03-18 13:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ammikins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you on this! Generally speaking, it's all in their personaliities and there isn't much you can do to avoid it. My MIL is a mother to all boys which tends to be a tougher situation for the DILs (or so I've heard)...
I recommend killing them with kindness, if they don't come around, they're not worth your time. :)
2007-03-18 13:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dorrie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they are jealous, or they think that you dont keep your husband happy or may be due to a vast difference between their culture and yours.
Specially their moral values have to be accepted for first few years.
2007-03-18 13:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Maliha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all are like that. In fact I've come to find out that it wasn't like that with me and my ex boyfriend. He's mother loved me and even though we weren't married she thought of me as her daugther in law and loved me so not all are cruel to their daugther in laws. I think it's sad for the ones that are. Why don't you talk to them and find out why they are cruel to you? Remeber not all are like that.
2007-03-18 13:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...they r cruel becoz they lose all the attention and the time they used to get by their son and bro...wat do u say????
2007-03-18 19:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by kusum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew.........my husband and i no longer have anything to do with his mother, because she had no clue how to be kind to me for the sake of her son.
2007-03-18 13:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋