I've been with this guy for 2 yrs & he treated me very well during that 2 yrs, very loving, caring, etc... Ever since his dad pass away a yr ago however, his mom became needy, then he started to get confuse about what he wants, his career, his religion, etc... We were suppose to get engage this yr but he told me that as much as he love me, care for me, he can't make any commitment right now until he figure his stuff out, he needs more time. I told him that I don't mind sticking by him while he work thru things, but if he love me, he should know that he wants to be with me, I don't want to take the backseat to everything else in his life, maybe we should breakup then if he's not sure and we did, but he said he still love me and care for me. NEway, it's been 2 wks now, he didn't even call once, I call him couple of times but he didn't pick up or return my calls/text/etc... I just been in a car accident & text him about it, still no call from him. I'm confuse, does he stop caring 4 me?
2007-03-18 07:27:10 · 2 answers · asked by Beotch4Life 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to tell you this, but if he is paying more attention to your mom then you, then you do have a problem. I understand that his father has died, but she needs to TRY to move along. He isn't coming back and she needs to realize that she needs to move on. You need to find him, and tell him that she needs to tell her that she needs to move on, and that he misses you and he loves you, and can't be be with his mom everday. Then he might start pay attention to you again. And also you need to make sure you tell him that you are 1,000% behind him. Don't dump him because his mom really needs him right now. Don't worry he will come back to you soon. You need to stand behind him so when a major thing happens in your family he will be with you 1,000%. Im sure he is sitting there thinking about how much he misses you. Good luck and I hope I have helped.
2007-03-18 07:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by volleyballis4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok that was one of the most cruel things you could have done first the guy needs to figure out his **** and this makes love unclear and to add to the stress he is putting himself through you dumped him thats not the way to get engaged Im sure he loves you so much he just needed to get his **** together for the bettter and it takes a man to say that I cant believe you dumped him i wouldnt return you calls either because that is so cold hearted and selfish telling a guy that you cant be with him if your not his first priority sure it should be true but if he has stress he needs to figiure that out before he can get into marriage and fully commit 100% if you were smart you would apologize to him before its to late becaue if I was that guy I would feel like my world is fallin apart being a lover takes understanding and aybe you were not the one ready for marriage because you did not understand his situation
thats all I have to say
2007-03-18 14:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by tobosahge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋