Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

theres this girl dat i really like. before christmas i told her i liked her and she told me that i was just sayin it to annoy her. then couple of my friends toldher nd she said dat i didnt nd i was jokin. I really like her and now a friend o mine has decided that he likes her nd spends alot of time with her. he already has a girlfriend but now he said that he loves the girl i love, but shedoesnt believe him. i've been ignorin her for the last few weeks nd my firends say she's been getting depressed since i stopped talkin to her and everytime she see's me she keeps staring at me. help!!!!!!!!

2007-03-18 07:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by moo moo 123 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have intimate friend that you tell everything and consult him/her in your life and troubles ... would you take his/her advise if you stumble in your love issues ... getting deep into your privacy, would that help construct or destruct a love building?

2007-03-18 07:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Like does he act differently around you? Or act stupid?

2007-03-18 07:28:05 · 13 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

I personally don't like chicks who moan too much, because then I think it sounds fake and like they're just acting.

I like it better when I can tell a girl tries to hold it in but can't. ha ha..

2007-03-18 07:28:05 · 12 answers · asked by The Don 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend while studying abroad, and for the past few months we have kept a strong long distance relationship. There has always been something bothering him, and just yesterday he told me what it was.

He was born with extra bones in his left arm and leg, and will have them removed by surgery. At the moment, he already had one operation on his arm, which I knew about, and it left a not-so-pretty scar.

Just image that this guy fits all characteristical qualities: loyal, honest, open, encouraging, etc...but physically, he was not what was expect. I do not mean to sound shallow.

I do not judge someone based on outward appearances firstly. But, he has told me that it is my choice if I want to find someone better, such as in appearences. He wants the best for me.

He is from another country, culture, and religion, as well.

What would you do?

2007-03-18 07:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy for 2 yrs & he treated me very well during that 2 yrs, very loving, caring, etc... Ever since his dad pass away a yr ago however, his mom became needy, then he started to get confuse about what he wants, his career, his religion, etc... We were suppose to get engage this yr but he told me that as much as he love me, care for me, he can't make any commitment right now until he figure his stuff out, he needs more time. I told him that I don't mind sticking by him while he work thru things, but if he love me, he should know that he wants to be with me, I don't want to take the backseat to everything else in his life, maybe we should breakup then if he's not sure and we did, but he said he still love me and care for me. NEway, it's been 2 wks now, he didn't even call once, I call him couple of times but he didn't pick up or return my calls/text/etc... I just been in a car accident & text him about it, still no call from him. I'm confuse, does he stop caring 4 me?

2007-03-18 07:27:10 · 2 answers · asked by Beotch4Life 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a girl but my ex said if i dont sleep with her shell like and tell the cops i raped her should i do it???

2007-03-18 07:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look what i found...

You might agree with it, but when it actually
happens 99% of girls dont realize it 'til it is too late and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who will take notice.

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait
till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON'T "FEEL BAD"

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and

say "thank you."

Kiss us when no

one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ***, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER
RESPECT


Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your
lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..



........AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

Give the nice guys a chance


Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all girls read this.

2007-03-18 07:25:54 · 1 answers · asked by Chinaman0389 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 07:25:53 · 1 answers · asked by pam f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

vPlain and simple. Unless I go through a phase of awkward one line conversations with a person (usually with someone I've been forced to be around at school or work or something) I can't have a normal conversation with anyone. As a result I'm 20, have been on ONE date (the girl lost intrest because I couldn't have a good conversation) and have little friends. Problem is, I can't really practice talking to people because I can't hold a conversation. What do I do?

2007-03-18 07:25:52 · 2 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 30 now still having a healthy hairs, but currently thinking of searching for a safe and effective way to permanently get rid of my hairs, I plan to stay bald for life. I alway admire those guys who naturally become bald head when they are 20-30 year old. I have problem shaving my head bald because both of my parents disagree & we have a lot of urgentment when i keep on shaving my head bald. I plan to terminate all my hairs & if my parents find out my hair cannot grow again, they will start to accept that i want to be bald for life. Do you think it worth doing or not. Pls give me some answer. Don't need to worry about my feeling. Just tell the true. ( If you think it is stupid / foolish to do it just say it )

2007-03-18 07:25:17 · 12 answers · asked by andrew240577 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

" How old are you? how many serious relationships have you had? how many 'fun' / Non-serious relasionships have you had ('flings')? How many sexual partners have you had? what country do you live in?If you dont feel comfortable answering any of these questions, then dont. "

that was my question, and it was removed.
Do you think it was because i asked how many sexual partners uve had? but ive seen loads of questions like that on here.
I dont think theres anything wrong with it, do you?,,,,,,feel free to answer my questions if you want!. :-)

2007-03-18 07:25:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

should we(us 12 yr olds) have sex if its avaliable? is it okay? is getting high and drunk ok 2 if its fun?

2007-03-18 07:24:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 07:24:32 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was mad at him because he just put a hickey on my neck.

I said "i'm mad at you because you just licked and bit a red spot on my neck. pop another one on there and i'm gonna pop you."
my best guyfriend said, "i'll pop more than that. (meaning pop my cherry or have sex with me)

what does that suppose to mean or is he joking

2007-03-18 07:24:31 · 11 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 07:24:30 · 15 answers · asked by freeatlast16th 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Say your girl friend just broke up with you because of a location change. You are in one state she is in another and the long distance thing i guess was not working out. When your birthday comes around she gives you underwear as a present (ex. boxers). She said she was going to go out on some date with her girl fiends because a couple guys asked them to. Basically she was planning on meeting another guy. She mailed the gift to me and I told her that i could not accept underwear from a "friend." She got all mad and talked about how much i hurt her or whatever. Does anyone think i did anything wrong? ( Ladies think of it as a ex boy friend sent you a thong or panties i guess)

2007-03-18 07:22:17 · 13 answers · asked by Mr Cool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 07:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Some things about her she Loves pink. She would really enjoy doing anything but i want to make this speacial

2007-03-18 07:21:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

then why should we remain stuck in the same marriage,,although we are sure that we can do better in the next attempt.
please give funny answers....

2007-03-18 07:20:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think it is (spoken like a true guy who has never had a gf)! I think we like to believe it is. Seems like a tool to help us cope with society. Sad.

2007-03-18 07:20:41 · 17 answers · asked by OrangeBunny 2 in Singles & Dating

i went to my friend's wedding and after the ceremony she sang to him.its said ''if ia sked you to catch a falling star you would catch..." and it was so beautiful. all i know is that a girl sings it!!!!!!!please help me.

2007-03-18 07:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by hot stuff 1 in Weddings

2 years ago my husband cheated ending my marriage. I met a man 9 months ago. He was loving & understanding.seemed besotted by me.one night he said do you want to have a baby with me. We had unprotected sex. This happened twice. When I told him I was pregnant he was surprised and said he had withdrawn before he came. He asked me to have an abortion.I miscarried. We cont.. to see each other but I was emotionally up and down. He wasnt understanding. The other day he stopped contacting me and has completely ignored me. Although knowing the relationship was wrong for me. I just wanted some kind of dissusion about closure. I sent a couple of emails I tried to be very polite & articulate even when discussing my hurt. Being sensitive this has really hurt me.the silence is just horrible. My trust of men is at an all time low. Why would someone who seemed so in love be so cruel? How do I overcome the mistrust I feel?

2007-03-18 07:18:59 · 22 answers · asked by Bridget A 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i am twenty-one years old and I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Within our 1st year of dating i became pregnant and we both decided that we wern't ready for a child so we decided to go with adoption rather then having an abortion.So during the next year our realationship was extremly rocky because both of our familes didn't understand why were still 2gether since we decided to give the baby up for adoption. But we knew that we loved eachother and we would just stick it out. So then during the next year my boyfriend began going out with his friends all the time, so i decided that i would go out to, so we both ended up cheating on eachother during that period of time, we both completley regret and we both blame it on eachother. we say we love eachother but i honestly think the truth is that we are both just used to eachother. So now i am to the point where i want to end it but im just scared that i will be making a mistake?! Well I would love any and all comments.Thanks

2007-03-18 07:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by Ashlee 2 in Singles & Dating

A woman is more respected if she does not have sex until marriage....

2007-03-18 07:18:13 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

yesterday i went out with a gruop we were like 4 boys(including me) and 6 girls and i new 2 of the girls. one of em invited me really i was really shy and didn't talk much and stayed at a side almost all the time like the last 30min i talked but just alil with 1 of the guys 3 girls one of em was the girl i new.

it was my first tme going out with a group i don't go out much reallly i don't even go out with friends and it was my first time aroung girls cuz in my school boys and girls r sperte.

can anyone tell me how not to be that shy pls or not look so much?

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can anyone tell me wat should i dress like even they ever invite me agian?

and does anyone now if i botherd em or something even though they say i didn't i donnu maybe they just said it so they don't hurt me or something

2007-03-18 07:17:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In this country at least, seems to be status quo that if you try to be both, something must be wrong with you. If you're personally not afraid to resort to violence or some type of self-defense, naturally as a last resort, you're stereotyped as a retarded Neanderthal, pretentious macho man. But if you resort solely to a battle of wits, you're a p*ssy? Why are people afraid to be both? And why are people so terrified of people who aren't afraid to be both?

2007-03-18 07:17:02 · 9 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, my "friend" is dateing this guy, and i really like him! I have known her since 3rd grade, and we decided, that friends are 4ever, boys are whatever. in other words, if we both liked a guy, nether of us would date him. but she has broken that promise 2 times. and i never have. i'm sooo sick of how she is always talking about him, and how much she "loves" him! and it's really geting old! they are 12 and they, really bug me. he says that they aren't obsesed, bu they live 4 eachother! literally!
when we were hanging out, i was going 2 spend the night at her house, but she didn't want me to cuz they wanted 2 make out!she said that they dont trust me, and that hurt. cuz she iz my "bff" and now she iz acting like she didn't do anything bad!

2007-03-18 07:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by baseballgirl46 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, like about 2 weeks ago, i was talking to 2 different guys. The first guy is like really sweet and we have alot in common and we talk a whole lot. And i really REALLY like him. And the other guy just sort came along kinda late. And he's asking me to hang out but if i do, i'll feel kinda like i'm cheating on the other guy. The one irealy really like. So how do i let the 2nd guyd down. Do i hang out with him like once jsut to idk.. or do i just let him down somehow?

2007-03-18 07:16:59 · 2 answers · asked by Jade B 1 in Singles & Dating

i got my last grades in english yesterday and they are d's and f's, how do i tell my parents??? i am a b and a student!!! i need help!!!!!

2007-03-18 07:15:52 · 6 answers · asked by The Cutest Thing Ever 2 in Family