Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

My boyfriend is 29, soon to be 30 this summer, and I'll be 22 at the end of the year. Just curious about what people think about age differences and how much is too much?

2007-03-18 07:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by megansa0811 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, heres how it went: we were @ the dance friday and all week hes been wondering if i really love him, then he read something i wrote for him and then erased. so he wants to know. it said i love you but i wont tell him. he figures out thats what it said and wants me to say it. he comes behind me, rest his chin on my shoulder and wraps his arm around me and says, plz say it. i say then he whispers ilove you too very quickly, then lets go and says now was that so hard.

i cant figure out if he means it or if he just wanted me to feel better.
tthe facts: we've been together for 1 month 2 weeks
we're both 14
plz dont say ur too young, too immature or anything like that plz. i dont want to read it so just dont write it. thx for ur help

2007-03-18 07:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Singles & Dating

I am writing a story and need to get inside the mind of a rapist for one of the characters so i want to ask can anyone give me some ideas of why a man would rape a woman...........all are welcome.

2007-03-18 07:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am talking about women aged 19-21.

If you example I was dating a women but was worried that she might get drunk with her mates then start kissing other guys or even cheating on me.

How can I ask her to be responsable with alcohol without sounding like a bully or control freak?

2007-03-18 07:02:52 · 14 answers · asked by Michelino 4 in Singles & Dating

my son is in love with a catholic girl who is the only child of her parents now when marriage proposal was sent by us her father says many things like 1.they are catholica and he wants his grand children to be catholics2.the girl is only child and their future becomes insecure if she marrys out of cast as their relatives disown them b/c when her parents married it was also intercast marriage

2007-03-18 07:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by saroj51 1 in Weddings

ok....wht would yall prefer...

some one who is like 5'9ish 150ish lbs ...but muscular and "Hot" but he thinks hes a "pimp" or a guy who is like 5'11, 180ish lbs but is more altheltic but not as "hot" and is new to all the relationship/love type of things, but hes nicer than the other dude??

2007-03-18 07:00:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in grade 7 and Im doing my best in school and Im responsible. But before I would lie to my parents like (say im going to my friends house for a project but really we would go out shopping and go to others ppl's houses) I would fight and swear and give them attitude. and well i regret for doing it soo much times I mean i wasnt like that before. :( but now im doing pretty great & well.but whenever i want to go to a friends house or to a party my parents r cautious who I hang out with and where Im going. They treat me like a lil kid. And im hatin it. My parents thinks i might get pregant when im young or involve myself with drugs or get myself a bad bf but still. I dont think or involve myself in that kind og stuff. it's just Im a pre-teen and I want my parents to get loose. Im going through stages and Im growing up! How do I let them to allow me to go out?? Soon I'll be in highschool I dont want them to still be like this! And I want them to trust me again. what should I do?plz help!

2007-03-18 07:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Babee Snapzz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone please do not think the worse of me cause I am hating myself enough for my situation. I have been in a relationship for over a decade now but recently I been having mixed feelings for the person I am with and with this other person I think I am beginning to have feelings for. This guy I work with seems to give me all the right signs that he is falling for me, but I am not sure what to do with it..(LOL krazy right?) I have this great guy at home yet at the same time I think I am having feelings for this guy I work with. I am so confused. Please help me think. All the advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-03-18 06:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hispanic or mexicans? no to be full of myself, but i think i a good looking guy, my friends have also said that, and why i dont have a girlfriend. idk i would like to know that to. do u like the latin heat? or????????

2007-03-18 06:59:42 · 4 answers · asked by that musican 2 in Singles & Dating

my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.i feel like the fall back to guy.she say im in her heart for marriage.
we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising then when the weekend rolls around she disappears..she tells me she needs to distance herself from me.after i tols her to tell him you still have feelings for me.she treats me like,if the relationship shes in now doesn't work i will take you back .i have asked her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that

2007-03-18 06:58:55 · 4 answers · asked by David 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 06:58:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this freind who is a girl and about 12 and is gonna 13 in December. And I am 12 and im gonna be 13 in April. Is it 2 early 2 ask her out? If not how should I? PPL say she likes me. I tryed asking her out a couple months ago over the computer but she never got it. WE ARE REALLY GOOD freinds.

2007-03-18 06:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night i was having a real down night. I was stressed and started crying. My boyfriend is a easy going mild mannered sensitive type... most of the time(We've been dating for 3 years and don't live together). So here i am crying and he's saying that he wants it tonight. while I'm sobbing. So i offer it very unethusiastically, no fore play nothing. And he still goes for it. After ward he feels bad, but that doesn't make up for what he did.

2007-03-18 06:58:07 · 10 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

means without girl a man can live their whole life

2007-03-18 06:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by nicke_kim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. My closest friends are mad at me for liking this guy who used to go out with my best friend during the time that they broke up. Now I REALLY like this guy, he's cute, smart, and funny. But I can't stand having my closest friends all mad at me. What would you do to fix this? I want to go out with the guy without having to worry about what others may think of me.

2007-03-18 06:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you get a marriage license without a ceremony? What are the requirements and how long the process takes?

2007-03-18 06:56:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been told that I use people,been called an ingrate,have a demon in me,etc...I know that I have relationship problems with my mother..which are getting worse..but I can't figure out why..my mom's very sensitive and I'm the complete opposite..for the last 2-3 weeks I've been very nice to her..we havent fought or anything..I've been nice partly because I wanted her to let me dye my hair and I'm trying to change some of my ugly ways..well now according to her the "real me" came back because of some things I did and said to her yesterday..I've apologized and everything..but that really doesnt mean anything to her..I know alot of thing are my fault because I have problems that I keep to myself and when I confront her about them she kind of attacks me..so I leave alot of things to myself..so it seems like I dont even know myself anymore on top of relationship problems with the parents..anyways do you think these problems are cause by me and how can I overcome them?

2007-03-18 06:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by Joan C 1 in Family

2007-03-18 06:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by Haiku 1 in Family

someone please tell me that it is 5 o'clock somewhere!
It is a beautiful day where I am and I'm ready to go sit on my deck with a drink. Everyone have a wonderful day!

2007-03-18 06:53:48 · 6 answers · asked by twyla 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-18 06:51:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother sprayed something in my bathroom that I am allergic to, and I went to tell her that it makes it hard for me to breathe. At this moment I coughing/choking/itchy/clogged up.

Anyway, I asked her what it was (it was hairspray) and said that it is really affecting me.

Her response was to start screaming that nothing she does is right and that I'm a b*itch, and she should just kill herself. Now she is slamming doors.

**Before anyone is rude and tells me to grow up and move out - I am an adult and do not live under her roof, but she's my mother and I have to see her.**

2007-03-18 06:51:41 · 19 answers · asked by Susan 5 in Family

i would like guys to answer this ? so i can get the answer i want from their opinion: i need to know what is the best way to ask a guy out he is a close friend that i have a major crush on and what should i do? if you guys were in this situation how would you prefer the girl to ask u??

2007-03-18 06:51:31 · 12 answers · asked by miniweasel21 1 in Singles & Dating

He said sorry to me. he told me he still love me and wants me to stay with him, but I have to give him time to break up with other girl. This is second time he cheated on me. Should I forgive him again? I love him very much. This is really hurt.

2007-03-18 06:50:41 · 30 answers · asked by lonelygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and (****) had been going out for 6 months and he was like the best thing that ever happend to me i have seriously never loved someone so much and well him and MY BEST friend are pretty close but you know i trusted both pf them so i didnt really mind but then we brok up and we were still together bcuz he told me the reasn he broke up with me was bc he thought i was moving but then i wasnt but he never asked me back out but he said he was going to and he said he still loved me but just wanted to be single so i was like ok w/e but thn i was like ok i know somthing is up with my best friend and him so i signed on to her myspace and read all the messages between him andher and they were talking about how they wanted to be alone and they loved eachother and they cant wait yto be with eachother alone so i ended it but now were ok and we have done some stuff like gf and bf do and i told himm i forgave him but still didnt have his trust, was this wrong or what just help me! plz

2007-03-18 06:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by sophia 1 in Singles & Dating

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Do they look better then hangs or fruit of the loom?

2007-03-18 06:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by gaamale79 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for just about three years to be exact. We are getting married in a matter of months. I was not rude when I asked for some space but he has a real problem just giving me 30 min to an hour alone because he feels I am trying to "push him away". I asked him if it was separation anxiety and he said "yes". He nearly was in tears. We used to have this more stable relationship and I would like to know what is going on. I don't think it's healthy to have that much of a problem with a 30 minute separation. We love each very much. He wanted to go see his parents (they live 10 minutes away) and I did not feel like it (for once) because I was not feeling well and needed space anyways, but he wold not go because I did not feel up to it and he did not want to go without me. I'm not controlling, so I don't know.

2007-03-18 06:49:39 · 11 answers · asked by sara 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

please help...

2007-03-18 06:49:02 · 10 answers · asked by zhieth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Need Advice and comments please?
Hey good morning! I am, currently working on updating my Fashion website. I added new stuff and a chat room with music? But I dont know if the colors look good or not? Im just looking for your advice or comments wether it be good or bad. I am not trying to advertise but i am really looking for other opinions. Please please please........... Thanks so much i so much appreciate it!!!! http://www.bbglam.com

2007-03-18 06:49:00 · 1 answers · asked by Faby 1 in Family

I have this annoying girl who thinks that I am her friend. I do not consider her my friend because she tells me what I can eat and can't eat. I told her bluntly that she is not going to tell me what to do and then I told her that I am going to Florida for vacation. She had the nerve to say that she will buy her plane ticket and come with me. I told her it is a family vacation for a reason. If I were going to invite friends then that is when you can come, but THIS IS A FAMILY VACATION. Then I was going to go to my uncle's 40th surprise b'day party and she said to me to tell her when they are going to have the party so that she can come. I said that this is my uncle, this is a family party. SHe is 20 years old and thinks that she is mature, but she is not. She is pest.

2007-03-18 06:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by jazzy girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, he says he will allways love me, and says he will never dump me. But now he has started to avoid me at school, and weekends. I don't want to talk to him about it because it allways causes arguments - i hate arguing! He is a very kind, caring and trustworthy boyfriend, and i love him more than words can say, i dont mean to sound sloppy! lol, but i realy need some advice, its confussing me! I am only 13, and we have been together for 3 months, i love him so much! Please help? x x

2007-03-18 06:47:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce