ok, my "friend" is dateing this guy, and i really like him! I have known her since 3rd grade, and we decided, that friends are 4ever, boys are whatever. in other words, if we both liked a guy, nether of us would date him. but she has broken that promise 2 times. and i never have. i'm sooo sick of how she is always talking about him, and how much she "loves" him! and it's really geting old! they are 12 and they, really bug me. he says that they aren't obsesed, bu they live 4 eachother! literally!
when we were hanging out, i was going 2 spend the night at her house, but she didn't want me to cuz they wanted 2 make out!she said that they dont trust me, and that hurt. cuz she iz my "bff" and now she iz acting like she didn't do anything bad!
2007-03-18 07:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by baseballgirl46 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go up and talk to her about how you feel. If you've known her since 3rd grade, I'm pretty sure you both can handle this. Tell her, "I thought you said friends are forever... boys are whatever?" I think this will get her thinking, kind of just make her feel guilty for what she's done. She's broken too much promises and you have to confront her about what's on your mind.
Good luck!
2007-03-18 07:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by hey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you can always count on in life is that people will let you down.
They don't always mean to, it's just the way life is. People will put themselves first, and sometimes when they do you get the short end of the stick.
Don't dwell on it, but keep it in mind when you rely on others.
I have a fantastic family and a really terrific group of friends that I'd go that extra mile for, but every last one has let me down at some point. They really do still love me, it's just human nature at play.
What your friend did was wrong, and selfish, but also very typical of what people do when the choice is making you happy or themselves.
Move on and ignore their self absorbed words and actions.
In the meantime, try to hang with your other friends more, until the inevitable happens and your bff breaks up.
2007-03-18 07:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-26 05:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by susie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Your friend is being a real ****. Just go to her and honestly tell her how u feel. Shed a few tears, and be honest with her. I'm sure she'll understand. You on the other hand are a really good friend, so remember U ARE NOT AT ALL AT FAULT
2007-03-18 07:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥ღ latoya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo, they're twelve. It's only puppy love, don't let it go to your head. In a week or so she'll break up with him and all she'll talk about is how annoying he was...
2007-03-18 07:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your question? You trusted her, she lost it and made you less important. I think that this would be a little too much, I mean have a distance to her or something... don't let her hurt you again, you're not worth it.
2007-03-18 07:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU just said the MAGIC WORDS----'they are 12' WHEN YOU GROW UP, YOU'LL FIND OUT THAT YOU SHOULD NEVER MAKE " DEALS " LIKE THAT !!!!!-----NOW GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN!!!!
2007-03-18 07:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do what she wants, don't get made just go on, she'll probably get over him farely quick and she'll come back to you, but if i were you just watch yourself if she ever does it again
2007-03-18 07:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by ashmep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont do this at twelve........pick up a book and read instead
2007-03-18 07:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by i am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋