He said sorry to me. he told me he still love me and wants me to stay with him, but I have to give him time to break up with other girl. This is second time he cheated on me. Should I forgive him again? I love him very much. This is really hurt.
2007-03-18 06:50:41 · 30 answers · asked by lonelygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts, but I really don't think you should. This is the second time this has happened, so it seems like a pattern is developing. Find someone who loves you and treats you like you deserve to be treated. good luck
2007-03-18 06:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a dog always a dog!! he has cheated on u 2 times already, waht makes u think he won't keep on doing it?? if he really loved u, he wouldn't cheat on u for 2 reasons. the fist reason why he wouldnt cheat on u is because he loves u. the second reason he woulddnt cheat on u is because u get hurt. if he loevd u, he would do even the imposible so he would not see u get hurt. he keeps hurting u sweety, there are other fish in the sea. dont forgive him,u already gave him a chance he blew it. now he must suffer the consequences, leave him. dont go back to him. stay as friends, and that s a lot. but dont go back to him, he'll keep hurting u. again ONCE A DOG, ALWAYS A DOG!!!
2007-03-18 06:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say..once you forgive they seem to think it is okay to do it again, because, hey you accepted it the first time he did it so you will accept it the second time. Trust me a dog never changes. And why should you have to give him time to break up with her. If he loves you then it should be easy to tell the other girl he is finished with her. Not too hard to figure this one out honey. He is no good.
2007-03-18 06:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget hun, he's cheating on you and her. That's two people he's hurt without thinking about it. The chances are there may be others as well as you two. Dump him and find someone who will treat you with respect. There is never any excuse for cheating. If you want someone else then you should get out of the first relationship before you start one with someone else. Do yourself a favour and show yourself some respect by dumping him and making sure you never do to anyone what he's done to you. Hope you find someone nice hun.
2007-03-18 07:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. So what she is gay. She has a vagina, she is a woman. era. what's that meant to do,take you off the course..? She is a professional and is used to dealing with jealous girlfriends. She of direction will lie because of the fact, study between the strains. She suggested she is approximately getting money. e gave her $2 hundred.00 money. Oh rather? He has money to spend on different woman. Does he placed money into you like that? the certainty hurts yet he has got here upon an pastime. What concerns now's what do you % to do approximately it. he's crying because of the fact he's an actor and a drama king. sure adult males might nicely be dramatic, emotional and manipulative too. i might play lifeless to seize flies. What I mean with the help of this is to close it down. Do nt point out it. forgive him. Watch his face e book, his telephone etc, yet do no longer enable him be attentive to what you're are doing. "save a watch on what is going on. Dont enable him be attentive to. Be quiet approximately it . Now in case you seize him nonetheless cheating then , you do what's maximum suitable .. flow on. it may harm yet in the lengthy run, if this cheating is something which you do no longer welcome then regrettably he's not for you. additionally bear in mind that those females won't be "clean", have STD's etc. I mean you in elementary terms don't be attentive to. I tis no longer a secure prepare. he's not rather worth jeopardizing your well-being and life for.
2016-10-19 00:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um lemme say this and hope you understand there is a saying that goes something like this "first time your an a*s second time i'm an a*s" baby, there has been one to many times for you to just forgive and forget....no you have had years with this boy and i am sorry he was selfish. but you deserve someone who wants you and only you. don't give him a chance....you'll marry and he'll be bringing women into your bedroom for the rest of your life
2007-03-18 07:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by TPete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't just cheat, he had a whole other relationship. I don't think that I could believe what he says anymore. If you keep forgiving him, he'll know that he can do this and all he has to do is say sorry and you'll forgive him again.
2007-03-18 06:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it hurts! The guy's a rat. First time he cheated - shame on him. Second time he cheated - shame on you. Give him a chance and you'll get hurt a third time - who can you blame then? Bounce this bozo out of your life, lick your wounds, and move on to someone you can trust. Loving someone shouldn't be so painful.
2007-03-18 06:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. he's playing you. how much time does a person need to break up with their other girlfriend. that's just a ploy for him to keep dating you both. 4 years is a long time but if he's cheated on you the whole time he doesnt love you. if you dont accept that your pain will just continue.
2007-03-18 06:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please save yourself the unnecessary heartache and pain with dealing with this guy. He seems as though he is not ready to be in a relationship with one woman. You don't "have to give him time to break up with the other girl". I am sure she was aware of you and the relationship. Let her have him and free yourself up for a man who will treat you with respect. I was in a similar situation and after much thought and prayer, I realized I deserved better. Take care of YOU first!
2007-03-18 06:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋