should we(us 12 yr olds) have sex if its avaliable? is it okay? is getting high and drunk ok 2 if its fun?
2007-03-18 07:24:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the age to have sex is the time when you know the consequences of having sex and the responsabilitys of having sex. so if you know the consequences and responsabilitys of having sex then you are ready.
2007-03-18 10:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by wichmannbrandon 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you pay your own bills, work for your own living and the lives of any children you might bring into the world from having "sex if its available". Do you have your own health insurance and insurance to cover the cost of a birth and the well being of a child? Don't use welfare or medicaid because I DON'T WANT TO PAY FOR YOUR CHILD. I have my own children to take care of and raise. Why should my tax dollars go to your's?
Can you be mature enough to take what life throws at you after having a child? How will you finish school? Do you think your parents should raise another kid?
Secondly, drinking and drugs....Pretty much the same thing above applies. You want to feel "grown up" wait until you are out of highschool and living on your own.
Your 12. It is still time for Barbie dolls and hotwheels. Get involved in sports. Talk on the phone. See a movie. Get a skateboard. Ride a bike. Do a craft. Gawd, be a kid. The time to do so is so short.
2007-03-18 07:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
GOOD LORD!!! No it's not OK!!! What on earth are you thinking?!?! See, this is the BS that the world puts into young minds, that it's ok to do these things just for fun.. ITS NOT. Sex at your young age, can screw you up for life.. what if you got pregnant??? or got an STD, then what?! you'll have to live with that for the rest of your life... and the drugs... OIY!! NO, do you not see the people who say "oh I just to 1 hit of pot..." and now they're strung out on meth, or heroin??? It's because after time they didn't get the same "high" with just pot... SO NO it's not ok... I don't want my kids growing up in a world where they've got YOUR generation to look up to.
2007-03-18 07:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No! At 12 you have not reached full maturity (don't take offense to this, most people just don't mature completely until they are at least 18). Your decision making skills are not completely honed (plus, the whole "sex is saved for marriage" really is true). It doesn't matter if getting drunk and high is fun, it is stupid. You will get hurt.
2007-03-18 07:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tori C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was 13 when I first had sex but my gf was 12. Nine months later we were parnets of a baby girl. So no 12 or 13 yr olds should not have sex.
2007-03-18 07:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Martin A Neville 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
NO WAY. There's never a time when it's okay to have sex, get high, or get drunk at any age. I'm also that age and I'd never do anything like that before I was married and i'd never get high at all.
2007-03-18 07:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO its not ok do u want to be a parent at 12? and u should not do drugs or drink.
2007-03-18 07:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No no and no to all three. None of those are going to do anything but mess up your life. At 12 you don't even know who you are let alone someone else. it's not worth it and you should wait wait wait!
2007-03-18 07:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO WAY! SHOULD 12 YEAR OLD KIDS HAVE SEX OR GET DRUNK USE CO-MEN SENS
2007-03-18 08:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by thomas 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God no !!! All of you are way too young even to be getting high for gods sake !!! And never get laid untill your 23 or something close to that !!!
2007-03-18 07:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Elena 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋